Anonymous wrote:Op here. This is really interesting, thanks all for sharing.
1. I always tip, 20-25%
2. I don’t consider giving to candidates as charity, but my husband is super into police so we probably give roughly $5-10k per year to candidates (or more depending on the cycle)
3. I appreciate the non judgmental tone of most of you. Like I said, I give to any friend/colleague/family member raising money for any cause. But my amounts are in line with what others are giving - typically between $50 and $200.
I appreciate everyone’s honesty. I see a lot of posts here where people breakdown their budget and few have charity listed. I wasn’t raised by parents who valued or prioritized charity so it doesn’t come naturally to me to give unless I’m asked.
Given my HHI I intend to give more, and more intentionally.
Anonymous wrote:Giving to your church isn't particularly generous. It only means you give to people who think like you do. It doesn't mean you're giving to anyone or anything in need.
+1. Giving to your tax-exempt church isn't charity, it's you trying to buy your way into heaven.
You're incorrect.
Our church does a lot of mission and outreach work -- some direct donations, some hands-on work that requires supplies, gas, etc.
The church youth group does a week of direct service every summer, and some families can't afford to send their kid(s). We give to support them having that experience.
Our rector is incredibly supportive and deserves to earn a fair salary.
I don't belong to a mega church with a highly paid leader. I have been on the board of my church, have seen the financials including all salaries, and am comfortable supporting this org like I do other charities.
Anonymous wrote:Op here. This is really interesting, thanks all for sharing.
1. I always tip, 20-25%
2. I don’t consider giving to candidates as charity, but my husband is super into police so we probably give roughly $5-10k per year to candidates (or more depending on the cycle)
3. I appreciate the non judgmental tone of most of you. Like I said, I give to any friend/colleague/family member raising money for any cause. But my amounts are in line with what others are giving - typically between $50 and $200.
I appreciate everyone’s honesty. I see a lot of posts here where people breakdown their budget and few have charity listed. I wasn’t raised by parents who valued or prioritized charity so it doesn’t come naturally to me to give unless I’m asked.
Given my HHI I intend to give more, and more intentionally.
Anonymous wrote:$325K HH income; give about $40k annually. Rather than giving cash directly, for the tax benefits, every two years we put about $80k in a donor advised fund. (This means it costs us maybe 2/3 of that amount, net of tax savings). Then we give it from that gradually over the two years. I'm a big fan of Givewell, which researches the most effective charities. We give most of our money to their recommended charities. (https://www.givewell.org/about if you're interested in learning about their approach.)
But it doesn't depend just on income, but assets and needs. If you have no children, you should be able to give more; if a special needs child or parents who need help, less, etc.
Anonymous wrote:0 we pay over 250k in taxes