Anonymous wrote:I went to Cornell and it might as well have been a huge state school. So many classes were taught by TAs, I barely saw an advisor and so much self-advocacy was necessary. I could have vanished in the middle of my first semester and no school employee would have noticed…until the tuition went unpaid.
I loved my time there but now, when I take my son on college tours, I see what I missed out on.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I went to Cornell and it might as well have been a huge state school. So many classes were taught by TAs, I barely saw an advisor and so much self-advocacy was necessary. I could have vanished in the middle of my first semester and no school employee would have noticed…until the tuition went unpaid.
I loved my time there but now, when I take my son on college tours, I see what I missed out on.
The students don’t call it the Big Red Machine for nothing.
Cornell is bigger than UVA. So this isn't surprising. And whether you "missed out on" something is in the eyes of the beholder. One of my kids insisted on attending an SLAC and loved it; my other kids would have jumped off a bridge first. It totally depends on the kid.
My hunch is that you know your kid can't get into a school of Cornell's caliber, so you're preparing yourself now.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My kid has been over the president’s house more than once for receptions. Knows his dogs, etc.
For the holiday formal, the faculty serve the kids their meal.
When a class is full or you may not meet the eligibility criteria, the kid writes to the prof and usually can get in.
International students who stay on campus over breaks are invited to faculty homes for the holiday.
Etc etc
Sounds lovely, what school?
I went to a SLAC and so have 2 of our kids. I agree that getting to know faculty is a major advantage for students at SLACs, but having the profs serve the holiday dinner sounds cringe-y.
I see why you might think that, but it is not done from a sense of entitlement or being spoiled. I am sure that the faculty who volunteer (some deans do too) are just good sports. It is a very folksy community (not slick or snarky). The students stand on chairs and sing the 12 Days or Christmas (and there are non-Christian songs as well). To buy tickets, they have to tent on the quad overnight with their friends. it is one of many traditions (like Mountain Day and Storm the Arch) that my DD cherished.
Please pass the vomit bag. Thanks.
I mean, c'mon. This is so over the top.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My kid has been over the president’s house more than once for receptions. Knows his dogs, etc.
For the holiday formal, the faculty serve the kids their meal.
When a class is full or you may not meet the eligibility criteria, the kid writes to the prof and usually can get in.
International students who stay on campus over breaks are invited to faculty homes for the holiday.
Etc etc
Sounds lovely, what school?
I went to a SLAC and so have 2 of our kids. I agree that getting to know faculty is a major advantage for students at SLACs, but having the profs serve the holiday dinner sounds cringe-y.
I see why you might think that, but it is not done from a sense of entitlement or being spoiled. I am sure that the faculty who volunteer (some deans do too) are just good sports. It is a very folksy community (not slick or snarky). The students stand on chairs and sing the 12 Days or Christmas (and there are non-Christian songs as well). To buy tickets, they have to tent on the quad overnight with their friends. it is one of many traditions (like Mountain Day and Storm the Arch) that my DD cherished.
Please pass the vomit bag. Thanks.
I mean, c'mon. This is so over the top.
You are EXACTLY the type of person my kid hoped to avoid.
So that worked out well. 👍
Yea, we never would have met. No worries. My kids didn't look at second tier colleges.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My kid has been over the president’s house more than once for receptions. Knows his dogs, etc.
For the holiday formal, the faculty serve the kids their meal.
When a class is full or you may not meet the eligibility criteria, the kid writes to the prof and usually can get in.
International students who stay on campus over breaks are invited to faculty homes for the holiday.
Etc etc
Sounds lovely, what school?
I went to a SLAC and so have 2 of our kids. I agree that getting to know faculty is a major advantage for students at SLACs, but having the profs serve the holiday dinner sounds cringe-y.
