Anonymous
Post 02/28/2026 16:00     Subject: TSJ Director Movement

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Anonymous wrote:I am not at STJ, but I have experienced this. It is not the STJ fault, except the poor results. The league tells the clubs when they can announce when they are accepted to GA or relegated to Aspire. The club can’t make that announcement until they are given the go ahead. The same thing happened at NVA and Charlotte last year. If you are mad, be mad at the league for allowing IDs and acceptances before they let the club make the announcement they are in a different league/level.


The league doesn’t decide when STJ has tryouts. Instead of deceiving girls and their families, they could have waited until next week. It’s simple. They chose to move forward with the lie.


Correct GA doesn’t decide; however in Dec they did give all the clubs the opportunity to vote on delaying tryouts for the spring of “all” clubs in the division agreed. The only club that voted against delaying tryouts was SYC. That forced STJ to move forward while waiting for GA to determine the club’s future status as a member and while waiting on a determination of their Aspire application. Lot of moving parts for a bad situation all around but in the end, the club put themselves in that spot, not GA. How the club decided to move forward and communicate this to families is where they truly failed. But then why would it be successful when the same people responsible for the decisions that got them there are the same people determining how to move forward while trying to save their jobs. It’s never one decision, it’s the series of decisions over time that have proven to bring the club to where it is now.

IMO, Aspire has always been a part of the plan to ‘expand’ but GA made it their solution to allow STJ to maintain their membership with GA as a whole. In short, show us you can be successful in Aspire over the next 2-3 years and we will bring you back.



Why would SYC vote against that?

Because SYC starts their ID sessions in Dec to try and get ahead of the crowd.


Don’t blame SYC for anything related to STJ.
SYC has been running ID sessions at the same time for years. This is the first time there has been a delay, and it’s solely due to Snowcrete—not mismanagement.
Also, whoever claimed that the conference wanted to delay tryouts is simply wrong. GA does not have mandated ID timelines like ECNL does. That information is being misrepresented.
Please stop spreading false narratives.
If there’s blame to be placed, it belongs with Adam. Poor leadership decisions—letting strong people go and hiring unqualified replacements—have been ongoing for the past six years. This situation didn’t happen overnight. The move to Aspire is the result of years of bad decisions finally catching up.



Nailed it!


Yes, Adam needs to go. His public social media activity—particularly his strong political MAGA commentary—has been divisive and inappropriate for someone in his role.
More importantly, STJ leadership needs to be made aware of how poorly things have deteriorated under his tenure. From the outside, it appears leadership is either unaware of or disconnected from how much damage has been done since he took over. The organization has been steadily declining, and the warning signs have been visible for quite some time.


As an outsider, I communicated with Adam regarding attending a clinic. Then out of the blue, he simply stopped communicating. A few follow up e-mails and no reply’s from him. Very off putting.


This is normal behavior. Ask anybody who has a kid for one of his current teams how "well" he communicates. You should be able to sue for this type of con job.
should ask him about that one time during a boys tournament he showed up late. He was hung over and had been to a strip club club all
night with his assistant coach.(True story).. or how he got forced out as Varsity coach at freedom HS for his poor treatment of players.. how hes still in youth soccer is just crazy.
Anonymous
Post 02/28/2026 15:44     Subject: TSJ Director Movement




Why would SYC vote against that?

Because SYC starts their ID sessions in Dec to try and get ahead of the crowd.


Don’t blame SYC for anything related to STJ.
SYC has been running ID sessions at the same time for years. This is the first time there has been a delay, and it’s solely due to Snowcrete—not mismanagement.
Also, whoever claimed that the conference wanted to delay tryouts is simply wrong. GA does not have mandated ID timelines like ECNL does. That information is being misrepresented.
Please stop spreading false narratives.
If there’s blame to be placed, it belongs with Adam. Poor leadership decisions—letting strong people go and hiring unqualified replacements—have been ongoing for the past six years. This situation didn’t happen overnight. The move to Aspire is the result of years of bad decisions finally catching up.



Oooo, sword fight. Directors pointing fingers for who gives a shit less about the girls. You both deserve each other, so for that sake I hope TSJ’s demotion to AA is short lived.
Anonymous
Post 02/28/2026 14:40     Subject: TSJ Director Movement

Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:I am not at STJ, but I have experienced this. It is not the STJ fault, except the poor results. The league tells the clubs when they can announce when they are accepted to GA or relegated to Aspire. The club can’t make that announcement until they are given the go ahead. The same thing happened at NVA and Charlotte last year. If you are mad, be mad at the league for allowing IDs and acceptances before they let the club make the announcement they are in a different league/level.


The league doesn’t decide when STJ has tryouts. Instead of deceiving girls and their families, they could have waited until next week. It’s simple. They chose to move forward with the lie.


Correct GA doesn’t decide; however in Dec they did give all the clubs the opportunity to vote on delaying tryouts for the spring of “all” clubs in the division agreed. The only club that voted against delaying tryouts was SYC. That forced STJ to move forward while waiting for GA to determine the club’s future status as a member and while waiting on a determination of their Aspire application. Lot of moving parts for a bad situation all around but in the end, the club put themselves in that spot, not GA. How the club decided to move forward and communicate this to families is where they truly failed. But then why would it be successful when the same people responsible for the decisions that got them there are the same people determining how to move forward while trying to save their jobs. It’s never one decision, it’s the series of decisions over time that have proven to bring the club to where it is now.

