Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Honestly? Paying for preschool is much, much easier than paying for college, travel sports, summer programs, tutoring, car insurance, (fill in the blank) once you have two or more in the teen years.
Just learn to budget lean. Housing, food, clothing, anything that you and your partner enjoy…is now on the bottom of the priority ladder. Learn now for preschool and your life will be much easier when they get older.
I'm so sick of older moms coming on to crap on younger parents. In 18 years when the kid is in college, OP will be likely making more money too.
+1
My kids are in middle and elementary, and this attitude is so obnoxious. Travel sports, summer programs, tutoring, etc., are largely optional. Childcare for young kids? Not optional.
One parent can always stay home depending on their income. We had to make that choice.
Oh, FFS. No, not everyone has that choice, PP. It’s great that you did, but stop assuming it’s an option for all of us.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Honestly? Paying for preschool is much, much easier than paying for college, travel sports, summer programs, tutoring, car insurance, (fill in the blank) once you have two or more in the teen years.
Just learn to budget lean. Housing, food, clothing, anything that you and your partner enjoy…is now on the bottom of the priority ladder. Learn now for preschool and your life will be much easier when they get older.
I'm so sick of older moms coming on to crap on younger parents. In 18 years when the kid is in college, OP will be likely making more money too.
+1
My kids are in middle and elementary, and this attitude is so obnoxious. Travel sports, summer programs, tutoring, etc., are largely optional. Childcare for young kids? Not optional.
Anonymous wrote:How do people afford pre-school and childcare? We have a nanny right now because we have a newborn and a two year old and her salary is about the same as daycare for two babies at that age. But with the two year old turning three later this year, they will need to start preschool, at least part-time. I had no idea part time preschool costs nearly 2k/month! We are in Bethesda, so no free options like DC. What do working parents do? Is 2k/month the norm?