Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Fine or be decent and reduce it more so she does not need a mortgage.
You have no obligation to ensure she doesn’t need a mortgage.
I think $150k is fair, plus whatever possessions in the house you’d be interred in (perhaps there are none).
Mom was a hoarder!![]()
Luckily my parents were not hoarders! But my father had valuable hunting rifles that my sister has taken home to have her boyfriend sell. I don't have any expertise in this area and just know their listed value. I'm assuming that I'll never see this money.
You are being a pushover. Tell sis that you want $150k and 50% of the value of the guns. Put it in writing. Who cares if she needs a mortgage? As you mentioned above, you are putting your family at risk by maintaining your ownership of the home. Take care of this asap.
WTF is wrong with you? It's his sister.
Anonymous wrote:Let her buy you out at $150k and be done with it. You get the funds, she gets the house at a little bit of a discount, and you all can move on.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Fine or be decent and reduce it more so she does not need a mortgage.
You have no obligation to ensure she doesn’t need a mortgage.
I think $150k is fair, plus whatever possessions in the house you’d be interred in (perhaps there are none).
Mom was a hoarder!![]()
Luckily my parents were not hoarders! But my father had valuable hunting rifles that my sister has taken home to have her boyfriend sell. I don't have any expertise in this area and just know their listed value. I'm assuming that I'll never see this money.
You are being a pushover. Tell sis that you want $150k and 50% of the value of the guns. Put it in writing. Who cares if she needs a mortgage? As you mentioned above, you are putting your family at risk by maintaining your ownership of the home. Take care of this asap.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Fine or be decent and reduce it more so she does not need a mortgage.
You have no obligation to ensure she doesn’t need a mortgage.
I think $150k is fair, plus whatever possessions in the house you’d be interred in (perhaps there are none).
Mom was a hoarder!![]()
Luckily my parents were not hoarders! But my father had valuable hunting rifles that my sister has taken home to have her boyfriend sell. I don't have any expertise in this area and just know their listed value. I'm assuming that I'll never see this money.
You are being a pushover. Tell sis that you want $150k and 50% of the value of the guns. Put it in writing. Who cares if she needs a mortgage? As you mentioned above, you are putting your family at risk by maintaining your ownership of the home. Take care of this asap.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:You ask for exactly 1/2 of whatever you two get for the house after realtor fees.
There aren’trealtor fees. Read the OP.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Reputation for taking advantage of you?
Sounds like you and your husbands allow that.
Anyway, I would keep the share a few years and let it appreciate more and then use it to fund college or retirement.
^^not this.
go with the $150,000 — although I’m curious how this plays out if she tries to counter. Or if she’ll try to get you to basically hold the mortgage loan and she’ll want to make payments to you. which seems not ideal.
Anonymous wrote:Let her buy you out at $150k and be done with it. You get the funds, she gets the house at a little bit of a discount, and you all can move on.
Anonymous wrote:You ask for exactly 1/2 of whatever you two get for the house after realtor fees.
Anonymous wrote:Get an appraisal, half the value after realtor/transaction fees.
Does your sister have the money? Will she need to get a mortgage?
Anonymous wrote:Get an appraisal, half the value after realtor/transaction fees.
Does your sister have the money? Will she need to get a mortgage?