Anonymous
02/07/2023 21:37
Subject: Am I coddling my DD by allowing her to come home when she's going through a rough patch?
I would let her come home for the weekend but not a week and miss school. However, with free flights I'd fly up there and spend a few days with her as a compromise.
Anonymous
02/07/2023 21:34
Subject: Re:Am I coddling my DD by allowing her to come home when she's going through a rough patch?
Anonymous wrote:Of course!
not
Anonymous
02/07/2023 21:33
Subject: Re:Am I coddling my DD by allowing her to come home when she's going through a rough patch?
Your husband is wrong
OF COURSE you welcome your child home! I can’t imagine being turned away from my family when I need love and stability the most.
OF COURSE you welcome your child home! I can’t imagine being turned away from my family when I need love and stability the most.
Anonymous
02/07/2023 21:32
Subject: Re:Am I coddling my DD by allowing her to come home when she's going through a rough patch?
Of course!
Anonymous
02/07/2023 20:30
Subject: Am I coddling my DD by allowing her to come home when she's going through a rough patch?
Haven’t read relies but let her come home. Last thing you need is getting back with a loser bechase she’s not strong enough.
Anonymous
02/07/2023 20:27
Subject: Am I coddling my DD by allowing her to come home when she's going through a rough patch?
Anonymous wrote:I think it’s great she’s wants to come home for a week. Home is her safe and loving place. Don’t make her change her mind (tell that to her father).
+1 absolutely
Anonymous
02/07/2023 20:25
Subject: Am I coddling my DD by allowing her to come home when she's going through a rough patch?
Would absolutely have her home for the week. Is therapy or medication in the works to help her manage her anxiety long term.
Anonymous
02/07/2023 20:18
Subject: Am I coddling my DD by allowing her to come home when she's going through a rough patch?
It is perfect that when she is struggling, she tells you. And when she needs some TLC, , she looks to her family.
This is a big deal in her young life, and she is coping in a healthy fashion by reaching out to you.
(Your husband sounds sort of macho. Trust your instincts,)
This is a big deal in her young life, and she is coping in a healthy fashion by reaching out to you.
(Your husband sounds sort of macho. Trust your instincts,)
Anonymous
02/07/2023 20:09
Subject: Am I coddling my DD by allowing her to come home when she's going through a rough patch?
Anonymous wrote:Team husband
NP. Why?
Anonymous
02/07/2023 20:08
Subject: Re:Am I coddling my DD by allowing her to come home when she's going through a rough patch?
If she really feels the need to come home, she will.
Anonymous
02/07/2023 20:07
Subject: Re:Am I coddling my DD by allowing her to come home when she's going through a rough patch?
Anonymous wrote:DH picked up DD at her request on day #4 of junior year due to her complaints a roommate who appeared to be abusive. This was when a lot of classes were still remote & hybrid, however, so no classes missed. When she returned to the room after 2 weeks, the roommate’s behavior escalated, and it took even longer for the room switch to happen than expected. It eventually did, a month into the school year.
This is completely different. OP's kid is not in danger.
Anonymous
02/07/2023 19:39
Subject: Re:Am I coddling my DD by allowing her to come home when she's going through a rough patch?
DH picked up DD at her request on day #4 of junior year due to her complaints a roommate who appeared to be abusive. This was when a lot of classes were still remote & hybrid, however, so no classes missed. When she returned to the room after 2 weeks, the roommate’s behavior escalated, and it took even longer for the room switch to happen than expected. It eventually did, a month into the school year.
Anonymous
02/07/2023 19:38
Subject: Am I coddling my DD by allowing her to come home when she's going through a rough patch?
Team husband
Anonymous
02/07/2023 19:36
Subject: Am I coddling my DD by allowing her to come home when she's going through a rough patch?
If my child is in pain s/he is always welcome to come home for a week. My home will always always be a haven, much needed in this tough world.
Anonymous
02/07/2023 19:35
Subject: Re:Am I coddling my DD by allowing her to come home when she's going through a rough patch?
I would visit first.