I see why you might think that, but it is not done from a sense of entitlement or being spoiled. I am sure that the faculty who volunteer (some deans do too) are just good sports. It is a very folksy community (not slick or snarky). The students stand on chairs and sing the 12 Days or Christmas (and there are non-Christian songs as well). To buy tickets, they have to tent on the quad overnight with their friends. it is one of many traditions (like Mountain Day and Storm the Arch) that my DD cherished.
Please pass the vomit bag. Thanks.
I mean, c'mon. This is so over the top.
You are EXACTLY the type of person my kid hoped to avoid.
So that worked out well. 👍
Yea, we never would have met. No worries. My kids didn't look at second tier colleges.
Why so nasty? If the idea of SLACs makes you this angry there must be something bad going on in your life you should probably attend to instead of spewing unnecessary vitriol on the internet over an issue that should be of so little influence over your life.
I have a kid who went to one and loved it. Not Juniata, mind you -- a better one -- but still. So try again.
I'm just saying that both kinds of schools have pluses and minuses.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The price to pay for "easier navigation" is less course availability/flexibility, fewer professors (meaning that students often have to have the same professor time and again for courses in their major, which isn't necessarily a good thing), and a suffocating social scene.
Huh . . . wondering which SLACs you're familiar with. I'm a Williams grad and this was not my experience at all.
I had kids attend both UVA and a top 10 SLAC. Both schools had pluses and minuses. I'm sure Williams is no different. Sorry, but no school is perfect, and your experience may have been great for you but doesn't apply to everyone.
I completely agree that no school is right for everyone, but your original post -- quoted above -- didn't say that at all -- in fact; quite the opposite.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The price to pay for "easier navigation" is less course availability/flexibility, fewer professors (meaning that students often have to have the same professor time and again for courses in their major, which isn't necessarily a good thing), and a suffocating social scene.
Huh . . . wondering which SLACs you're familiar with. I'm a Williams grad and this was not my experience at all.
I had kids attend both UVA and a top 10 SLAC. Both schools had pluses and minuses. I'm sure Williams is no different. Sorry, but no school is perfect, and your experience may have been great for you but doesn't apply to everyone.
Anonymous wrote:To state the obvious, small liberal arts schools are easier to navigate than large schools because the smaller schools offer a lot less choices in majors and classes. At my kid's SLAC, there are 34 majors and another 30 minors, and half of those are basically unavailable due to lack of classes/demand. By the time he finished area requirements, my kid was picking from 5-8 possible classes per semester to advance toward graduation.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My kid has been over the president’s house more than once for receptions. Knows his dogs, etc.
For the holiday formal, the faculty serve the kids their meal.
When a class is full or you may not meet the eligibility criteria, the kid writes to the prof and usually can get in.
International students who stay on campus over breaks are invited to faculty homes for the holiday.
Etc etc
Sounds lovely, what school?
I went to a SLAC and so have 2 of our kids. I agree that getting to know faculty is a major advantage for students at SLACs, but having the profs serve the holiday dinner sounds cringe-y.
I see why you might think that, but it is not done from a sense of entitlement or being spoiled. I am sure that the faculty who volunteer (some deans do too) are just good sports. It is a very folksy community (not slick or snarky). The students stand on chairs and sing the 12 Days or Christmas (and there are non-Christian songs as well). To buy tickets, they have to tent on the quad overnight with their friends. it is one of many traditions (like Mountain Day and Storm the Arch) that my DD cherished.
Please pass the vomit bag. Thanks.
I mean, c'mon. This is so over the top.
You are EXACTLY the type of person my kid hoped to avoid.
So that worked out well. 👍
Yea, we never would have met. No worries. My kids didn't look at second tier colleges.
Why so nasty? If the idea of SLACs makes you this angry there must be something bad going on in your life you should probably attend to instead of spewing unnecessary vitriol on the internet over an issue that should be of so little influence over your life.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I went to Cornell and it might as well have been a huge state school. So many classes were taught by TAs, I barely saw an advisor and so much self-advocacy was necessary. I could have vanished in the middle of my first semester and no school employee would have noticed…until the tuition went unpaid.
