Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Assume what you want, but “No drama” means precisely that.

But what is drama? Jerry Springer? Or run of the mill conflict at times? Or a woman being bothered when he’s checking out other women?

Manic bipolar behavior, requesting to sit with the woman on the anniversary of her husband’s death, requesting to provide comfort while she is crying over arguments with her kids or her ex husband. Requesting help getting her car back from a friend who is too high or drunk to produce information.

These are not exactly fun dates. Drama.

Don’t date to solve problems at home. Date to share a good time.

Requesting to sit with what woman? This is a very weird list

Anonymous wrote:What's wrong with partner in crime??

The first nine million times someone mentioned it on the old Craigslist personals in 2003 it might have been considered creative.

Anonymous wrote:What's wrong with partner in crime??

See No drama.

Lists of extremely specific "wants and don't wants;" screaming red flag that the person is controlling

Anonymous wrote:What's wrong with partner in crime??

Are you robbing a bank?

Tacos, hiking & yoga. Blehhh...

What's wrong with partner in crime??

Whenever a woman mentions “bonus points if you…” you know you are dealing with what most basic-ass kind of person around and the said bonus points will be for something stupid.

I agree with all of these posts and so do most of my friends and would never put this stuff on a dating profile. I still hear and see all these horror stories from online dating. There seem to be nothing you can say on a profile to keep these people away.

ENM

Separated under the same roof or any variation

Costume pics, specifically Wonder Woman (there are a lot of you)

Multiple group pics where I cannot figure out which one is you

Any pics of you squatting or posing with your rear to the camera. Or squatting and posing with rear to the camera.

And talk of passport stamps

Lying about your age and any explanation to explain why you think it’s ok and can’t fix it.

Pretending someone else made you create your profile.

NO HOOK UPS

Describing what you’re not looking for

Being generally negative towards men

Anyone obsessed with travel

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Assume what you want, but “No drama” means precisely that.

But what is drama? Jerry Springer? Or run of the mill conflict at times? Or a woman being bothered when he’s checking out other women?

Manic bipolar behavior, requesting to sit with the woman on the anniversary of her husband’s death, requesting to provide comfort while she is crying over arguments with her kids or her ex husband. Requesting help getting her car back from a friend who is too high or drunk to produce information.

These are not exactly fun dates. Drama.

Don’t date to solve problems at home. Date to share a good time.

I don’t know. I can see how untreated mental illness and substance abuse are dealbreakers. But some of this other stuff sounds completely reasonable depending on the timeline. Yes, they sound crazy if we are talking about a second date, but reasonable if we are talking about a life partner.

Sure, after you decide that that other person’s problems are also your problems. After a decision to commit.