Anonymous wrote:https://ibb.co/88XqQy2
https://ibb.co/vzJHHyG
https://ibb.co/RNMTJCb
https://ibb.co/3m8q5kn
https://ibb.co/cDwR6TG
https://ibb.co/614Q8tJ
https://ibb.co/yktsM60


In clicked to translate it to English so there maybe some mistakes here and there.

In one of them when she says “cutie”, she’s talking about BB and CB. Au pairs use this word (fofo and fofa, in Portuguese) to refer to the parents. That way, they don’t have to use the word “hostmom/hostdad” and the parents won’t know when she’s talking about them, if she’s on the phone or whatever…

Anonymous wrote:https://ibb.co/88XqQy2
https://ibb.co/vzJHHyG
https://ibb.co/RNMTJCb
https://ibb.co/3m8q5kn
https://ibb.co/cDwR6TG
https://ibb.co/614Q8tJ
https://ibb.co/yktsM60


In clicked to translate it to English so there maybe some mistakes here and there.

In one of them when she says “cutie”, she’s talking about BB and CB. Au pairs use this word (fofo and fofa, in Portuguese) to refer to the parents. That way, they don’t have to use the word “hostmom/hostdad” and the parents won’t know when she’s talking about them, if she’s on the phone or whatever…

It’s not a forum, it’s an au pair Facebook group. If anyone knows how to post printshots, I can post it…. It’s in PT though.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:CB used to work night shifts and work long hours. There’s a post on an au pair group by JPM of her saying that, and saying the dad worked from home, in the basement, and would often go upstairs to give opinions on what she was doing w the kid.
That was months before she arrived, hence why she’s not talking about him in a sweet manner.


3 months before the fact, she posted saying the mom didn’t pay attention to the kid at all, she had two days off and would still put JPM to work. She mentioned the kid alls her ‘mom’ and says she “wants a different mommy”.
I wonder how much of this is real and how much is part of her fantasy/delusion of her taking CB’s place

What forum is this? Any way to see the original post?

It’s not a forum, it’s an au pair Facebook group. If anyone knows how to post printshots, I can post it…. It’s in PT though.

What is PT?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:CB used to work night shifts and work long hours. There’s a post on an au pair group by JPM of her saying that, and saying the dad worked from home, in the basement, and would often go upstairs to give opinions on what she was doing w the kid.
That was months before she arrived, hence why she’s not talking about him in a sweet manner.


3 months before the fact, she posted saying the mom didn’t pay attention to the kid at all, she had two days off and would still put JPM to work. She mentioned the kid alls her ‘mom’ and says she “wants a different mommy”.
I wonder how much of this is real and how much is part of her fantasy/delusion of her taking CB’s place

What forum is this? Any way to see the original post?

It’s not a forum, it’s an au pair Facebook group. If anyone knows how to post printshots, I can post it…. It’s in PT though.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:CB used to work night shifts and work long hours. There’s a post on an au pair group by JPM of her saying that, and saying the dad worked from home, in the basement, and would often go upstairs to give opinions on what she was doing w the kid.
That was months before she arrived, hence why she’s not talking about him in a sweet manner.


3 months before the fact, she posted saying the mom didn’t pay attention to the kid at all, she had two days off and would still put JPM to work. She mentioned the kid alls her ‘mom’ and says she “wants a different mommy”.
I wonder how much of this is real and how much is part of her fantasy/delusion of her taking CB’s place

What forum is this? Any way to see the original post?

Anonymous wrote:CB used to work night shifts and work long hours. There’s a post on an au pair group by JPM of her saying that, and saying the dad worked from home, in the basement, and would often go upstairs to give opinions on what she was doing w the kid.
That was months before she arrived, hence why she’s not talking about him in a sweet manner.


3 months before the fact, she posted saying the mom didn’t pay attention to the kid at all, she had two days off and would still put JPM to work. She mentioned the kid alls her ‘mom’ and says she “wants a different mommy”.
I wonder how much of this is real and how much is part of her fantasy/delusion of her taking CB’s place

Anonymous wrote:I interpreted that to mean she was considering matching with them but somehow got that info (from the former au pair?). And wanted advice on whether to match or not. I’m not super familiar with the au pair process, so I don’t know how they match them or what info they can get.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:CB used to work night shifts and work long hours. There’s a post on an au pair group by JPM of her saying that, and saying the dad worked from home, in the basement, and would often go upstairs to give opinions on what she was doing w the kid.
That was months before she arrived, hence why she’s not talking about him in a sweet manner.


3 months before the fact, she posted saying the mom didn’t pay attention to the kid at all, she had two days off and would still put JPM to work. She mentioned the kid alls her ‘mom’ and says she “wants a different mommy”.
I wonder how much of this is real and how much is part of her fantasy/delusion of her taking CB’s place

2 months before the fact, she commented in another post saying her host dad was an example of a father, way better than most moms out there.

At some point in between there’s a comment from her on a post talking about lingeries and how to surprise their boyfriends. She gave details on how she would dress up and that her “lindo” (nickname she used for BB) would always drive w a hand on her leg and would go crazy feeling her lingerie underneath her stockings. She also mentions using the light dimmer to turn the lights down if she was a little shy. Absolutely disgusting.

What? How is she making comments about him before she arrived? I’m not following.

Anonymous wrote:CB used to work night shifts and work long hours. There’s a post on an au pair group by JPM of her saying that, and saying the dad worked from home, in the basement, and would often go upstairs to give opinions on what she was doing w the kid.
That was months before she arrived, hence why she’s not talking about him in a sweet manner.


3 months before the fact, she posted saying the mom didn’t pay attention to the kid at all, she had two days off and would still put JPM to work. She mentioned the kid alls her ‘mom’ and says she “wants a different mommy”.
I wonder how much of this is real and how much is part of her fantasy/delusion of her taking CB’s place

2 months before the fact, she commented in another post saying her host dad was an example of a father, way better than most moms out there.

At some point in between there’s a comment from her on a post talking about lingeries and how to surprise their boyfriends. She gave details on how she would dress up and that her “lindo” (nickname she used for BB) would always drive w a hand on her leg and would go crazy feeling her lingerie underneath her stockings. She also mentions using the light dimmer to turn the lights down if she was a little shy. Absolutely disgusting.