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Anonymous wrote:Wouldn't an insecure guy get upset in the above situations? Instead of not caring.

No. A secure man certainly wouldnt want to buy a drink for a man who's been all up in the guts of his wife. LOL. So embarrassing

You must be a woman because you have no idea about male confidence. I’d buy my wife’s former boyfriend a drink. It’s ridiculous to think that somehow shows a lack of confidence.

I'm not. You must be a beta though.

Haha. You’re the beta. A former boyfriend doesn’t bother me. If it bothers you so much who’s the one with the insecurity issue? Confident men don’t let a woman’s past bother them.

Loser alert. you've probably been cheated on multiple times. What a pathetic joke of a person.

Incel alert. Ask a woman if she’d rather have her husband greet an ex with a handshake and a hello or run off huffy and mad like a little boy? My confidence clearly annoys you.

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Anonymous wrote:Wouldn't an insecure guy get upset in the above situations? Instead of not caring.

No. A secure man certainly wouldnt want to buy a drink for a man who's been all up in the guts of his wife. LOL. So embarrassing

You must be a woman because you have no idea about male confidence. I’d buy my wife’s former boyfriend a drink. It’s ridiculous to think that somehow shows a lack of confidence.

I'm not. You must be a beta though.

Haha. You’re the beta. A former boyfriend doesn’t bother me. If it bothers you so much who’s the one with the insecurity issue? Confident men don’t let a woman’s past bother them.

Loser alert. you've probably been cheated on multiple times. What a pathetic joke of a person.

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Anonymous wrote:Wouldn't an insecure guy get upset in the above situations? Instead of not caring.

No. A secure man certainly wouldnt want to buy a drink for a man who's been all up in the guts of his wife. LOL. So embarrassing

You must be a woman because you have no idea about male confidence. I’d buy my wife’s former boyfriend a drink. It’s ridiculous to think that somehow shows a lack of confidence.

Of course it does. And if a woman finds it unattractive doesnt that say it all? LOL.

What is a man supposed to do? Stomp off and make a scene? Be rude and refuse to speak to the ex boyfriend? It’s the OP that has the issue with it, not her husband so it’s her who has the issue. Doesn’t seem to bother the husband. Maybe OP needs to figure out why she wants her husband to be jealous.

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Anonymous wrote:Wouldn't an insecure guy get upset in the above situations? Instead of not caring.

No. A secure man certainly wouldnt want to buy a drink for a man who's been all up in the guts of his wife. LOL. So embarrassing

You must be a woman because you have no idea about male confidence. I’d buy my wife’s former boyfriend a drink. It’s ridiculous to think that somehow shows a lack of confidence.

Of course it does. And if a woman finds it unattractive doesnt that say it all? LOL.

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Anonymous wrote:Wouldn't an insecure guy get upset in the above situations? Instead of not caring.

No. A secure man certainly wouldnt want to buy a drink for a man who's been all up in the guts of his wife. LOL. So embarrassing

You must be a woman because you have no idea about male confidence. I’d buy my wife’s former boyfriend a drink. It’s ridiculous to think that somehow shows a lack of confidence.

I'm not. You must be a beta though.

Haha. You’re the beta. A former boyfriend doesn’t bother me. If it bothers you so much who’s the one with the insecurity issue? Confident men don’t let a woman’s past bother them.

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Anonymous wrote:Wouldn't an insecure guy get upset in the above situations? Instead of not caring.

No. A secure man certainly wouldnt want to buy a drink for a man who's been all up in the guts of his wife. LOL. So embarrassing

You must be a woman because you have no idea about male confidence. I’d buy my wife’s former boyfriend a drink. It’s ridiculous to think that somehow shows a lack of confidence.

I'm not. You must be a beta though.

Haha. You’re the beta. A former boyfriend doesn’t bother me. If it bothers you so much who’s the one with the insecurity issue? Confident men don’t let a woman’s past bother them.

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Anonymous wrote:Op here. I have been with him for a quarter of a century. I can tell you he is very confident. So much so that it pisses me off. He thinks he can do anything. He thinks he is great looking (he is decent but he over inflates his looks). Physically he thinks he is so ao strong. Maybe if you have not dealt with this....you wouldn't understand.

If he was insecure, I would have picked up on it.

When other men talk to me...it's as if he thinks they wouldn't stand a chance because he is so much better

Op, I am like your DH. Tall, attractive (I probably think i am better looking than I am 😃). It doesn't bother me if my wife talks with other men or goes out with them solo. I trust her and I definitely have the "she isn't doing better than me" attitude.

