Anonymous wrote:I don't know folks. I was around in the 80s and I ate tons of snacks, lots of candy and junk food, and we watched TV all the time. Cable became a thing in the 80s. And yes, we ate at home a lot but a lot of that food was heavily processed. Lots of casseroles from recipes on the back of a soup can, lots of freezer meals, etc. And I had a SAHM. My own child eats better and watches way less television than I did at her age. And it's not an SES thing -- my parents were/are a higher SES than my DH and I are.
I still agree that processed foods and lack of exercise is a big part of it, but I'm not sure television is the culprit. I think it's stress. I think families are stressed, parents are stressed, kids are stressed. I think everyone numbs with whatever is handy, whether that's fatty foods or television or video games or the internet. I think we're all trying to make the day to day as tolerable as possible because the long term feels worse than ever. And so much is expected of us. Kids in the 70s and 80s just went to school, maybe did one or two activities, tops. Yes, there were fewer dual-income parents, because it was possible to own a home and send your kids to decent schools without a second income. And if you did own a home and your kids were doing okay in school (which could mean straight Bs, that was fine and most people didn't freak out about that), you were considered successful even if you worked a blue collar job and never took a vacation that required an airplane.
Being middle class in the 70s and 80s was nice. Even for POC who were experiencing more racism, being middle class was pretty nice. It was a sustainable lifestyle that felt meaningful (kids, work) but also included a decent amount of leisure time and family time.
I don't know what the heck we're doing now. It seems terrible. I think it's hard to "eat your veggies" and get some exercise when you are exhausted and stressed out and feel like no matter what you do or how hard you try, you'll never have enough money to retire on, you'll never be able to afford college for your kids, and you are one medical emergency away from financial ruin.
I think it's stress and everything else (overeating, processed and heavy foods, lack of exercise, overwork, etc.) goes back to that.
Anonymous wrote:I'm 54 and remember when everybody started marketing low fat foods in the 80s, and nobody realized they added a bunch of sugar to make it taste better. And I really think we got addicted to that, more than anything. And that was about the same time diet sodas became sweetened with Nutrasweet which tasted a lot better than the older saccharine sweeteners that had a bitter aftertaste. There is some data out there that just tasting the sweetness without getting the calories makes you crave more.
To me, those two trends really shifted how we ate as a country. That plus fast food marketing super-sized everything.
Anonymous wrote:back then - smoking, less snacking
now - soda, processed food, weird diets, constant snacking for adults and kids
My parents are still thin now and they pretty much eat natural food they cook themselves and take walks, no crazy exercise or diets to remain thin. They do eat the occasional Trader Joe's frozen pizza or local hamburger. But it will be like 3-4 people sharing a pizza and eating it with extra vegetables and fruit. Same with breads - they do buy croissants for breakfast sandwiches, but each sandwich will be 1/2 croissant with egg, plenty of sautéed veg, and homegrown greens piled on top. They only drink tea, coffee, smoothie, and water.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:People eat all the time now. Nonstop. My kid is forced to take a snack for a 2.5 hr preschool event.
Snacks snack snacks all the time. Mostly processed food.
People don’t smoke.
All you have to do is eat three small meals a day and you won’t get fat.
+1 snacks, snacks, snacks.
This has to be a huge part of it. My own parents didn't have snacks at school they said they got a milk and that was it. And no snacks after sports. We are constantly shoving food at our kids and a lot of it is garbage. I hate the fact that my kids get a bag of Cheetos and a Sunny D or something like that after a soccer game from some other parent.
My kids are getting an Honest juice box and a bag of pirate booty so it has a health halo but is still just calories they don’t need. It’s exhausting to fight back against. My kids think I’m so mean to ban all this snacking.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:People eat all the time now. Nonstop. My kid is forced to take a snack for a 2.5 hr preschool event.
Snacks snack snacks all the time. Mostly processed food.
People don’t smoke.
All you have to do is eat three small meals a day and you won’t get fat.
+1 snacks, snacks, snacks.
This has to be a huge part of it. My own parents didn't have snacks at school they said they got a milk and that was it. And no snacks after sports. We are constantly shoving food at our kids and a lot of it is garbage. I hate the fact that my kids get a bag of Cheetos and a Sunny D or something like that after a soccer game from some other parent.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Running and working out wasn't a thing back then. My parents were skinny as heck. They played sports but weren't going to the gyn especially as they got older. Both had desk jobs. We lived in a city so not a ton of walking (it wasn't safe). Anyone feel like it's strange?
Jogging was HUGE in the 70s and 80s, as were jazzercise, Jane Fonda, stationary bikes, and gyms for men. These were the decades when the fitness craze really took off.
I also think we are misremembering how skinny people were and how "good" the food was. It was mostly junk, we just ate less of it.
The Atlantic article a PP linked to also explores some mysteries surrounding this. Worth a read.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:People eat all the time now. Nonstop. My kid is forced to take a snack for a 2.5 hr preschool event.
Snacks snack snacks all the time. Mostly processed food.
People don’t smoke.
All you have to do is eat three small meals a day and you won’t get fat.
+1 snacks, snacks, snacks.
Anonymous wrote:Running and working out wasn't a thing back then. My parents were skinny as heck. They played sports but weren't going to the gyn especially as they got older. Both had desk jobs. We lived in a city so not a ton of walking (it wasn't safe). Anyone feel like it's strange?
Anonymous wrote:People eat all the time now. Nonstop. My kid is forced to take a snack for a 2.5 hr preschool event.
Snacks snack snacks all the time. Mostly processed food.
People don’t smoke.
All you have to do is eat three small meals a day and you won’t get fat.