Anonymous wrote:Big boobs just make you look heavy, especially as you age.

This. Big boobs can make you look matronly over time.

Don’t do it. Boob jobs are for gals with low self esteem. Huge red flag… think of it as a filter for the potential dates you go on. Do you want to date someone who selects you based on breast size? Yuck.

Anonymous wrote:OMG! You're that poster! Please get help!

Which poster ??

OMG! You're that poster! Please get help!

Anonymous wrote:You're 20 years old and you're newly divorced?

Sorry my message was confusing. I am early 40s

You're 20 years old and you're newly divorced?

Anonymous wrote:Get stem cell breast augmentation. Basically they grow your boobs using your own fat (modified by stem cells to encourage growth).

It’s not cheap, but it’s the most realistic way to enhance your breast size.

Can you share a link to this procedure ? Many actresses who used stem cells therapy ended up having cancer so I am a little bit concerned

Get stem cell breast augmentation. Basically they grow your boobs using your own fat (modified by stem cells to encourage growth).

It’s not cheap, but it’s the most realistic way to enhance your breast size.

Anonymous wrote:While I suppose it is possible that men are screening you on online dating because of your lack of breasts, there is absolutely no way that's the reason you're not getting third dates. No man is going to make or break his longer term attraction for a woman based on breast size. Or, well, if he did - I'd assume that he's go on date 3 just to sleep with her and then leave her. Which isn't a better place than getting ditched after the second date.

I agree with others that it sounds like a therapist would be a better investment. And I'm not anti plastic surgery (I've had some) but your rationale seems all off kilter.

So basically you are saying I am already getting a selection of men for whom size probably doesn’t matter since they see my photos in yoga trainers and top. Then I am not getting 3rd dates from these men. Honestly it’s almost always mutual: I feel friendly vibe but not sexual chemistry on date 2. No longer want to see him and he probably feels the same. I try to reciprocate if a man attempt to kiss me on date 2. Many of them do, but I don’t like it from many. I would keep distance and lips tight. They don’t call back.

So far I liked kissing with one. Just crazy chemistry on a spot when he kissed me against his car. He wanted a third date but wasn’t a long term material for other reasons. I didn’t want to give hope or make him FWB so I ghosted him.

OP, breast size is not a make-or-break factor for most men. Don't do it.

Hard pass.

While I suppose it is possible that men are screening you on online dating because of your lack of breasts, there is absolutely no way that's the reason you're not getting third dates. No man is going to make or break his longer term attraction for a woman based on breast size. Or, well, if he did - I'd assume that he's go on date 3 just to sleep with her and then leave her. Which isn't a better place than getting ditched after the second date.

I agree with others that it sounds like a therapist would be a better investment. And I'm not anti plastic surgery (I've had some) but your rationale seems all off kilter.

Yep. Young women are much larger/fatter today than they were in 1983.

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Anonymous wrote:Big boobs just make you look heavy, especially as you age.

Implants don’t necessarily mean big boobs. I went from an A to a C.

C is a big size!

I was just googling. In 1983 and 1992 the average bra size in the US was 34B. It’s now 34DD, according to more than one site (although that seems crazy to me). But if you are GenX you might consider a C large.

But OP, don’t do it. Unnecessary surgery is unnecessary. I’m sure your body is great as it is.

It’s because of the obesity rates in the US. Big ol fat knockers.

Never. Gross.

Implants are passé.