Anonymous
Post 12/16/2021 22:44     Subject: Decribe Persons Who Cheat
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:my take.

1. Women who haven’t learned how to articulate needs or set boundaries and stop believing that cheating is wrong or the temptation gets high.

2. Women who have done the above but their partner hasn’t respected them and they feel trapped in the marriage because of kids and finances, and they slowly stop believing that cheating is wrong or the temptation gets to be too much for them.

3. Those of any gender who have unmanaged mental health issues, lack a strong moral foundation, and has the opportunity. (Compartmentalization to justify cheating is a mental health issue, as is self-loathing)

4. The above except without the mental health issues, but worse morals and more opportunity.

5. I think entwined in all of these is often lack of understanding of female sexuality. Dead bedrooms come from duty sex comes from a lack of desire comes from a situation where the man or the man and the woman don’t understand that desire is not internal, it’s a response to stimuli.

6. Sociopaths.

It’s kinda crazy that so many of these issues could be taken care of by pretty simple interventions. It’s like the Israelites refusing to look at the serpent because the solution couldn’t have possibly been that simple. (I’m an atheist but that’s one of my favorite stories ever)


+100. So true.


So what is your solution for sociopaths and those with mental illness? How could these issues be taken care of to keep a marriage intact?
Anonymous
Post 12/16/2021 21:22     Subject: Decribe Persons Who Cheat
Anonymous wrote:Breadcrumbs
People who leave breadcrumbs for others
Anonymous
Post 12/16/2021 21:21     Subject: Decribe Persons Who Cheat
Software Engineers
Hairdressers
Pilots
Nurses
Dentists
Morticians
The unemployed and under employed
People with worthless college degrees
People with stupid college loan debt
Declared Democrats
Declared Republicans
Guys named, Brandon
Women who call themselves, Suzi
Women whose first name starts with the letter, L
Women in their 40s, wow, they are the best
Sales professionals
People addicted to caffeine
Aggressive drivers
People from out of state
People who are savvy with social media and electronic communication in general
People who own Android phones and those with IPhones
People who own Toyotas, but not Hybrids
Old men that do not have saggy balls
Guys with a vasectomy
Women who still dress slutty for Halloween
Alcoholics
Smokers
People with 2 or more cats
Anyone who eats waffles for dinner
People with messy cars
Masturbaters
People who compile dumb lists and those who read them

Anonymous
Post 12/15/2021 22:36     Subject: Decribe Persons Who Cheat
Breadcrumbs
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2021 16:08     Subject: Decribe Persons Who Cheat
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Men who cheat have the hearts of a small shriveled fruit, but not, that grows in a bush.


And women that cheat? There are just as many these days.


Unfaithful spouse don't even deserve their common gender designations.
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2021 15:20     Subject: Decribe Persons Who Cheat
Anonymous wrote:Men who cheat have the hearts of a small shriveled fruit, but not, that grows in a bush.


And women that cheat? There are just as many these days.
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2021 15:05     Subject: Decribe Persons Who Cheat
He was/is a feminist literature scholar/published professor and presented himself as an ideal equal and progressive partner to a high earning wife. Ended up in nasty litigation with his ap for restraining orders after they threatened to defame eachother. Complete hypocrite. Never really outed although his wife dumped him. Watch what people do not what they say.
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2021 14:52     Subject: Decribe Persons Who Cheat
Lobbyists and Firemen, Marines and Surgeons, Attorneys and Electricians, Professors and Journalists, Tech and Business.