Anonymous
Post 09/16/2025 15:52     Subject: What is the psychology behind being attracted to your kid’s coach/teacher?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The basic psychology is your husband sux. Possibly at more than just looks, supporting your mutual child, teaching people anything, being an interesting person.

And you don’t know if the teacher or coach is a big slob.


Not always, but 100% of the time she is is broken little girl that needs constant validation and the creation of dramatic circumstances to feel alive. In addition, the “wife” lacks integrity and the capacity for honesty or accountability. Sub par human in all aspects aside from fluffing mattresses.


perhaps, but for a woman, being hot, willing, and good in the sack makes up for a lot of other failings. that has been a fact of life forever.


Most AP’s are definitely not objectively hot.
Anonymous
Post 09/16/2025 14:40     Subject: Re:What is the psychology behind being attracted to your kid’s coach/teacher?
Eddie probably has some insight.

Anonymous
Post 09/16/2025 14:39     Subject: What is the psychology behind being attracted to your kid’s coach/teacher?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The basic psychology is your husband sux. Possibly at more than just looks, supporting your mutual child, teaching people anything, being an interesting person.

And you don’t know if the teacher or coach is a big slob.


Not always, but 100% of the time she is is broken little girl that needs constant validation and the creation of dramatic circumstances to feel alive. In addition, the “wife” lacks integrity and the capacity for honesty or accountability. Sub par human in all aspects aside from fluffing mattresses.


perhaps, but for a woman, being hot, willing, and good in the sack makes up for a lot of other failings. that has been a fact of life forever.
Anonymous
Post 09/16/2025 13:57     Subject: What is the psychology behind being attracted to your kid’s coach/teacher?
Anonymous wrote:The basic psychology is your husband sux. Possibly at more than just looks, supporting your mutual child, teaching people anything, being an interesting person.

And you don’t know if the teacher or coach is a big slob.


Not always, but 100% of the time she is is broken little girl that needs constant validation and the creation of dramatic circumstances to feel alive. In addition, the “wife” lacks integrity and the capacity for honesty or accountability. Sub par human in all aspects aside from fluffing mattresses.
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2025 22:54     Subject: What is the psychology behind being attracted to your kid’s coach/teacher?
The basic psychology is your husband sux. Possibly at more than just looks, supporting your mutual child, teaching people anything, being an interesting person.

And you don’t know if the teacher or coach is a big slob.
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2025 16:38     Subject: Re:What is the psychology behind being attracted to your kid’s coach/teacher?
Anonymous wrote:Authority appeals to you.


What authority do teachers have?
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2025 16:37     Subject: Re:What is the psychology behind being attracted to your kid’s coach/teacher?
Ewww
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2025 16:28     Subject: What is the psychology behind being attracted to your kid’s coach/teacher?
Anonymous wrote:I know this is a thing, especially for women. I myself have more than once felt attracted to my son’s coaches throughout the years. Happily married, but a little fantasizing never hurt anyone.

Just curious what is going on with that? The current coach is a reasonably attractive guy, also single which is outside the norm. However, he’s probably not someone I would give a second thought to if not for being the coach (and he’s a good one, my kid really looks up to him). Why do I think about him so much?


Proximity syndrome.
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2025 16:23     Subject: What is the psychology behind being attracted to your kid’s coach/teacher?
My wife’s affair was with my son’s coach. He was a scumbag divorced dad/coach that hit on all the moms and she unfortunately for our family has major daddy issues.

Ruined my life and family, keep it a fantasy and there are no issues. The entire team knew before me because I loved and trusted her. Simply embarrassing and shameful to let it happen (unless you are single and your kid doesn’t mind being teased because his mom is the team slut).
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2025 15:49     Subject: Re:What is the psychology behind being attracted to your kid’s coach/teacher?
Limerance
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2025 15:47     Subject: What is the psychology behind being attracted to your kid’s coach/teacher?
I'm a man, but I'm attracted to women who are nice to my kid and seem to appreciate her. They're usually decently attractive anyway, but teachers who don't seem to like her as much don't get points.
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2025 15:43     Subject: What is the psychology behind being attracted to your kid’s coach/teacher?
This was good reads. Thanks everyone
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Anonymous
Post 04/05/2022 14:29     Subject: What is the psychology behind being attracted to your kid’s coach/teacher?
There are always going to be younger, hotter, prettier, taller, funnier people than your own partner but obsessing over them is only going to lead to comparisons and negative feelings.