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Anonymous wrote:OP this is unacceptable. Parent of two that played Divison 1.

If anyone criticized my kids at any age they'd have to deal with all four foot ten of me and it would not be pretty.

Also, I never had my kids with coaches that screamed at kids. Never. Walked away twice never looked back.

+1. I’m a parent of two boys that are also playing D1 soccer.

If anyone on our team that criticizes my boys during their youth soccer games, they would have to deal with my husband who is 6’6” 270 lbs and former D1 football player. There are many games that their uncles would attend who are as equally large and strong. It’s interesting that no parents ever criticize my boys back then even though they were late bloomers/growth spurts. I don’t know if the other parents were just decent human beings or were just too scared to piss off my husband.

+1. While I’m not 6’6” tall, I carry a big stick!! Verbally abusing my DC will get you a physical abuse from me.

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Anonymous wrote:We all make choices everyday. If you choose to yell at my kid, there is a big risk of finding me in your face. Is the risk worth the reward? Up to you.

If your kid sucks and you get your butt kicked you really look like a loser chump..

You are absolutely correct and all I'm saying is that it's a big risk to you as well. Is it worth the risk you are taking?

It's no risk to me at all. Firstly the idea of getting my butt kicked doesn't bother me at all. Fighting and beating or, on occasion, getting beaten are just a daily part of life for a man - or at least they used to be. Neither worries me at all. And secondly if your kid is a mal-coordinated unathletic waste of field space, the odds are pretty good they inherited it from you. So you're not likely to be winning the fight you seem so eager to have in any case.

You are such a loser.

OP, I think you should report this to the club and the coach about this. It’s unacceptable and it also encourages these types of bullying from other parents and players.

Anonymous wrote:It’s normal to say “pass to Ava!” Or “shoot!” At that age.

Who is Ava?

I’m glad we’re on an ECNL team that have highly educated, classy and decent human beings.

But at the same time, our coach and club doesn’t tolerate these types of behaviors from parents either.

Anonymous wrote:OP this is unacceptable. Parent of two that played Divison 1.

If anyone criticized my kids at any age they'd have to deal with all four foot ten of me and it would not be pretty.

Also, I never had my kids with coaches that screamed at kids. Never. Walked away twice never looked back.

+1. I’m a parent of two boys that are also playing D1 soccer.

If anyone on our team that criticizes my boys during their youth soccer games, they would have to deal with my husband who is 6’6” 270 lbs and former D1 football player. There are many games that their uncles would attend who are as equally large and strong. It’s interesting that no parents ever criticize my boys back then even though they were late bloomers/growth spurts. I don’t know if the other parents were just decent human beings or were just too scared to piss off my husband.

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Anonymous wrote:Yelling at kids when they make a mistake is completely wrong especially when yelling at players on your DC’s team. Did your mother teach you “if you can’t say anything positive, keep your mouth shut”?

Yes, it is frustrating when your DC’s teammates sucks, but it’s not appropriate whatsoever to comment anything negative.

Snowflake. My kid needs teammates who don't suck. And if your kid sucks they need to hear it so they either shape up or ship out.

Blame the coach, not the player. It’s the coach that offered them a spot on the team. Secondly, it’s the coaches’ job to shape the up or ship them out, NOT you!!

You think by yelling negative comments at them during the game is going to make them play better?? No, it makes them worse.

Stop being a stupid jerk!

Sounds like you have a sucky kid and you think they should be protected from life. Snowflake family.

Sorry to disappoint you, but my DD is the best and most technical player on her EDP D1 team.

Sounds like you’re pissed off because the really bad player is taking up your DC’s playing time. Screaming/yelling at the other players won’t get your DC off the bench. 😭

Wow! Your kid is the most technical kid on her EDP team! She couldn’t make GA or ECNL? LOL

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yelling at kids when they make a mistake is completely wrong especially when yelling at players on your DC’s team. Did your mother teach you “if you can’t say anything positive, keep your mouth shut”?

Yes, it is frustrating when your DC’s teammates sucks, but it’s not appropriate whatsoever to comment anything negative.

Snowflake. My kid needs teammates who don't suck. And if your kid sucks they need to hear it so they either shape up or ship out.

Blame the coach, not the player. It’s the coach that offered them a spot on the team. Secondly, it’s the coaches’ job to shape the up or ship them out, NOT you!!

You think by yelling negative comments at them during the game is going to make them play better?? No, it makes them worse.

Stop being a stupid jerk!

Sounds like you have a sucky kid and you think they should be protected from life. Snowflake family.

Sorry to disappoint you, but my DD is the best and most technical player on her EDP D1 team.

Sounds like you’re pissed off because the really bad player is taking up your DC’s playing time. Screaming/yelling at the other players won’t get your DC off the bench. 😭

Your kid is the best and most technical player on an EDP team? Lol. Think that proves my point.

