Oprah Winfrey used to say "frump a dump," so it's not just men who use that term. Frumpy is a style choice that has nothing to do with weight or how many children you birthed.

I wear these every night in different colors and designs.

I have a few matching kimonos.

However, an ex boyfriend once told me these are frumpy.

I am a 32D and size 4/6, so I am not really frumpy.

He preferred thongs, and I find those uncomfortable.

https://www.victoriassecret.com/us/vs/sleepwear-and-lingerie-catalog/5000006021

Do satin spaghetti strap slip-style nighties count as lingerie?

I don't find wearing a t-shirt or anything with sleeves comfortable for sleeping.

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Anonymous wrote:Man here. No longer married and these posts have convinced me to never marry again. I'm glad the women I date don't think like you frumpy housewives.

Thank you pp! Please don't marry again! I would rather be frumpy than be with a guy like you. You are doing us a big favor by not marrying.

Happy days are here again!!

I am a woman and agree with this guy.

Good than YOU marry him! Just because you agree than it doesn't make me wrong. Who gives a flying fig if you are a woman? As we all know there are plenty of women hating women.

I would rather be frumpy than with you or him.

Why are you so angry? Never said you were wrong just said I agree with him. I don't hate woman.

What you wrote was implied. "I am a woman and I agree" so therefore you are the "crazy angry women" Btw, I don't get women like you who choose to side with men who get everything. We aren't even treated like humans with basic rights to privacy.

Not all men are bad. I understand where the guy was coming from, he is entitled to his opinion. I see plenty of guys in jorts, high tops and ribbed tank tops (formally known as wife beaters). For me, I view those guys probably in the same light some men view woman as frumpy.

Not my preference, just like frumpy is not some men’s preference.

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Anonymous wrote:Man here. No longer married and these posts have convinced me to never marry again. I'm glad the women I date don't think like you frumpy housewives.

Thank you pp! Please don't marry again! I would rather be frumpy than be with a guy like you. You are doing us a big favor by not marrying.

Happy days are here again!!

I am a woman and agree with this guy.

Good than YOU marry him! Just because you agree than it doesn't make me wrong. Who gives a flying fig if you are a woman? As we all know there are plenty of women hating women.

I would rather be frumpy than with you or him.

Why are you so angry? Never said you were wrong just said I agree with him. I don't hate woman.

What you wrote was implied. "I am a woman and I agree" so therefore you are the "crazy angry women" Btw, I don't get women like you who choose to side with men who get everything. We aren't even treated like humans with basic rights to privacy.

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Anonymous wrote:What do you wear for her? Do you have fun underwear? Do you dress stylish or just wear T-shirts and shorts/jeans all the time?

I wear nice boxers and I get no complaints. When she wears lingerie they don’t stay on very long.

What brand of boxers do you wear? DH may need to upgrade.

Saxx.

My DH wears black Lacoste boxer briefs. They highlight his PV, swoon.

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Anonymous wrote:What do you wear for her? Do you have fun underwear? Do you dress stylish or just wear T-shirts and shorts/jeans all the time?

I wear nice boxers and I get no complaints. When she wears lingerie they don’t stay on very long.

What brand of boxers do you wear? DH may need to upgrade.

Saxx.

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Anonymous wrote:Man here. No longer married and these posts have convinced me to never marry again. I'm glad the women I date don't think like you frumpy housewives.

Thank you pp! Please don't marry again! I would rather be frumpy than be with a guy like you. You are doing us a big favor by not marrying.

Happy days are here again!!

I am a woman and agree with this guy.

Good than YOU marry him! Just because you agree than it doesn't make me wrong. Who gives a flying fig if you are a woman? As we all know there are plenty of women hating women.

I would rather be frumpy than with you or him.

Why are you so angry? Never said you were wrong just said I agree with him. I don't hate woman.

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Anonymous wrote:Yes! It makes me feel sexy and he appreciates the effort.

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My friends always laugh when they see my lingerie collection.

Your friends are familiar with the contents of your lingerie drawer? Your life is fat spicer than mine, I warrant. 😉

I have a lingerie closet that is why they laugh.

DH asked me to consider wearing thongs before we got married. I gave them a try, and they were...fine. Since he preferred them for everyday wear, I did it and noticed he initiated much more. So kept it up. Lingerie is occasional, more when I want to signal I'm in the mood. Not everyday but minor thing that helps keep things interesting.

I would be very happy to, but my H has never shown interest in it (at least with me)

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Anonymous wrote:Yes! It makes me feel sexy and he appreciates the effort.

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My friends always laugh when they see my lingerie collection.

Your friends are familiar with the contents of your lingerie drawer? Your life is fat spicer than mine, I warrant. 😉

My wife really likes lingerie and dress up, she bought me boxer shorts from as we move and they are by far the most comfortable things I’ve ever worn. They are crazy thin, soft and stretchy but they’re cut for men, i’ve only got three pairs and seriously look forward to laundry day.

NP. I like pair of thieves from target.

I prefer the cotton to the more tech like material. The latter are nice but pill up too much and too quickly.

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Anonymous wrote:Man here. No longer married and these posts have convinced me to never marry again. I'm glad the women I date don't think like you frumpy housewives.

Thank you pp! Please don't marry again! I would rather be frumpy than be with a guy like you. You are doing us a big favor by not marrying.

Happy days are here again!!

I am a woman and agree with this guy.

Good than YOU marry him! Just because you agree than it doesn't make me wrong. Who gives a flying fig if you are a woman? As we all know there are plenty of women hating women.

I would rather be frumpy than with you or him.

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Anonymous wrote:What do you wear for her? Do you have fun underwear? Do you dress stylish or just wear T-shirts and shorts/jeans all the time?

I wear nice boxers and I get no complaints. When she wears lingerie they don’t stay on very long.

What brand of boxers do you wear? DH may need to upgrade.