Your girlfriend told you you were being insecure. Were you? Did you phrase your objections as concerns for the relative professionalism of the dress (I.e her best interests) or did you frame it as you not wanting other men to look at her (I.e. your best interests.)

A long sleeved sheath dress wore with cardigan is perfectly appropriate for work. If she’s happy with her outfit, why would you know more about workplace norms at her office than she does?

Anonymous wrote:Incel thread?

Maybe you need to reconsider your mental model a little bit.

Incel thread?

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I forgot to mention it had an open back too. Like not quite all the way down to the posterior. Somewhere between three eights and five eights of the back exposed.

Sorry, I don't really know women's fashion, so don't know what this kind of cut is called. Maybe a plunging back?

That is so inappropriate for work I’d be worried that she is sleeping her way up. She is 100% flirting with partners.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. I forgot to mention it had an open back too. Like not quite all the way down to the posterior. Somewhere between three eights and five eights of the back exposed.

Sorry, I don't really know women's fashion, so don't know what this kind of cut is called. Maybe a plunging back?

Was her bra strap showing in the back? I’m having trouble picturing this. Did she go braless or wear nip covers or are you exaggerating.

X2 on trying to picture this. OP, please post a pictures, front and back, so that we can comment more inappropriately. Thank you.

Kinda like this, but I think it was a little shorter and also no full sleeves. I guess this website does say Office Lady Elegant, so maybe I'm just off or not paying attention. I haven't really seen this much around law firms though.

https://www.alibaba.com/product-detail/ODM-Basics-Low-Back-Solid-Bodycon_1600392269006.html

This is such a troll. Alibaba? A lawyer? 3/10.

Please reread. PP's asked me to post a picture of what it looked like and that was the closest approximation I could find. Even in my post, I say what features were different in her dress. It wasn't a dress from Alibaba.

Is there some kind of award on this site for people who uncover trolls? Geez.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. I forgot to mention it had an open back too. Like not quite all the way down to the posterior. Somewhere between three eights and five eights of the back exposed.

Sorry, I don't really know women's fashion, so don't know what this kind of cut is called. Maybe a plunging back?

Was her bra strap showing in the back? I’m having trouble picturing this. Did she go braless or wear nip covers or are you exaggerating.

X2 on trying to picture this. OP, please post a pictures, front and back, so that we can comment more inappropriately. Thank you.

Kinda like this, but I think it was a little shorter and also no full sleeves. I guess this website does say Office Lady Elegant, so maybe I'm just off or not paying attention. I haven't really seen this much around law firms though.

https://www.alibaba.com/product-detail/ODM-Basics-Low-Back-Solid-Bodycon_1600392269006.html

This is such a troll. Alibaba? A lawyer? 3/10.

She might nit have been heading into the office.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. I forgot to mention it had an open back too. Like not quite all the way down to the posterior. Somewhere between three eights and five eights of the back exposed.

Sorry, I don't really know women's fashion, so don't know what this kind of cut is called. Maybe a plunging back?

Was her bra strap showing in the back? I’m having trouble picturing this. Did she go braless or wear nip covers or are you exaggerating.

X2 on trying to picture this. OP, please post a pictures, front and back, so that we can comment more inappropriately. Thank you.

Kinda like this, but I think it was a little shorter and also no full sleeves. I guess this website does say Office Lady Elegant, so maybe I'm just off or not paying attention. I haven't really seen this much around law firms though.

https://www.alibaba.com/product-detail/ODM-Basics-Low-Back-Solid-Bodycon_1600392269006.html

That’s the kind of thing you wear to work when you’re sleeping with the boss.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. I forgot to mention it had an open back too. Like not quite all the way down to the posterior. Somewhere between three eights and five eights of the back exposed.

Sorry, I don't really know women's fashion, so don't know what this kind of cut is called. Maybe a plunging back?

Was her bra strap showing in the back? I’m having trouble picturing this. Did she go braless or wear nip covers or are you exaggerating.

