Anonymous wrote:About the blonde dye-it WILL increase the # of men interested. The quality will DECREASE as many Southern women who dye their hair "ACT" dumb so as not to be a threat to a dumb guy's ego. Be prepared for shallow, insecure types should you go this route.

+1

Don't listen to all the bad advice here. Ugly people have just as much sex as anybody else. Otherwise, evolution would have weeded them out already.

Having a positive attitude is all you need.

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Anonymous wrote:Put the dating apps aside. Walk into wherever people your age go out where you live. Walk up to men you think look nice and are not accompanied by a woman. Say: "Hey, I think you're cute. If [/b]your[b] not in a relationship... would you like to have coffee with me tomorrow?".

Some will say "no". But I bet you'll soon learn that your options are far greater than you think.

Terrible advice and it’s “you’re”

I bet you're (!) the center of every party

Living in a place with many more men than women might help.

Give oral. Doesn’t matter how ugly you are

About the blonde dye-it WILL increase the # of men interested. The quality will DECREASE as many Southern women who dye their hair "ACT" dumb so as not to be a threat to a dumb guy's ego. Be prepared for shallow, insecure types should you go this route.

Anonymous wrote:Guy here. There are all kinds of guys out there who like all kinds of things. I see lots of non-conventionally attractive people who are happily married.

If you want to widen your dating pool, hire a personal trainer/nutritionist and get into you best shape - fit, not skinny. You’ll probably learn a lot along the way and gain tons of confidence.

OP this is spot on. Don’t listen to all those shallow people, who wants to date them anyway. Be the best version of yourself, be the person you want to meet….

Agree with advice to get in shape and maybe dye your hair blonde or do highlights if appropriate. Guys pay a lot of attention to these two things.

And, wear a "no makeup" makeup look. Guys also love thinking women aren't wearing makeup.

Guy here. There are all kinds of guys out there who like all kinds of things. I see lots of non-conventionally attractive people who are happily married.

If you want to widen your dating pool, hire a personal trainer/nutritionist and get into you best shape - fit, not skinny. You’ll probably learn a lot along the way and gain tons of confidence.

Get professionally done photos.

Boobs

Blonde

Thin a plus

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Anonymous wrote:What dating advice would you give a single woman who is not conventionally attractive?

When I get no messages on my online dating profiles.

Be thin. Be nice. Bjs.

Winner

Anonymous wrote:Work out. And if you are Caucasian definitely dye your hair blonde.

Agree with the work out part, disagree with the bleached hair part.

Work out. And if you are Caucasian definitely dye your hair blonde.

OP I've seen more woman that could benefit from minor plastic surgery. One I remember needed a nose job very badly.

I think most woman could be attractive with the above, diet, clothes, hair, etc. Be honest with yourself on how you could improve your appearance.

Work out, get a lesson in makeup application from a makeup stylist (not just someone who works at the mall), get someone to help you buy clothes that are flattering to your skin tone, go to a really great hairstylist and maybe get highlights or something to help your appearance. Keep hair shoulder length, or longer depending on face shape. Many women aren’t attractive enough to pull of short hair.
Have someone else take your photos for online dating, selfie’s don’t ever make one look their best. Get your teeth fixed and whitened, and smile!