Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My old money Richmond friend just takes the same vacations over and over and over again. Kiawah, Maine, St. Croix, skiing. Wash, rinse, repeat.
Not something I desire to replicate.
Just curious as a Virginian, where do the old money Richmonders live?
Anonymous wrote:My old money Richmond friend just takes the same vacations over and over and over again. Kiawah, Maine, St. Croix, skiing. Wash, rinse, repeat.
Not something I desire to replicate.
Anonymous wrote:I don't think they are trashy. I do think people really need to consider how the workers are treated before giving a cruise line their money.
Anonymous wrote:No more trashy than going to a resort. Same thing but no ship. Or a theme park for the kids. Or heaven forbid Disney. But hiking around in the heat with thousands of other tourists is classy.
Anonymous wrote:A laege cruise does pollute a bunch. While an international flight does not pollute at all, right? Quick week trip to hawaii doesn’t use fuel?
Anonymous wrote:I don't know if it's the "what" so much as the reaction that I'm interested in . . .
Why do we call other people/people's interests that bring them joy trashy? What does that say about us? Why do we feel the need to distinguish ourselves from others and assert our superiority?
I'm not saying I don't turn my nose down at things . . . I can't imagine ever wanting to go to Vegas because gambling and shopping aren't my things, and the desert is the last place I'd go voluntarily. But I don't really need to get worked up about how other people find joy in this, do I? This whole idea of things being trashy seems to reveal some insecurity on the part of the person casting the judgment. It sounds to me like a person who gets their identity from their supposed social caste.
FWIW we're not really cruise people but we've done two Disney Cruises (Alaska, the Mediterranean) because the grandparents wanted to have all the grandkids do it. There are aspects to it that aren't ideal (very small quarters, eating at the same restaurants over and over) but having happy kids while you see beautiful parts of the world could certainly be a lot worse.
Anonymous wrote:I don't think they are trashy. I do think people really need to consider how the workers are treated before giving a cruise line their money.