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Anonymous wrote:My friend is a psychologist and she makes 150/hour cash and she schedules her appointments whenever she wants, totally flexible around her kids’ schedule. Totally jealous -MD

In this area, a PhD psychologist can charge $200+ per hour and doesn't have to take insurance (very few do). A LCSW (with a MSW degree) can charge $160-$200 and also doesn't have to deal with insurance hassles.

The psychiatrist my DD sees charges $300 an hour. Many charge more, but still, given the difference in cost and commitment to getting the various degrees, I'd say the LCSW and PhD win out, especially because unlike med school, both of those degrees can be done part time and/or online, allowing the candidate to work and get experience while getting their degree.

If you google the median pay for a psychologist, it’s very low. Not what we want for DD.

Are you sure that you are seeing the pay for PhD clinical psychologists (assuming that is what your daughter wants to do)? In an area with a COL comparable to where you live? There are a range of jobs that might call themselves "psychologists," including school psychologists, researchers, etc that are not all going to earn the same as a clinical psychologist in DC.

I am a research psychologist with a PhD, not a clinician, and I am very happy with where I ended up. I earn a lot more than the median income for "psychologist" from the Bureau of Labor Statistics. I also earn more than my husband who is an engineer.

PP here. I googled “clinical psychologist median salary” and this is what popped up:

$124k average salary in California (!!!)

Source: https://www.salary.com/research/salary/alternate/clinical-licensed-psychologist-ph-d-salary/ca

NOT what we want for DD. If she wants to live in a HCOL like California, she’ll definitely need more than that. We are not wealthy — we can’t afford to give her a downpayment on her house like most of DCUM.

She needs to go into tech, finance, medicine, or law. That is what bright, ambitious middle class kids do.

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Anonymous wrote:Extremely disappointed my daughter wants to be a psychologist. She is very bright and hardworking — could’ve gone into tech or medicine if she wanted

That's top funny; it's almost impossible to get an appointment with a psychologist in the DC area right now. Booming field with money earning possibility.

Agree. I also have friends who started as psychiatrists and dropped out because the profession is, "writing scripts all day and hoping no one kills themselves or another person" vs. "doing hands on therapy and feeling like they're actually making a difference" like psychologists. I can't imagine feeling shame a kid wanted to be a PhD psychologist, that's just absolute crazy talk. Maybe they're less in it "for the cash?" but they're not exactly slumming it slinging burgers JFC.

Literally everyone except for upper-middle class white people would be upset that their kid decided to be a psychologist

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Anonymous wrote:Expectation: some deep thinker or public intellectual, going for PhD in economics and eventually getting tenure.

Reality: a finance bro. I hope it’s a phase.

PS: I would never say it out loud, only on an anonymous forum.

Why would you hope it’s a phase? Finance professionals can certainly better support their families than, say, academics or “public intellectuals”

PP. I work in a, say, Wall Street adjacent area, and I see up close that there is a cost to that life. It’s totally OK to try it out in your 20s, but to make it your life, you have to have a very clear understanding of certain things. For example, some of those jobs don’t age well, meaning that there are people being chewed by the system.

I do as well as a finance professional, and I was raised by a PhD psychologist. I am utterly unconvinced the finance bro model is the way to go, particularly if you are not a "bro." Chewed up and spit out is all too common and there is no underlying core value to keep you grounded. I actually think you are depraved in values if you can't see how being in a "helping" profession might be a positive life decision, even if they "only" make 250k.

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Anonymous wrote:My friend is a psychologist and she makes 150/hour cash and she schedules her appointments whenever she wants, totally flexible around her kids’ schedule. Totally jealous -MD

In this area, a PhD psychologist can charge $200+ per hour and doesn't have to take insurance (very few do). A LCSW (with a MSW degree) can charge $160-$200 and also doesn't have to deal with insurance hassles.

The psychiatrist my DD sees charges $300 an hour. Many charge more, but still, given the difference in cost and commitment to getting the various degrees, I'd say the LCSW and PhD win out, especially because unlike med school, both of those degrees can be done part time and/or online, allowing the candidate to work and get experience while getting their degree.

If you google the median pay for a psychologist, it’s very low. Not what we want for DD.