I loved my time there but now, when I take my son on college tours, I see what I missed out on.
The students don’t call it the Big Red Machine for nothing.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My kid has been over the president’s house more than once for receptions. Knows his dogs, etc.
For the holiday formal, the faculty serve the kids their meal.
When a class is full or you may not meet the eligibility criteria, the kid writes to the prof and usually can get in.
International students who stay on campus over breaks are invited to faculty homes for the holiday.
Etc etc
Sounds lovely, what school?
I went to a SLAC and so have 2 of our kids. I agree that getting to know faculty is a major advantage for students at SLACs, but having the profs serve the holiday dinner sounds cringe-y.
I see why you might think that, but it is not done from a sense of entitlement or being spoiled. I am sure that the faculty who volunteer (some deans do too) are just good sports. It is a very folksy community (not slick or snarky). The students stand on chairs and sing the 12 Days or Christmas (and there are non-Christian songs as well). To buy tickets, they have to tent on the quad overnight with their friends. it is one of many traditions (like Mountain Day and Storm the Arch) that my DD cherished.
Please pass the vomit bag. Thanks.
I mean, c'mon. This is so over the top.
You are EXACTLY the type of person my kid hoped to avoid.
So that worked out well. 👍
Yea, we never would have met. No worries. My kids didn't look at second tier colleges.
Anonymous wrote:I went to Cornell and it might as well have been a huge state school. So many classes were taught by TAs, I barely saw an advisor and so much self-advocacy was necessary. I could have vanished in the middle of my first semester and no school employee would have noticed…until the tuition went unpaid.
I loved my time there but now, when I take my son on college tours, I see what I missed out on.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My kid has been over the president’s house more than once for receptions. Knows his dogs, etc.
For the holiday formal, the faculty serve the kids their meal.
When a class is full or you may not meet the eligibility criteria, the kid writes to the prof and usually can get in.
International students who stay on campus over breaks are invited to faculty homes for the holiday.
Etc etc
Sounds lovely, what school?
I went to a SLAC and so have 2 of our kids. I agree that getting to know faculty is a major advantage for students at SLACs, but having the profs serve the holiday dinner sounds cringe-y.
I see why you might think that, but it is not done from a sense of entitlement or being spoiled. I am sure that the faculty who volunteer (some deans do too) are just good sports. It is a very folksy community (not slick or snarky). The students stand on chairs and sing the 12 Days or Christmas (and there are non-Christian songs as well). To buy tickets, they have to tent on the quad overnight with their friends. it is one of many traditions (like Mountain Day and Storm the Arch) that my DD cherished.
Please pass the vomit bag. Thanks.
I mean, c'mon. This is so over the top.
You are EXACTLY the type of person my kid hoped to avoid.
So that worked out well. 👍
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My kid has been over the president’s house more than once for receptions. Knows his dogs, etc.
For the holiday formal, the faculty serve the kids their meal.
When a class is full or you may not meet the eligibility criteria, the kid writes to the prof and usually can get in.
International students who stay on campus over breaks are invited to faculty homes for the holiday.
Etc etc
Sounds lovely, what school?
I went to a SLAC and so have 2 of our kids. I agree that getting to know faculty is a major advantage for students at SLACs, but having the profs serve the holiday dinner sounds cringe-y.
I see why you might think that, but it is not done from a sense of entitlement or being spoiled. I am sure that the faculty who volunteer (some deans do too) are just good sports. It is a very folksy community (not slick or snarky). The students stand on chairs and sing the 12 Days or Christmas (and there are non-Christian songs as well). To buy tickets, they have to tent on the quad overnight with their friends. it is one of many traditions (like Mountain Day and Storm the Arch) that my DD cherished.
Please pass the vomit bag. Thanks.
I mean, c'mon. This is so over the top.