Anonymous
02/11/2023 15:13
Subject: Should one notorious girl in a grade deter us from applying there?
For sure no. Even if that students leaves your kids alone, she likely won’t befriend her which cuts out a whole chunk of kids for your child to be friends with. You can’t win against a kid like this and I wouldn’t bother applying.
Anonymous
02/11/2023 14:59
Subject: Re:Should one notorious girl in a grade deter us from applying there?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It would deter me. Not necessarily out of fear for the specific child, but because any school culture that produces a "notorious girl" about whom kids and other families hear despite not even currently attending the school is not for us.
Yup. Not underestimating bullying as a teen but this is still a child. Can you imagine that the parents are honestly gossiping this much about a child? Who are the adults here?
Yes and all those she is bullying are children. Who have adult parents. Why are you defending the one making so many other children miserable?
do you mind saying which school?
Anonymous
02/10/2023 20:12
Subject: Re:Should one notorious girl in a grade deter us from applying there?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It would deter me. Not necessarily out of fear for the specific child, but because any school culture that produces a "notorious girl" about whom kids and other families hear despite not even currently attending the school is not for us.
Yup. Not underestimating bullying as a teen but this is still a child. Can you imagine that the parents are honestly gossiping this much about a child? Who are the adults here?
Yes and all those she is bullying are children. Who have adult parents. Why are you defending the one making so many other children miserable?
Anonymous
02/10/2023 18:17
Subject: Should one notorious girl in a grade deter us from applying there?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote: Yes. This is why I dislike small school dynamics. We're moving from a big public to small private for HS and I've been told that every class has a different feel depending on who is in it. One of DD's bullies from public moved to a small catholic girls school. It's not one of the places we applied to but if it were I would definitely have crossed it off the list because there are so many other great options.
OP here. This is a good sized all girls school (catholic) but this one kid's name pops up in conversation after conversation - and we're not even Catholic! Who knew a 7th grader could wield such power.
oh dear.... do you mind saying which school?
Anonymous
02/10/2023 10:36
Subject: Should one notorious girl in a grade deter us from applying there?
The problem I would think is also that this one notorious girl likely has some minions as well - there are so many great schools out there that I would avoid this school for sure.
Anonymous
02/10/2023 09:48
Subject: Should one notorious girl in a grade deter us from applying there?
So sad...At some point you have to stand up for yourself, plain and simple. If the school is the best fit, you go and deal with the rest later. Dealt with a bully via the parents. Very simple.."If my kid mentions any type of bullying again, we'll have a very intimate conversation." Everything stopped--amazing...
Anonymous
02/10/2023 09:17
Subject: Should one notorious girl in a grade deter us from applying there?
Anonymous wrote:Why doesn't the school DO something about this girl? Surely there have been complaints about her?
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Anonymous
02/10/2023 09:16
Subject: Should one notorious girl in a grade deter us from applying there?
Why doesn't the school DO something about this girl? Surely there have been complaints about her?