Anonymous
Post 07/27/2023 19:56     Subject: Re:My husband believes we seriously live in a matriarchy
Anonymous wrote:Speaking as a minority (AAPI), white men are 100% the most vilified members of society, and anti-white bias is the only remaining acceptable form of racism.


I feel like the only time they are vilified though is when they are complaining about something being unfair or justifying bad behavior. On a regular basis I only hear vilifying when it comes to white men who shoot others. White men who make fun of others. It’s not really something about them that others are putting down. It’s more like they got caught in a crime and some man says it’s unfair and that’s when you hear people come out and complain.
Anonymous
Post 07/27/2023 19:53     Subject: My husband believes we seriously live in a matriarchy
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My husband too! Any time I point out discrimination against women, he immediately counters with how oppressed white men are these days, and how the tables have turned against him.


My husband too!! When did white men become oppressed? I thought they were the oppressors?


In what way? I’m trying to understand how woman are paid 83.1% of what men are paid (per 2021 numbers), don’t have rights over their own reproductive system in at least a third of the states (as of 2023), are 10% of Fortune 500 CEOs (as of 2023) , dropped out of the workforce more when COVID hit due to family responsibilities AND still handle most of the household tasks even when working full time per every survey I’ve seen. How can white men be the most oppressed and still on top by every metric or is this a “compared to 1950 when it was okay that women made 60% of what men made …”.

My favorite is the “oh you can’t say anything without …” and yet do you think people in the past didn’t have to hold their tongue against true injustice to keep their jobs or even their lives? My parents definitely had to in order to stay employed.


Women earn less because they, by choice, select careers and jobs that pay less. Typically because they are less unpleasant and more flexible jobs.

This has been asked and answered in DOL studies since as early as the Clinton era.


Hardly
Anonymous
Post 07/27/2023 19:44     Subject: Re:My husband believes we seriously live in a matriarchy
Anonymous wrote:Speaking as a minority (AAPI), white men are 100% the most vilified members of society, and anti-white bias is the only remaining acceptable form of racism.


100%

It’s a testament to overall human good that more non-whites haven’t taken full advantage of the license to discriminate.
Anonymous
Post 07/27/2023 19:41     Subject: Re:My husband believes we seriously live in a matriarchy
Anonymous wrote:Your husband is right but he doesn't know why. This ship we call Earth has a very dark secret. VERY DARK. Not my place to reveal but it will be revealed. You don't need research to see the obvious. THEY want you fighting about who is in charge.
You are both in charge. We all need some sweet loving vibrations.


Yeah but what. is. the. Matrix?!
Anonymous
Post 07/27/2023 19:39     Subject: My husband believes we seriously live in a matriarchy
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'm not so sure about that...but the one thing I'm sure of, is that heterosexual white men are the single most attacked and hated group in large cities right now...


If that is true I think it's because a recent phenomenon is that previously more timid people have become emboldened to lash out at whoever annoys them whether it's legitimately justified or not, whether it's well thought out or not, whether it's simply ignorant bias or not, everybody thinks they can just attack and say whatever pops into their head. I'm pretty sure it was a heterosexual white man who made everybody feel that way back in 2015/16 and it looks like there is no going back now.


I mean or basic math. Heterosexual white men are the largest segment of the population likely to be engaged in violent crime.


Probably because they’re tied for first in being the largest segment of the population. That’s like saying black men are the largest segment of the population to have an iPhone in Botswana.
Anonymous
Post 07/27/2023 19:39     Subject: My husband believes we seriously live in a matriarchy
My xDH said sh*t like this. If it’s a matriarchy, you’d think I’d have better luck getting him to do even a small amount of domestic labor …
Anonymous
Post 07/27/2023 19:31     Subject: My husband believes we seriously live in a matriarchy
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My husband too! Any time I point out discrimination against women, he immediately counters with how oppressed white men are these days, and how the tables have turned against him.


My husband too!! When did white men become oppressed? I thought they were the oppressors?


In what way? I’m trying to understand how woman are paid 83.1% of what men are paid (per 2021 numbers), don’t have rights over their own reproductive system in at least a third of the states (as of 2023), are 10% of Fortune 500 CEOs (as of 2023) , dropped out of the workforce more when COVID hit due to family responsibilities AND still handle most of the household tasks even when working full time per every survey I’ve seen. How can white men be the most oppressed and still on top by every metric or is this a “compared to 1950 when it was okay that women made 60% of what men made …”.

My favorite is the “oh you can’t say anything without …” and yet do you think people in the past didn’t have to hold their tongue against true injustice to keep their jobs or even their lives? My parents definitely had to in order to stay employed.


