Anonymous
Post 11/08/2023 19:19     Subject: Volleyball club- recap and thoughts

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I hate to say it, but if more parents + girls understood what they were getting into, there would probably be far fewer at tryouts.
if you make a team: the amount of time spent at tournaments (all day!), the number of tournaments (most week ends!) the cost of hotels + travel. Costs go far beyond club fees.


In my kids first year of club I was not prepared for the amount of time spent at tournaments! You get there when it’s dark in the morning and leave when it’s dark in the evening! Almost every weekend!


Also, for both days of a regular weekend, and all 3 days of a 3 day weekend (MLK weekend, President's Day weekend, we were even invited to a 3 day one on Easter weekend including Good Friday). NO TIME OFF. Why????
Anonymous
Post 11/08/2023 19:18     Subject: Volleyball club- recap and thoughts

Anonymous wrote:How is mojo still holding tryouts? There is absolutely no way they need more players. There were soooo many great players at their clinics and their tryouts were full. I have a really hard time believing they still need players.


Money grab. That place was an absolute zoo this weekend both days of tryouts. 3 courts FULL of girls. It’s probably for the hefty tryout fee.
Anonymous
Post 11/08/2023 19:16     Subject: Volleyball club- recap and thoughts

Anonymous wrote:I hate to say it, but if more parents + girls understood what they were getting into, there would probably be far fewer at tryouts.
if you make a team: the amount of time spent at tournaments (all day!), the number of tournaments (most week ends!) the cost of hotels + travel. Costs go far beyond club fees.


I’m agree with this. Had I known years ago, I would not have had her tryout. She likes it, but the tryout nigtmare, cost and time commitment is just too much IMO
Anonymous
Post 11/08/2023 19:10     Subject: Volleyball club- recap and thoughts

Anonymous wrote:I hate to say it, but if more parents + girls understood what they were getting into, there would probably be far fewer at tryouts.
if you make a team: the amount of time spent at tournaments (all day!), the number of tournaments (most week ends!) the cost of hotels + travel. Costs go far beyond club fees.


In my kids first year of club I was not prepared for the amount of time spent at tournaments! You get there when it’s dark in the morning and leave when it’s dark in the evening! Almost every weekend!
Anonymous
Post 11/08/2023 18:43     Subject: Volleyball club- recap and thoughts

How is mojo still holding tryouts? There is absolutely no way they need more players. There were soooo many great players at their clinics and their tryouts were full. I have a really hard time believing they still need players.
Anonymous
Post 11/08/2023 18:41     Subject: Re:Volleyball club- recap and thoughts

FPYCparent wrote:I haven't been directly involved with other club sports (beyond soccer and volleyball) or other activities (ballet, swim, lacrosse), but I'm not sure that the total costs are drastically different.

DD played mid-level travel soccer for six years. We never spent more that $2500 in a year BUT we also never travelled outside of the DMV (Fredericksburg, Hollywood, and Winchester were out longest trips ... and none were overnight). If DD had pursued a higher-level of play, it would have required higher upfront fees and much farther travel every weekend. I'm sure that if swim parents, for example, jumped into this thread, they may share similar numbers in terms of total cost.

I think it comes down to understanding what it is your child wants out of the experience. For us, it was DD earning a varsity HS volleyball roster spot this year after having earned a JV spot without ever playing club. Mission accomplished ... with an All-District Honorable Mention honor to boot. Now, DD wants to see how high she can go in this sport. This required us looking at higher level clubs (and likely the high total costs associated with that pursuit).

If playing varsity HS volleyball isn't a goal for your kid, then I am sure that there is a CHRVA club that you can call home with a relatively-appropriate price point. I'm not trying to say that any club sport will ever be "cheap." But, I think there is a reasonable option for your expected outcome.


Swim parent here of high level swimmer. Volleyball is WAY more expensive. I do not get it.
Anonymous
Post 11/08/2023 18:18     Subject: Re:Volleyball club- recap and thoughts

Anonymous wrote:
FPYCparent wrote:I haven't been directly involved with other club sports (beyond soccer and volleyball) or other activities (ballet, swim, lacrosse), but I'm not sure that the total costs are drastically different.

DD played mid-level travel soccer for six years. We never spent more that $2500 in a year BUT we also never travelled outside of the DMV (Fredericksburg, Hollywood, and Winchester were out longest trips ... and none were overnight). If DD had pursued a higher-level of play, it would have required higher upfront fees and much farther travel every weekend. I'm sure that if swim parents, for example, jumped into this thread, they may share similar numbers in terms of total cost.

I think it comes down to understanding what it is your child wants out of the experience. For us, it was DD earning a varsity HS volleyball roster spot this year after having earned a JV spot without ever playing club. Mission accomplished ... with an All-District Honorable Mention honor to boot. Now, DD wants to see how high she can go in this sport. This required us looking at higher level clubs (and likely the high total costs associated with that pursuit).

If playing varsity HS volleyball isn't a goal for your kid, then I am sure that there is a CHRVA club that you can call home with a relatively-appropriate price point. I'm not trying to say that any club sport will ever be "cheap." But, I think there is a reasonable option for your expected outcome.


You’re wrong and seem to be arguing for argument’s sake. I have other kids who have played MLS Next soccer and high level club lacrosse with the overwhelming majority of tournaments and games out of state (and MLS Next tournaments requiring airfare and week long hotels/ airbnbs). I keep track of my expenses. The 4 years my kid has done club volleyball, the price was over double than other club sports. Travel costs are huge (gas, tolls, hotels, meals, tickets, parking, etc., and these were not including any airfare) plus club fees, uniforms, etc. This isn’t even adding in the costs of camps, clinics and tryouts. Volleyball is astronomically expensive.