X2 on trying to picture this. OP, please post a pictures, front and back, so that we can comment more inappropriately. Thank you.

Kinda like this, but I think it was a little shorter and also no full sleeves. I guess this website does say Office Lady Elegant, so maybe I'm just off or not paying attention. I haven't really seen this much around law firms though.

https://www.alibaba.com/product-detail/ODM-Basics-Low-Back-Solid-Bodycon_1600392269006.html

Hot! Where does she work? If she does contract law I’m looking for a new lawyer.

Lol, shuttup. I'm not saying the firm.

Anonymous wrote:I saw my girlfriend getting ready to leave for work the other day and noticed her dress was quite...form fitting and tight. The dress was tightly hugging her posterior. She works at a corporate law firm.

I made a comment that that type of attire made me a little uncomfortable and that it didn't really seem work appropriate. She rolled her eyes, called me insecure for bringing it up and went to work.

Am I crazy here?

I would also feel uncomfortable in your shoes. Apparently she doesn’t much care about your feelings. That’s a blatant red flag. Perhaps move on.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. I forgot to mention it had an open back too. Like not quite all the way down to the posterior. Somewhere between three eights and five eights of the back exposed.

Sorry, I don't really know women's fashion, so don't know what this kind of cut is called. Maybe a plunging back?

Was her bra strap showing in the back? I’m having trouble picturing this. Did she go braless or wear nip covers or are you exaggerating.

X2 on trying to picture this. OP, please post a pictures, front and back, so that we can comment more inappropriately. Thank you.

Kinda like this, but I think it was a little shorter and also no full sleeves. I guess this website does say Office Lady Elegant, so maybe I'm just off or not paying attention. I haven't really seen this much around law firms though.

https://www.alibaba.com/product-detail/ODM-Basics-Low-Back-Solid-Bodycon_1600392269006.html

Definitely not professional attire.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. I forgot to mention it had an open back too. Like not quite all the way down to the posterior. Somewhere between three eights and five eights of the back exposed.

Sorry, I don't really know women's fashion, so don't know what this kind of cut is called. Maybe a plunging back?

Was her bra strap showing in the back? I’m having trouble picturing this. Did she go braless or wear nip covers or are you exaggerating.

X2 on trying to picture this. OP, please post a pictures, front and back, so that we can comment more inappropriately. Thank you.

Kinda like this, but I think it was a little shorter and also no full sleeves. I guess this website does say Office Lady Elegant, so maybe I'm just off or not paying attention. I haven't really seen this much around law firms though.

https://www.alibaba.com/product-detail/ODM-Basics-Low-Back-Solid-Bodycon_1600392269006.html

Hot! Where does she work? If she does contract law I’m looking for a new lawyer.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. I forgot to mention it had an open back too. Like not quite all the way down to the posterior. Somewhere between three eights and five eights of the back exposed.

Sorry, I don't really know women's fashion, so don't know what this kind of cut is called. Maybe a plunging back?

Was her bra strap showing in the back? I’m having trouble picturing this. Did she go braless or wear nip covers or are you exaggerating.

X2 on trying to picture this. OP, please post a pictures, front and back, so that we can comment more inappropriately. Thank you.

Kinda like this, but I think it was a little shorter and also no full sleeves. I guess this website does say Office Lady Elegant, so maybe I'm just off or not paying attention. I haven't really seen this much around law firms though.

https://www.alibaba.com/product-detail/ODM-Basics-Low-Back-Solid-Bodycon_1600392269006.html

I call BS on all the posters who suggest the OP is controlling or otherwise. If the shoe were on the other foot, i.e. OP was wearing that may be questionable for work, should she not comment?

OP, women can weaponize their sexuality (see most movies with sexy leading lady using her wiles); that says more about her than it does you.

I suspect she's dressing for the that scene, which you may not be a part of (see the Devil Wears Prada, for example); you can roll with it, or if it's more than just innocent trying-to-look-the-part, then move on. #PlentyOfFishInTheSea

Does she specialize in legal matters for escorts?