Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Was it a happy marriage?
Trying to be objective here — who opened back door?
Or the real question, how did he know it would be open/unlocked?
I'm guessing he tried on multiple occasions. This time he got lucky and found a way in. I was not diligent about locking the back door, until one night when someone tried to make their way in. Thankfully it was locked that time, and by the time I got the courage to go near it and look out, the person was gone. I now make sure that back door is locked every night.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Was it a happy marriage?
Trying to be objective here — who opened back door?
Or the real question, how did he know it would be open/unlocked?
Yes!!!!! I just thought of this after posting. Unless he entered during normal daylight/evening hours when the family was going in and out of house and hid somewhere in their home?
I watch too many crime dramas.
Back to accusing the wife. Surprised the husband is not a suspect to you people.
Some of us are looking at this case as crime investigators. You think investigators aren’t asking these same questions? Who leaves back door open in this day and age? In urban area off busy road. It’s not personal.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am still a bit confused that she did not recognize him? And that she hid in a downstairs bathroom rather than going up to the floor where the very young children were sleeping?
There was a statement made to a reporter that he was delusional and that the relationship only existed in his head, said to be someone close to family as source. But,court docs seemed to indicate either dated or ex-boyfriend?
No great way to handle unsafe people, it was said that he reached out repeatedly. And that he also went to their church. They were very involved, so, not easy to walk away. I can't imagine going to the funeral with memories of the killer in the same building.
I hope she has access to really good trauma counseling. What a nightmare and a tragedy.
He probably had on a hat/mask. Ever watched a crime drama?
Also it was dark, she was in a dead sleep and probably incredibly disoriented
And ended up in downstairs bathroom?
Is this actually confirmed though?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am still a bit confused that she did not recognize him? And that she hid in a downstairs bathroom rather than going up to the floor where the very young children were sleeping?
There was a statement made to a reporter that he was delusional and that the relationship only existed in his head, said to be someone close to family as source. But,court docs seemed to indicate either dated or ex-boyfriend?
No great way to handle unsafe people, it was said that he reached out repeatedly. And that he also went to their church. They were very involved, so, not easy to walk away. I can't imagine going to the funeral with memories of the killer in the same building.
I hope she has access to really good trauma counseling. What a nightmare and a tragedy.
He probably had on a hat/mask. Ever watched a crime drama?
Also it was dark, she was in a dead sleep and probably incredibly disoriented
And ended up in downstairs bathroom?
Anonymous wrote:I am still a bit confused that she did not recognize him? And that she hid in a downstairs bathroom rather than going up to the floor where the very young children were sleeping?
There was a statement made to a reporter that he was delusional and that the relationship only existed in his head, said to be someone close to family as source. But,court docs seemed to indicate either dated or ex-boyfriend?
No great way to handle unsafe people, it was said that he reached out repeatedly. And that he also went to their church. They were very involved, so, not easy to walk away. I can't imagine going to the funeral with memories of the killer in the same building.
I hope she has access to really good trauma counseling. What a nightmare and a tragedy.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am still a bit confused that she did not recognize him? And that she hid in a downstairs bathroom rather than going up to the floor where the very young children were sleeping?
There was a statement made to a reporter that he was delusional and that the relationship only existed in his head, said to be someone close to family as source. But,court docs seemed to indicate either dated or ex-boyfriend?
No great way to handle unsafe people, it was said that he reached out repeatedly. And that he also went to their church. They were very involved, so, not easy to walk away. I can't imagine going to the funeral with memories of the killer in the same building.
I hope she has access to really good trauma counseling. What a nightmare and a tragedy.
He probably had on a hat/mask. Ever watched a crime drama?
Also it was dark, she was in a dead sleep and probably incredibly disoriented
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am still a bit confused that she did not recognize him? And that she hid in a downstairs bathroom rather than going up to the floor where the very young children were sleeping?
There was a statement made to a reporter that he was delusional and that the relationship only existed in his head, said to be someone close to family as source. But,court docs seemed to indicate either dated or ex-boyfriend?
No great way to handle unsafe people, it was said that he reached out repeatedly. And that he also went to their church. They were very involved, so, not easy to walk away. I can't imagine going to the funeral with memories of the killer in the same building.
I hope she has access to really good trauma counseling. What a nightmare and a tragedy.
He probably had on a hat/mask. Ever watched a crime drama?
Anonymous wrote:I am still a bit confused that she did not recognize him? And that she hid in a downstairs bathroom rather than going up to the floor where the very young children were sleeping?
There was a statement made to a reporter that he was delusional and that the relationship only existed in his head, said to be someone close to family as source. But,court docs seemed to indicate either dated or ex-boyfriend?
No great way to handle unsafe people, it was said that he reached out repeatedly. And that he also went to their church. They were very involved, so, not easy to walk away. I can't imagine going to the funeral with memories of the killer in the same building.
I hope she has access to really good trauma counseling. What a nightmare and a tragedy.
Anonymous wrote:I am still a bit confused that she did not recognize him? And that she hid in a downstairs bathroom rather than going up to the floor where the very young children were sleeping?
There was a statement made to a reporter that he was delusional and that the relationship only existed in his head, said to be someone close to family as source. But,court docs seemed to indicate either dated or ex-boyfriend?
No great way to handle unsafe people, it was said that he reached out repeatedly. And that he also went to their church. They were very involved, so, not easy to walk away. I can't imagine going to the funeral with memories of the killer in the same building.
I hope she has access to really good trauma counseling. What a nightmare and a tragedy.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Was it a happy marriage?
Trying to be objective here — who opened back door?
Or the real question, how did he know it would be open/unlocked?
Yes!!!!! I just thought of this after posting. Unless he entered during normal daylight/evening hours when the family was going in and out of house and hid somewhere in their home?
I watch too many crime dramas.
Back to accusing the wife. Surprised the husband is not a suspect to you people.
Anonymous wrote:Affair?