And think opportunity cost. What other passions/interests could you kid be exploring with that time and money? Are they on a DC area hamster wheel pursuing achievement for the sake of achievement? Do they really want to spend that much time in the gym, traveling (not to nice or interesting places, and not like players have time to explore anyway), and missing out on other things they could be doing? Volleyball is an exciting and creative game that’s fun to watch, but it really squeezes out other options.
Anonymous
Post 11/08/2023 18:13     Subject: Volleyball club- recap and thoughts

So why is Vienna Elite still looking? Aren’t they and DMV supposed to be considered top flight?
Anonymous
Post 11/08/2023 18:03     Subject: Re:Volleyball club- recap and thoughts

FPYCparent wrote:I haven't been directly involved with other club sports (beyond soccer and volleyball) or other activities (ballet, swim, lacrosse), but I'm not sure that the total costs are drastically different.

DD played mid-level travel soccer for six years. We never spent more that $2500 in a year BUT we also never travelled outside of the DMV (Fredericksburg, Hollywood, and Winchester were out longest trips ... and none were overnight). If DD had pursued a higher-level of play, it would have required higher upfront fees and much farther travel every weekend. I'm sure that if swim parents, for example, jumped into this thread, they may share similar numbers in terms of total cost.

I think it comes down to understanding what it is your child wants out of the experience. For us, it was DD earning a varsity HS volleyball roster spot this year after having earned a JV spot without ever playing club. Mission accomplished ... with an All-District Honorable Mention honor to boot. Now, DD wants to see how high she can go in this sport. This required us looking at higher level clubs (and likely the high total costs associated with that pursuit).

If playing varsity HS volleyball isn't a goal for your kid, then I am sure that there is a CHRVA club that you can call home with a relatively-appropriate price point. I'm not trying to say that any club sport will ever be "cheap." But, I think there is a reasonable option for your expected outcome.


You’re wrong and seem to be arguing for argument’s sake. I have other kids who have played MLS Next soccer and high level club lacrosse with the overwhelming majority of tournaments and games out of state (and MLS Next tournaments requiring airfare and week long hotels/ airbnbs). I keep track of my expenses. The 4 years my kid has done club volleyball, the price was over double than other club sports. Travel costs are huge (gas, tolls, hotels, meals, tickets, parking, etc., and these were not including any airfare) plus club fees, uniforms, etc. This isn’t even adding in the costs of camps, clinics and tryouts. Volleyball is astronomically expensive.
FPYCparent
Post 11/08/2023 17:24     Subject: Re:Volleyball club- recap and thoughts

I haven't been directly involved with other club sports (beyond soccer and volleyball) or other activities (ballet, swim, lacrosse), but I'm not sure that the total costs are drastically different.

DD played mid-level travel soccer for six years. We never spent more that $2500 in a year BUT we also never travelled outside of the DMV (Fredericksburg, Hollywood, and Winchester were out longest trips ... and none were overnight). If DD had pursued a higher-level of play, it would have required higher upfront fees and much farther travel every weekend. I'm sure that if swim parents, for example, jumped into this thread, they may share similar numbers in terms of total cost.

I think it comes down to understanding what it is your child wants out of the experience. For us, it was DD earning a varsity HS volleyball roster spot this year after having earned a JV spot without ever playing club. Mission accomplished ... with an All-District Honorable Mention honor to boot. Now, DD wants to see how high she can go in this sport. This required us looking at higher level clubs (and likely the high total costs associated with that pursuit).

If playing varsity HS volleyball isn't a goal for your kid, then I am sure that there is a CHRVA club that you can call home with a relatively-appropriate price point. I'm not trying to say that any club sport will ever be "cheap." But, I think there is a reasonable option for your expected outcome.
Anonymous
Post 11/08/2023 17:24     Subject: Volleyball club- recap and thoughts

That is such a ripoff.
Anonymous
Post 11/08/2023 17:16     Subject: Volleyball club- recap and thoughts

Anonymous wrote:I hate to say it, but if more parents + girls understood what they were getting into, there would probably be far fewer at tryouts.
if you make a team: the amount of time spent at tournaments (all day!), the number of tournaments (most week ends!) the cost of hotels + travel. Costs go far beyond club fees.


THIS. It is easily $10,000+, for just all the costs of a mid-low level regional team. People have NO idea.
Anonymous
Post 11/08/2023 17:07     Subject: Volleyball club- recap and thoughts

I hate to say it, but if more parents + girls understood what they were getting into, there would probably be far fewer at tryouts.
if you make a team: the amount of time spent at tournaments (all day!), the number of tournaments (most week ends!) the cost of hotels + travel. Costs go far beyond club fees.
Anonymous
Post 11/08/2023 16:13     Subject: Volleyball club- recap and thoughts

As I'm reading this, I find it interesting that it appears most of the conversations appear to be ~75% Northern Virginia vs. Maryland as I'm wondering about options for families living on the Maryland side for this year and the near future in repeat scenarios such as the significantly high jump in players trying out for 14U, 15U and 16U teams.
Anonymous
Post 11/08/2023 15:32     Subject: Volleyball club- recap and thoughts



FWIW My DD received an offer from Renaissance and it was in her final two choices out of four offers. She ultimately decided to go with the other option (not my decision!) but I wish she had taken a chance. She was concerned they were still getting set up and she didn’t know if the team was fully rostered. I wish they had hit the ground running a few weeks sooner bc she would have absolutely picked them. She’s still wondering if she chose right this morning. Coaches were great. Clinics were excellent.


Similar here - I thought renaissance tryouts were great and really liked the coaches I met. I thought they did a great job of looking at ALL the girls. We thought she was going to accept there but we ended up getting an offer for her initial first choice. We were pulled but a few factors pushed us to the initial first choice - location and late practice times were going to be a huge issues if she had gone to Renaissance.