Still depressed and hurt because your DC is warming the bench during an away game that took you hours to drive to. I strongly recommend you made an immediate appointment with a psychiatrist. There are pills for your condition. I wish I can help you but I’m a internal medicine doctor not a psychiatrist.

OP this is unacceptable. Parent of two that played Divison 1.

If anyone criticized my kids at any age they'd have to deal with all four foot ten of me and it would not be pretty.

Also, I never had my kids with coaches that screamed at kids. Never. Walked away twice never looked back.

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Anonymous wrote:We all make choices everyday. If you choose to yell at my kid, there is a big risk of finding me in your face. Is the risk worth the reward? Up to you.

If your kid sucks and you get your butt kicked you really look like a loser chump..

You are absolutely correct and all I'm saying is that it's a big risk to you as well. Is it worth the risk you are taking?

It's no risk to me at all. Firstly the idea of getting my butt kicked doesn't bother me at all. Fighting and beating or, on occasion, getting beaten are just a daily part of life for a man - or at least they used to be. Neither worries me at all. And secondly if your kid is a mal-coordinated unathletic waste of field space, the odds are pretty good they inherited it from you. So you're not likely to be winning the fight you seem so eager to have in any case.

Big talk behind a keyboard. Pathetic!!

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Anonymous wrote:We all make choices everyday. If you choose to yell at my kid, there is a big risk of finding me in your face. Is the risk worth the reward? Up to you.

If your kid sucks and you get your butt kicked you really look like a loser chump..

You are absolutely correct and all I'm saying is that it's a big risk to you as well. Is it worth the risk you are taking?

It's no risk to me at all. Firstly the idea of getting my butt kicked doesn't bother me at all. Fighting and beating or, on occasion, getting beaten are just a daily part of life for a man - or at least they used to be. Neither worries me at all. And secondly if your kid is a mal-coordinated unathletic waste of field space, the odds are pretty good they inherited it from you. So you're not likely to be winning the fight you seem so eager to have in any case.

NP: AND THIS IS WHAT IS WRONG WITH SPORTS TODAY. PARENTS SHOULD BE BANNED. Just look at these fools.

We experienced this in kindergarten soccer, of all things. In the post game snack session one parent took it upon herself to critique all the players and commented that X and Y look like they don't know what they are doing or even want to be there -- in ear shot of the kids. I happen to be aware that both of those kids have non-obvious special needs and their playing was developmentally appropriate for the age and developmental issues. The parent of one of them was so hurt and upset that they quit, which is the exact opposite of what that child needed, but I don't blame them.

Other parents are so focused on their own kid being the best on the best team that they fail at being human.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yelling at kids when they make a mistake is completely wrong especially when yelling at players on your DC’s team. Did your mother teach you “if you can’t say anything positive, keep your mouth shut”?

Yes, it is frustrating when your DC’s teammates sucks, but it’s not appropriate whatsoever to comment anything negative.

Snowflake. My kid needs teammates who don't suck. And if your kid sucks they need to hear it so they either shape up or ship out.

Blame the coach, not the player. It’s the coach that offered them a spot on the team. Secondly, it’s the coaches’ job to shape the up or ship them out, NOT you!!

You think by yelling negative comments at them during the game is going to make them play better?? No, it makes them worse.

Stop being a stupid jerk!

Sounds like you have a sucky kid and you think they should be protected from life. Snowflake family.

Sorry to disappoint you, but my DD is the best and most technical player on her EDP D1 team.

Sounds like you’re pissed off because the really bad player is taking up your DC’s playing time. Screaming/yelling at the other players won’t get your DC off the bench. 😭

Your kid is the best and most technical player on an EDP team? Lol. Think that proves my point.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We all make choices everyday. If you choose to yell at my kid, there is a big risk of finding me in your face. Is the risk worth the reward? Up to you.

If your kid sucks and you get your butt kicked you really look like a loser chump..

You are absolutely correct and all I'm saying is that it's a big risk to you as well. Is it worth the risk you are taking?

It's no risk to me at all. Firstly the idea of getting my butt kicked doesn't bother me at all. Fighting and beating or, on occasion, getting beaten are just a daily part of life for a man - or at least they used to be. Neither worries me at all. And secondly if your kid is a mal-coordinated unathletic waste of field space, the odds are pretty good they inherited it from you. So you're not likely to be winning the fight you seem so eager to have in any case.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We all make choices everyday. If you choose to yell at my kid, there is a big risk of finding me in your face. Is the risk worth the reward? Up to you.

If your kid sucks and you get your butt kicked you really look like a loser chump..

You are absolutely correct and all I'm saying is that it's a big risk to you as well. Is it worth the risk you are taking?