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It's shocking how fast this marriage ended. They seemed like they were doing fine earlier this year. They above pic was taken in February (only 6 months ago!!) at the "This is Me Now" premiere. They separated 2 months later!! When marriages end, it's usually after years of slow deterioration.

This is why I think she did something to push him over the edge. Like insisting on having another child.

Anonymous wrote:Gwyneth said he was an excellent lover. Maybe that’s why the ladies love him…

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It's shocking how fast this marriage ended. They seemed like they were doing fine earlier this year. They above pic was taken in February (only 6 months ago!!) at the "This is Me Now" premiere. They separated 2 months later!! When marriages end, it's usually after years of slow deterioration.

This is why I think she did something to push him over the edge. Like insisting on having another child.

It is hilarious that people think they can gauge how their marriage was going based upon a staged, publicity photo!

The video of that red carpet moment was so awkward. She kept stopping for the cameras to gaze into Ben’s eyes and they were yelling kiss to her and Ben. It seems so demeaning.

I don’t think he enjoys red carpets. She clearly loves it.

I can’t remember Ben and Garner doing red carpet appearances/entrances together

Oh but they did!

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It's shocking how fast this marriage ended. They seemed like they were doing fine earlier this year. They above pic was taken in February (only 6 months ago!!) at the "This is Me Now" premiere. They separated 2 months later!! When marriages end, it's usually after years of slow deterioration.

This is why I think she did something to push him over the edge. Like insisting on having another child.

It is hilarious that people think they can gauge how their marriage was going based upon a staged, publicity photo!

The video of that red carpet moment was so awkward. She kept stopping for the cameras to gaze into Ben’s eyes and they were yelling kiss to her and Ben. It seems so demeaning.

I don’t think he enjoys red carpets. She clearly loves it.

I can’t remember Ben and Garner doing red carpet appearances/entrances together

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It's shocking how fast this marriage ended. They seemed like they were doing fine earlier this year. They above pic was taken in February (only 6 months ago!!) at the "This is Me Now" premiere. They separated 2 months later!! When marriages end, it's usually after years of slow deterioration.

This is why I think she did something to push him over the edge. Like insisting on having another child.

It is hilarious that people think they can gauge how their marriage was going based upon a staged, publicity photo!

The video of that red carpet moment was so awkward. She kept stopping for the cameras to gaze into Ben’s eyes and they were yelling kiss to her and Ben. It seems so demeaning.

I don’t think he enjoys red carpets. She clearly loves it.

I can’t remember Ben and Garner doing red carpet appearances/entrances together

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Anonymous wrote:

It's shocking how fast this marriage ended. They seemed like they were doing fine earlier this year. They above pic was taken in February (only 6 months ago!!) at the "This is Me Now" premiere. They separated 2 months later!! When marriages end, it's usually after years of slow deterioration.

This is why I think she did something to push him over the edge. Like insisting on having another child.

It is hilarious that people think they can gauge how their marriage was going based upon a staged, publicity photo!

The video of that red carpet moment was so awkward. She kept stopping for the cameras to gaze into Ben’s eyes and they were yelling kiss to her and Ben. It seems so demeaning.

I don’t think he enjoys red carpets. She clearly loves it.

I can’t remember Ben and Garner doing red carpet appearances/entrances together

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Anonymous wrote:Violet, who is very close to her mom, voluntarily spent time with J Lo this summer, on her own. To me that speaks volumes about the dynamics and what went down.

What does it say to you?

That JLo is a kind and warm role model and that Violet already knew what her dad was like, he’s been through other women.

Interesting. That’s not my take. Violet reminds me of the daughter of a cousin of mine. The dad’s an alcoholic, the parents went through a chaotic divorce. The daughter has low self esteem and she a total people-pleaser/peacemaker type, just like many kids of alcoholics are. She is polite to everyone and always trying to make the adults in her life happy. It’s really sad.

Well she didn't attend the wedding, so she's obviously not that much of a people pleaser.

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It's shocking how fast this marriage ended. They seemed like they were doing fine earlier this year. They above pic was taken in February (only 6 months ago!!) at the "This is Me Now" premiere. They separated 2 months later!! When marriages end, it's usually after years of slow deterioration.

This is why I think she did something to push him over the edge. Like insisting on having another child.

It is hilarious that people think they can gauge how their marriage was going based upon a staged, publicity photo!

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Anonymous wrote:

It's shocking how fast this marriage ended. They seemed like they were doing fine earlier this year. They above pic was taken in February (only 6 months ago!!) at the "This is Me Now" premiere. They separated 2 months later!! When marriages end, it's usually after years of slow deterioration.

This is why I think she did something to push him over the edge. Like insisting on having another child.

It is hilarious that people think they can gauge how their marriage was going based upon a staged, publicity photo!

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Anonymous wrote:

It's shocking how fast this marriage ended. They seemed like they were doing fine earlier this year. They above pic was taken in February (only 6 months ago!!) at the "This is Me Now" premiere. They separated 2 months later!! When marriages end, it's usually after years of slow deterioration.

This is why I think she did something to push him over the edge. Like insisting on having another child.

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It's shocking how fast this marriage ended. They seemed like they were doing fine earlier this year. They above pic was taken in February (only 6 months ago!!) at the "This is Me Now" premiere. They separated 2 months later!! When marriages end, it's usually after years of slow deterioration.

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Anonymous wrote:Violet, who is very close to her mom, voluntarily spent time with J Lo this summer, on her own. To me that speaks volumes about the dynamics and what went down.

What does it say to you?

That JLo is a kind and warm role model and that Violet already knew what her dad was like, he’s been through other women.

Interesting. That’s not my take. Violet reminds me of the daughter of a cousin of mine. The dad’s an alcoholic, the parents went through a chaotic divorce. The daughter has low self esteem and she a total people-pleaser/peacemaker type, just like many kids of alcoholics are. She is polite to everyone and always trying to make the adults in her life happy. It’s really sad.