Anonymous
Post 10/22/2021 09:51     Subject: Same-team kid steals the ball

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think this is troll post, but it is pretty good.


Just like anything - some are better than others.



I’m pretty sure this kid is on my kid’s team. There was a girl in a skirt at practice with some fancy thing in her hair. Not sure if this is her norm. I noticed only because I heard another kid say something about it to the coach. Kid didn’t look “little” but maybe skinny. In games I never noticed this kid stealing the ball. I’d say…she tries hard.


You have no idea, honey. This happens all over the place until kids learn to trust their teammates.
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2021 09:01     Subject: Same-team kid steals the ball

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think this is troll post, but it is pretty good.


Just like anything - some are better than others.



I’m pretty sure this kid is on my kid’s team. There was a girl in a skirt at practice with some fancy thing in her hair. Not sure if this is her norm. I noticed only because I heard another kid say something about it to the coach. Kid didn’t look “little” but maybe skinny. In games I never noticed this kid stealing the ball. I’d say…she tries hard.
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2021 03:04     Subject: Same-team kid steals the ball

*kids her age
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2021 03:03     Subject: Same-team kid steals the ball

Actually, she's too young to be on the team. The reason she does that is because all seven-year-olds do that. When they're all on the same field together and all the same age you don't notice it because it's the bumblebee swarm. But when 9-year-olds have the ball they actually understand that you're supposed to share it and so she just sticks out like a sore thumb. She needs to be with an age-appropriate team or program. Kids are age should be playing three versus three on a little tiny field with little tiny goals
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2021 03:02     Subject: Same-team kid steals the ball

Don't give her orange slices at halftime until she stops
Anonymous
Post 10/21/2021 22:15     Subject: Same-team kid steals the ball

Anonymous wrote:
My kid is 9 and on a team with a bunch of younger girls. One tiny girl is very enthusiastic and keeps kicking the ball away from my daughter even though they’re on the same team. This girl tries to runndown the field and often ends up kicking it out of bounds. Sometimes she goes in the wrong direction. My kid is stronger and can give it a good strong kick that goes a quarter of the way down the field If no one is in the way.

The coach never yells at the little girl who kicks it away from my DD. I yell, “same team!” and “wrong way!” But her mom kept giving me a look last game.

Wondering if I should speak to the coach about the little girl’s stealing from my DD and her mom’s annoyed glances when I yell at her. Of is this how it is when you are 9 in a team of 7 year olds.


Yeah folks, this is pretty much a troll.


But all the advice I read was spot on. Good job community!!!! (for reals)
Anonymous
Post 10/21/2021 21:52     Subject: Same-team kid steals the ball

Anonymous wrote:I think this is troll post, but it is pretty good.


Just like anything - some are better than others.
Anonymous
Post 10/21/2021 18:34     Subject: Same-team kid steals the ball

Anonymous wrote:STOP YELLING AT KIDS.



THEN HOW WOULD BETHESDA HAVE ANY COACHES?!
Anonymous
Post 10/21/2021 15:57     Subject: Re:Same-team kid steals the ball

OP, if this is upsetting you enough that you needed to start a thread on DCUM about it, maybe you need to step back from your kid’s rec soccer a bit.
Anonymous
Post 10/21/2021 15:56     Subject: Same-team kid steals the ball

I think this is troll post, but it is pretty good.
Anonymous
Post 10/21/2021 15:55     Subject: Same-team kid steals the ball

Anonymous wrote:Tell your daughter to steal the ball from the other girl when she gets the ball


Exactly. If you want the ball, go steal it back.
Anonymous
Post 10/21/2021 15:22     Subject: Same-team kid steals the ball

Don’t 7yo play 4v4?? There is no “9”.
Anonymous
Post 10/21/2021 14:26     Subject: Same-team kid steals the ball

Anonymous wrote:
My kid is 9 and on a team with a bunch of younger girls. One tiny girl is very enthusiastic and keeps kicking the ball away from my daughter even though they’re on the same team. This girl tries to runndown the field and often ends up kicking it out of bounds. Sometimes she goes in the wrong direction. My kid is stronger and can give it a good strong kick that goes a quarter of the way down the field If no one is in the way.

The coach never yells at the little girl who kicks it away from my DD. I yell, “same team!” and “wrong way!” But her mom kept giving me a look last game.

Wondering if I should speak to the coach about the little girl’s stealing from my DD and her mom’s annoyed glances when I yell at her. Of is this how it is when you are 9 in a team of 7 year olds.


Don't ever yell at the kid from the sidelines again.

This is an issue for the coach to deal with.

Your DD is aware of the little girl's behavior so she needs to be more aggressive about keeping the other girl away, as soon as she gets the ball she should run down the field too. A good strong kick is too easy for the other team to intercept especially at that age.
Anonymous
Post 10/21/2021 14:18     Subject: Re:Same-team kid steals the ball

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Is this a joke?

Stop yelling at children. If you must, yell at your own only.


What’s wrong with what I yelled? The kid needs direction and our coach isn’t giving it.


You sound like a terrible parent OP
Anonymous
Post 10/21/2021 14:13     Subject: Re:Same-team kid steals the ball

OMG OP you're crazy.

new flash- your child is not perfect.

"My kid is stronger and can give it a good strong kick that goes a quarter of the way down the field If no one is in the way."

This really isn't the point or necessarily a great thing anyway. Two wrongs don't make a right.