Are you sure that you are seeing the pay for PhD clinical psychologists (assuming that is what your daughter wants to do)? In an area with a COL comparable to where you live? There are a range of jobs that might call themselves "psychologists," including school psychologists, researchers, etc that are not all going to earn the same as a clinical psychologist in DC.

I am a research psychologist with a PhD, not a clinician, and I am very happy with where I ended up. I earn a lot more than the median income for "psychologist" from the Bureau of Labor Statistics. I also earn more than my husband who is an engineer.

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Anonymous wrote:Expectation: some deep thinker or public intellectual, going for PhD in economics and eventually getting tenure.

Reality: a finance bro. I hope it’s a phase.

PS: I would never say it out loud, only on an anonymous forum.

Why would you hope it’s a phase? Finance professionals can certainly better support their families than, say, academics or “public intellectuals”

Class over wealth. Weird that this is unimaginable to you.

Anonymous wrote:Extremely disappointed my daughter wants to be a psychologist. She is very bright and hardworking — could’ve gone into tech or medicine if she wanted

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Anonymous wrote:Expectation: some deep thinker or public intellectual, going for PhD in economics and eventually getting tenure.

Reality: a finance bro. I hope it’s a phase.

PS: I would never say it out loud, only on an anonymous forum.

Why would you hope it’s a phase? Finance professionals can certainly better support their families than, say, academics or “public intellectuals”

Anonymous wrote:I will be happy if they are not working in a sandwich shop at age 30. That is about my expectation.

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Anonymous wrote:My friend is a psychologist and she makes 150/hour cash and she schedules her appointments whenever she wants, totally flexible around her kids’ schedule. Totally jealous -MD

150 times 22 (assuming she seems 22 clients a week) times 50 (assuming two weeks of vacation) times 0.7 (assuming she spends 30% on business operating costs) =

$115k/year

Terrible salary for someone with a PhD

$115k a year is a great salary, especially if they like their job.

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Anonymous wrote:Expectation: some deep thinker or public intellectual, going for PhD in economics and eventually getting tenure.

Reality: a finance bro. I hope it’s a phase.

PS: I would never say it out loud, only on an anonymous forum.

Why would you hope it’s a phase? Finance professionals can certainly better support their families than, say, academics or “public intellectuals”

PP. I work in a, say, Wall Street adjacent area, and I see up close that there is a cost to that life. It’s totally OK to try it out in your 20s, but to make it your life, you have to have a very clear understanding of certain things. For example, some of those jobs don’t age well, meaning that there are people being chewed by the system.

Anonymous wrote:I will be happy if they are not working in a sandwich shop at age 30. That is about my expectation.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My friend is a psychologist and she makes 150/hour cash and she schedules her appointments whenever she wants, totally flexible around her kids’ schedule. Totally jealous -MD

150 times 22 (assuming she seems 22 clients a week) times 50 (assuming two weeks of vacation) times 0.7 (assuming she spends 30% on business operating costs) =

$115k/year

Terrible salary for someone with a PhD

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My friend is a psychologist and she makes 150/hour cash and she schedules her appointments whenever she wants, totally flexible around her kids’ schedule. Totally jealous -MD

In this area, a PhD psychologist can charge $200+ per hour and doesn't have to take insurance (very few do). A LCSW (with a MSW degree) can charge $160-$200 and also doesn't have to deal with insurance hassles.

The psychiatrist my DD sees charges $300 an hour. Many charge more, but still, given the difference in cost and commitment to getting the various degrees, I'd say the LCSW and PhD win out, especially because unlike med school, both of those degrees can be done part time and/or online, allowing the candidate to work and get experience while getting their degree.

If you google the median pay for a psychologist, it’s very low. Not what we want for DD.

Are you sure that you are seeing the pay for PhD clinical psychologists (assuming that is what your daughter wants to do)? In an area with a COL comparable to where you live? There are a range of jobs that might call themselves "psychologists," including school psychologists, researchers, etc that are not all going to earn the same as a clinical psychologist in DC.

I am a research psychologist with a PhD, not a clinician, and I am very happy with where I ended up. I earn a lot more than the median income for "psychologist" from the Bureau of Labor Statistics. I also earn more than my husband who is an engineer.