Women earn less because they, by choice, select careers and jobs that pay less. Typically because they are less unpleasant and more flexible jobs.

This has been asked and answered in DOL studies since as early as the Clinton era.


Yeah, but that's not a good talking point.
Anonymous
Post 07/27/2023 19:24     Subject: My husband believes we seriously live in a matriarchy
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My husband too! Any time I point out discrimination against women, he immediately counters with how oppressed white men are these days, and how the tables have turned against him.


My husband too!! When did white men become oppressed? I thought they were the oppressors?


In what way? I’m trying to understand how woman are paid 83.1% of what men are paid (per 2021 numbers), don’t have rights over their own reproductive system in at least a third of the states (as of 2023), are 10% of Fortune 500 CEOs (as of 2023) , dropped out of the workforce more when COVID hit due to family responsibilities AND still handle most of the household tasks even when working full time per every survey I’ve seen. How can white men be the most oppressed and still on top by every metric or is this a “compared to 1950 when it was okay that women made 60% of what men made …”.

My favorite is the “oh you can’t say anything without …” and yet do you think people in the past didn’t have to hold their tongue against true injustice to keep their jobs or even their lives? My parents definitely had to in order to stay employed.


Women earn less because they, by choice, select careers and jobs that pay less. Typically because they are less unpleasant and more flexible jobs.

This has been asked and answered in DOL studies since as early as the Clinton era.
Anonymous
Post 07/27/2023 18:28     Subject: My husband believes we seriously live in a matriarchy
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My husband too! Any time I point out discrimination against women, he immediately counters with how oppressed white men are these days, and how the tables have turned against him.


My husband too!! When did white men become oppressed? I thought they were the oppressors?


In what way? I’m trying to understand how woman are paid 83.1% of what men are paid (per 2021 numbers), don’t have rights over their own reproductive system in at least a third of the states (as of 2023), are 10% of Fortune 500 CEOs (as of 2023) , dropped out of the workforce more when COVID hit due to family responsibilities AND still handle most of the household tasks even when working full time per every survey I’ve seen. How can white men be the most oppressed and still on top by every metric or is this a “compared to 1950 when it was okay that women made 60% of what men made …”.

My favorite is the “oh you can’t say anything without …” and yet do you think people in the past didn’t have to hold their tongue against true injustice to keep their jobs or even their lives? My parents definitely had to in order to stay employed.
Anonymous
Post 07/26/2023 19:57     Subject: Re:My husband believes we seriously live in a matriarchy
Anonymous wrote:White men read criticism as being attacked. I think this is what they mean. That they feel attacked by other's words.


lol you are projecting classic female behavior onto men.
Anonymous
Post 07/26/2023 19:23     Subject: My husband believes we seriously live in a matriarchy
Anonymous wrote:My husband too! Any time I point out discrimination against women, he immediately counters with how oppressed white men are these days, and how the tables have turned against him.

At least he admits at anytime they were in his favor…
Anonymous
Post 07/26/2023 19:20     Subject: Re:My husband believes we seriously live in a matriarchy
Your husband is right but he doesn't know why. This ship we call Earth has a very dark secret. VERY DARK. Not my place to reveal but it will be revealed. You don't need research to see the obvious. THEY want you fighting about who is in charge.
You are both in charge. We all need some sweet loving vibrations.
Anonymous
Post 07/26/2023 17:40     Subject: My husband believes we seriously live in a matriarchy
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:White heterosexual men are (were?) losing their position of extreme privilege. It probably feels like discrimination.


Scott Galloway (NYU Prof). Speaks in this frequently with actual data to support Young men are literally in decline and they aren’t having sex.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=EPZQ_Ed4ao0


"Scott Galloway (NYU Prof)"... of MARKETING.

"Young men are literally in decline"

Decline? Do MtF transitions outnumber FtM? Are parents selectively aborting?

When you are accustomed to privilege, equality looks like oppression.



You clearly have not read any of his research.
Anonymous
Post 07/26/2023 17:32     Subject: Re:My husband believes we seriously live in a matriarchy
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:White men read criticism as being attacked. I think this is what they mean. That they feel attacked by other's words. I'm not sure what the other men of other races think of words being a large scale attack.


Men of other races don't feel threatened by women, because feminism only works for white women.


Anonymous
Post 07/26/2023 17:20     Subject: My husband believes we seriously live in a matriarchy
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'm not so sure about that...but the one thing I'm sure of, is that heterosexual white men are the single most attacked and hated group in large cities right now...


I mean other than women seeking healthcare? Not a lot of white heterosexual men bleeding out in bathrooms my dude…


Huh?