Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If you want to continue having skilled nurses in the room while you deliver your baby, wear your mask. It’s for the nurses safety. Even though you had a negative test and are vaccinated, test can be wrong and we all know the Delta break through the vaccinations. It’s not all about you mama! Sounds like you delivered a healthy baby with no lasting negative affects from wearing a mask. Also it’s not just holy Cross.
So this kind of pisses me off. Why can’t it be about giving what comfort we can to the laboring mother? I would be annoyed to wear a mask given full vaccination and negative test. I can guarantee you it would not be policy if men were giving birth.
Only here would people tell a mother during labor, it’s not all about you mama! In a condescending way.
We have got to do better with maternal care.
Seriously. That more than one person is responding saying that a woman in active labor should be thinking about other people’s needs and comfort above her own is sick and disgusting. That many women have been brainwashed to feel this way is a sign of a failing society. We absolutely must do better.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OMG OP had to wear a noninvasive mask.
OP you need parenting classes the first rule of parenting your kid's health comes first.
Shame on you.
I've had six kids gladly would have worn a mask.
How does her wearing a mask put her kids health first?
Quite possibly the dumbest post I have ever read. Talk about someone focused on themselves just needing to sneak in I had six kids.
This. How does wearing a mask help her child's health? She's not going to wear a mask around the baby at home. Also, the baby was LITERALLY IN HER BODY and could have caught COVID that way, since it can be transmitted in utero.
Anonymous wrote:I would complain to hospital management.
Anonymous wrote:And if the woman in the throes of childbirth refuses, takes it off every time they put it on and/or fights back, what’re the hospital people going to do? Abandon her? Physically restrain her? Shoot her up with chemical restraints? People in medical facilities too commonly forget that patients are not prisoners or children and it is the professionals who owe the duty to the patient, not the other way around.
Anonymous wrote:I had to wear one during my Sibley delivery last year. Why are you surprised?
Anonymous wrote:OMG OP had to wear a noninvasive mask.
OP you need parenting classes the first rule of parenting your kid's health comes first.
Shame on you.
I've had six kids gladly would have worn a mask.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OMG OP had to wear a noninvasive mask.
OP you need parenting classes the first rule of parenting your kid's health comes first.
Shame on you.
I've had six kids gladly would have worn a mask.
How does her wearing a mask put her kids health first?
Quite possibly the dumbest post I have ever read. Talk about someone focused on themselves just needing to sneak in I had six kids.
Anonymous wrote:Quick tangential question as I’ll be giving birth in the next 2 weeks. Did you also have to sleep in your mask? I will be induced at 38 weeks due to a pre-existing condition and with my first pregnancy it took a long time. I was overnight in L&D 3 nights and then recovery.
I assume my DH and I will be required to sleep at night in masks?
Anonymous wrote:OMG OP had to wear a noninvasive mask.
OP you need parenting classes the first rule of parenting your kid's health comes first.
Shame on you.
I've had six kids gladly would have worn a mask.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here is Holy Cross safety procedure. Masking at all times is required, even if patients. This shouldn't have surprised you.
https://www.holycrosshealth.org/health-and-wellness/safe-care/
do they mask patients in surger? No, they do not. there is obviously a difference between a vaccinated, covid negative woman in active labor, and a hacking patient coughing in the ER waiting room.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If you want to continue having skilled nurses in the room while you deliver your baby, wear your mask. It’s for the nurses safety. Even though you had a negative test and are vaccinated, test can be wrong and we all know the Delta break through the vaccinations. It’s not all about you mama! Sounds like you delivered a healthy baby with no lasting negative affects from wearing a mask. Also it’s not just holy Cross.
Patients owe no duty of “safety” to nurses, who are nonetheless liable for damages and possibly open to prosecution if they indulge any “walk out” fantasies.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OMG OP had to wear a noninvasive mask.
OP you need parenting classes the first rule of parenting your kid's health comes first.
Shame on you.
I've had six kids gladly would have worn a mask.
Ah, the mommy-shaming has begun! OP isn't even out of the hospital yet.
OP, this is how it goes. As a pp said, everyone has an opinion. You'll have to learn how to ignore it all. Congrats on the baby. I'm sorry about the crappy mask experience.
Anonymous wrote:OMG OP had to wear a noninvasive mask.
OP you need parenting classes the first rule of parenting your kid's health comes first.
Shame on you.
I've had six kids gladly would have worn a mask.