Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It's reasonable, we had/have a lot of drama on our team (soccer) around who plays center back. It is incredibly critical but most kids (including mine!) hate it. If you told us he'd be
in that spot next season we would have walked.
Why do kids hate it?
They want to score goals.
If you make a mistake as a forward or mid, the backs are there to cover for you and no one criticizes. But when you make a great play. everyone cheers. The defenders are criticized for every mistake but no one gets excited when they do their job well.
Exactly, this was 11v11 and we played 4-3-3 with the left and right backs as wing backs (and thus part of the offense). When we played well the CB's would sit near the mid line most the game with occasional bursts of terror when a long ball or sprinter went past them. Every mistake they made that led to a goal is super obvious whereas our offense never scored and no one said anything as they missed open goals time after time.
Most kids want to be involved in the play at least, even if they aren't scoring. It's also seen as where less skilled but bigger but still athletic kids play.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Have you talked to the coach?
I would talk to the coach before you think about trying out for other teams. If the coach is not responsive, then perhaps.
Personally, it will likely not work in your favor to tryout for another team with the specifics of a position. If your player is playing at a certain position, at age 12, s/he probably picked up some of the nuances that help stick out in a tryout. Trying out for a position they don't usually play, might be a risk.
Assuming this is a travel sport , bc tryouts.
I am the PP. I have reviewed calls from 6 new teams within the last two weeks about my kid playing with other teams. He has played with 3 teams in the spring and the only one he isn’t playing the position he wants is the team he is committed to and that he is not playing his desired position. A good coach knows if a player is developing. If he can’t see that my son isn’t, it’s not the right situation.
How does one manage three teams? Our AAU team has clear positions and our coach would not appreciate being told a player wants to play a different position. Don't they all want to be PG or SG?
Anonymous wrote:.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Have you talked to the coach?
I would talk to the coach before you think about trying out for other teams. If the coach is not responsive, then perhaps.
Personally, it will likely not work in your favor to tryout for another team with the specifics of a position. If your player is playing at a certain position, at age 12, s/he probably picked up some of the nuances that help stick out in a tryout. Trying out for a position they don't usually play, might be a risk.
Assuming this is a travel sport , bc tryouts.
I am the PP. I have reviewed calls from 6 new teams within the last two weeks about my kid playing with other teams. He has played with 3 teams in the spring and the only one he isn’t playing the position he wants is the team he is committed to and that he is not playing his desired position. A good coach knows if a player is developing. If he can’t see that my son isn’t, it’s not the right situation.
How does one manage three teams? Our AAU team has clear positions and our coach would not appreciate being told a player wants to play a different position. Don't they all want to be PG or SG?
This is bad coaching.
How does one switch away from this?
.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Have you talked to the coach?
I would talk to the coach before you think about trying out for other teams. If the coach is not responsive, then perhaps.
Personally, it will likely not work in your favor to tryout for another team with the specifics of a position. If your player is playing at a certain position, at age 12, s/he probably picked up some of the nuances that help stick out in a tryout. Trying out for a position they don't usually play, might be a risk.
Assuming this is a travel sport , bc tryouts.
I am the PP. I have reviewed calls from 6 new teams within the last two weeks about my kid playing with other teams. He has played with 3 teams in the spring and the only one he isn’t playing the position he wants is the team he is committed to and that he is not playing his desired position. A good coach knows if a player is developing. If he can’t see that my son isn’t, it’s not the right situation.
How does one manage three teams? Our AAU team has clear positions and our coach would not appreciate being told a player wants to play a different position. Don't they all want to be PG or SG?
This is bad coaching.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Have you talked to the coach?
I would talk to the coach before you think about trying out for other teams. If the coach is not responsive, then perhaps.
Personally, it will likely not work in your favor to tryout for another team with the specifics of a position. If your player is playing at a certain position, at age 12, s/he probably picked up some of the nuances that help stick out in a tryout. Trying out for a position they don't usually play, might be a risk.
Assuming this is a travel sport , bc tryouts.
I am the PP. I have reviewed calls from 6 new teams within the last two weeks about my kid playing with other teams. He has played with 3 teams in the spring and the only one he isn’t playing the position he wants is the team he is committed to and that he is not playing his desired position. A good coach knows if a player is developing. If he can’t see that my son isn’t, it’s not the right situation.
How does one manage three teams? Our AAU team has clear positions and our coach would not appreciate being told a player wants to play a different position. Don't they all want to be PG or SG?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Have you talked to the coach?
I would talk to the coach before you think about trying out for other teams. If the coach is not responsive, then perhaps.
Personally, it will likely not work in your favor to tryout for another team with the specifics of a position. If your player is playing at a certain position, at age 12, s/he probably picked up some of the nuances that help stick out in a tryout. Trying out for a position they don't usually play, might be a risk.
Assuming this is a travel sport , bc tryouts.
I am the PP. I have reviewed calls from 6 new teams within the last two weeks about my kid playing with other teams. He has played with 3 teams in the spring and the only one he isn’t playing the position he wants is the team he is committed to and that he is not playing his desired position. A good coach knows if a player is developing. If he can’t see that my son isn’t, it’s not the right situation.
Anonymous wrote:Have you talked to the coach?
I would talk to the coach before you think about trying out for other teams. If the coach is not responsive, then perhaps.
Personally, it will likely not work in your favor to tryout for another team with the specifics of a position. If your player is playing at a certain position, at age 12, s/he probably picked up some of the nuances that help stick out in a tryout. Trying out for a position they don't usually play, might be a risk.
Assuming this is a travel sport , bc tryouts.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My kid is now a PG but for a long time, he played a forward. He had to switch many teams to get there. It was a long road.
From what I’ve seen, most coaches in this area will not allow a big kid to play PG. It really stunts their growth in the sport. You basically have to refuse to play a different position and it doesn’t go over well with coaches or the team.
Or when they get rebounds push the ball up the court and make little guys run with him. If the coach complains then there is a problem. Let the coach you don’t want to play in a situation where you are never allowed to play the 1. If the coach doesn’t cooperate, definitely switch teams.
My son told his coach this and that he was willing to come off the bench if he couldn’t start. Coach wanted him to start in the post, claiming he would let him run the point later in the game, but rarely did it, and my son switched teams.
These coaches will use your kid up and too many to care if your kid develops more than a post game. If your son doesn’t have more the a post game and doesn’t grow taller that 6’8”, he won’t play beyond high school, and in many cases won’t play much in high school either.
Wouldn’t most rebounders/post players get it from the coach if they ran the ball up the court and didn’t pass to PG? Our team lets the post players switch positions so they play 1 and 2 from time to time. Unusual for sure.
I wouldn’t let a kid only play post until well into HS. They’ll never learn any real skills.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My kid is now a PG but for a long time, he played a forward. He had to switch many teams to get there. It was a long road.
From what I’ve seen, most coaches in this area will not allow a big kid to play PG. It really stunts their growth in the sport. You basically have to refuse to play a different position and it doesn’t go over well with coaches or the team.
Or when they get rebounds push the ball up the court and make little guys run with him. If the coach complains then there is a problem. Let the coach you don’t want to play in a situation where you are never allowed to play the 1. If the coach doesn’t cooperate, definitely switch teams.
My son told his coach this and that he was willing to come off the bench if he couldn’t start. Coach wanted him to start in the post, claiming he would let him run the point later in the game, but rarely did it, and my son switched teams.
These coaches will use your kid up and too many to care if your kid develops more than a post game. If your son doesn’t have more the a post game and doesn’t grow taller that 6’8”, he won’t play beyond high school, and in many cases won’t play much in high school either.