There are a lot of insecure incels on here projecting on your DH and guys like me. We just aren't the jealous type. And it's not necessarily a great trait, I have had many women who I have dated tell me it feels like I don't care if they stay or go. The truth is, of course I love my wife but I would be fine on the dating market if single. That's probably the vibe your DH gives. Some women find it sexy, others feel the need to be possessed. We are not for everyone

Yes, they dont like it because it's not strong male energy, and heterosexual women are attracted to male energy. The complacent "shrug, whatever happens is fine" attitude is very feminine and feminine women are going to be repelled. It's simply not masculine and those who are attracted to masculinity are going to be repelled/annoyed by you because youre not masculine. But you dont seem to care about much in life regardless and seem complacent so whatever... not trying to be mean but it is what it is.

I don't know you and you don't know me, and I am only saying this to help OP and give her some perspective so she can get insight.

Two things I am absolutely confident about: I have slept with way, way more women than you. That doesn't make me better or worse than you or other men but it defeats your idiotic theory of feminine energy. 2) you are the same poster replying to yourself and ruining an interesting thread where women actually want insight as to why their husbands don't seem to get jealous.

It's not a rare trait, and in fact among my friends who are attractive and super successful it's more of the norm. But I guess we are all beta cuck Democrat closet gays or whatever is the latest political insult

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Anonymous wrote:Wouldn't an insecure guy get upset in the above situations? Instead of not caring.

No. A secure man certainly wouldnt want to buy a drink for a man who's been all up in the guts of his wife. LOL. So embarrassing

You must be a woman because you have no idea about male confidence. I’d buy my wife’s former boyfriend a drink. It’s ridiculous to think that somehow shows a lack of confidence.

I'm not. You must be a beta though.

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Anonymous wrote:Reading this thread is like a revelation as to why most of you are such losers in your relationships.

+1

Suddenly all the wives that dont want to have sex makes sense. These guys seem so lame and repulsively pathetic

Which side are you talking about?

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Anonymous wrote:Reading this thread is like a revelation as to why most of you are such losers in your relationships.

+1

Suddenly all the wives that dont want to have sex makes sense. These guys seem so lame and repulsively pathetic

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Anonymous wrote:Op here. I have been with him for a quarter of a century. I can tell you he is very confident. So much so that it pisses me off. He thinks he can do anything. He thinks he is great looking (he is decent but he over inflates his looks). Physically he thinks he is so ao strong. Maybe if you have not dealt with this....you wouldn't understand.

If he was insecure, I would have picked up on it.

When other men talk to me...it's as if he thinks they wouldn't stand a chance because he is so much better

Op, I am like your DH. Tall, attractive (I probably think i am better looking than I am 😃). It doesn't bother me if my wife talks with other men or goes out with them solo. I trust her and I definitely have the "she isn't doing better than me" attitude.

There are a lot of insecure incels on here projecting on your DH and guys like me. We just aren't the jealous type. And it's not necessarily a great trait, I have had many women who I have dated tell me it feels like I don't care if they stay or go. The truth is, of course I love my wife but I would be fine on the dating market if single. That's probably the vibe your DH gives. Some women find it sexy, others feel the need to be possessed. We are not for everyone

Yes, they dont like it because it's not strong male energy, and heterosexual women are attracted to male energy. The complacent "shrug, whatever happens is fine" attitude is very feminine and feminine women are going to be repelled. It's simply not masculine and those who are attracted to masculinity are going to be repelled/annoyed by you because youre not masculine. But you dont seem to care about much in life regardless and seem complacent so whatever... not trying to be mean but it is what it is.

Anonymous wrote:Reading this thread is like a revelation as to why most of you are such losers in your relationships.

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Anonymous wrote:Wouldn't an insecure guy get upset in the above situations? Instead of not caring.

No. A secure man certainly wouldnt want to buy a drink for a man who's been all up in the guts of his wife. LOL. So embarrassing

You must be a woman because you have no idea about male confidence. I’d buy my wife’s former boyfriend a drink. It’s ridiculous to think that somehow shows a lack of confidence.

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Anonymous wrote:Wouldn't an insecure guy get upset in the above situations? Instead of not caring.

No. A secure man certainly wouldnt want to buy a drink for a man who's been all up in the guts of his wife. LOL. So embarrassing

You must be a woman because you have no idea about male confidence. I’d buy my wife’s former boyfriend a drink. It’s ridiculous to think that somehow shows a lack of confidence.