IMO, Aspire has always been a part of the plan to ‘expand’ but GA made it their solution to allow STJ to maintain their membership with GA as a whole. In short, show us you can be successful in Aspire over the next 2-3 years and we will bring you back.



Why would SYC vote against that?

Because SYC starts their ID sessions in Dec to try and get ahead of the crowd.


Don’t blame SYC for anything related to STJ.
SYC has been running ID sessions at the same time for years. This is the first time there has been a delay, and it’s solely due to Snowcrete—not mismanagement.
Also, whoever claimed that the conference wanted to delay tryouts is simply wrong. GA does not have mandated ID timelines like ECNL does. That information is being misrepresented.
Please stop spreading false narratives.
If there’s blame to be placed, it belongs with Adam. Poor leadership decisions—letting strong people go and hiring unqualified replacements—have been ongoing for the past six years. This situation didn’t happen overnight. The move to Aspire is the result of years of bad decisions finally catching up.



Nailed it!


Yes, Adam needs to go. His public social media activity—particularly his strong political MAGA commentary—has been divisive and inappropriate for someone in his role.
More importantly, STJ leadership needs to be made aware of how poorly things have deteriorated under his tenure. From the outside, it appears leadership is either unaware of or disconnected from how much damage has been done since he took over. The organization has been steadily declining, and the warning signs have been visible for quite some time.


As an outsider, I communicated with Adam regarding attending a clinic. Then out of the blue, he simply stopped communicating. A few follow up e-mails and no reply’s from him. Very off putting.


This is normal behavior. Ask anybody who has a kid for one of his current teams how "well" he communicates. You should be able to sue for this type of con job.
Anonymous
Post 02/28/2026 12:25     Subject: TSJ Director Movement

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am not at STJ, but I have experienced this. It is not the STJ fault, except the poor results. The league tells the clubs when they can announce when they are accepted to GA or relegated to Aspire. The club can’t make that announcement until they are given the go ahead. The same thing happened at NVA and Charlotte last year. If you are mad, be mad at the league for allowing IDs and acceptances before they let the club make the announcement they are in a different league/level.


The league doesn’t decide when STJ has tryouts. Instead of deceiving girls and their families, they could have waited until next week. It’s simple. They chose to move forward with the lie.


Correct GA doesn’t decide; however in Dec they did give all the clubs the opportunity to vote on delaying tryouts for the spring of “all” clubs in the division agreed. The only club that voted against delaying tryouts was SYC. That forced STJ to move forward while waiting for GA to determine the club’s future status as a member and while waiting on a determination of their Aspire application. Lot of moving parts for a bad situation all around but in the end, the club put themselves in that spot, not GA. How the club decided to move forward and communicate this to families is where they truly failed. But then why would it be successful when the same people responsible for the decisions that got them there are the same people determining how to move forward while trying to save their jobs. It’s never one decision, it’s the series of decisions over time that have proven to bring the club to where it is now.

IMO, Aspire has always been a part of the plan to ‘expand’ but GA made it their solution to allow STJ to maintain their membership with GA as a whole. In short, show us you can be successful in Aspire over the next 2-3 years and we will bring you back.



Why would SYC vote against that?

Because SYC starts their ID sessions in Dec to try and get ahead of the crowd.


Don’t blame SYC for anything related to STJ.
SYC has been running ID sessions at the same time for years. This is the first time there has been a delay, and it’s solely due to Snowcrete—not mismanagement.
Also, whoever claimed that the conference wanted to delay tryouts is simply wrong. GA does not have mandated ID timelines like ECNL does. That information is being misrepresented.
Please stop spreading false narratives.
If there’s blame to be placed, it belongs with Adam. Poor leadership decisions—letting strong people go and hiring unqualified replacements—have been ongoing for the past six years. This situation didn’t happen overnight. The move to Aspire is the result of years of bad decisions finally catching up.



Nailed it!


Yes, Adam needs to go. His public social media activity—particularly his strong political MAGA commentary—has been divisive and inappropriate for someone in his role.
More importantly, STJ leadership needs to be made aware of how poorly things have deteriorated under his tenure. From the outside, it appears leadership is either unaware of or disconnected from how much damage has been done since he took over. The organization has been steadily declining, and the warning signs have been visible for quite some time.


As an outsider, I communicated with Adam regarding attending a clinic. Then out of the blue, he simply stopped communicating. A few follow up e-mails and no reply’s from him. Very off putting.
Anonymous
Post 02/28/2026 12:01     Subject: TSJ Director Movement

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am not at STJ, but I have experienced this. It is not the STJ fault, except the poor results. The league tells the clubs when they can announce when they are accepted to GA or relegated to Aspire. The club can’t make that announcement until they are given the go ahead. The same thing happened at NVA and Charlotte last year. If you are mad, be mad at the league for allowing IDs and acceptances before they let the club make the announcement they are in a different league/level.


The league doesn’t decide when STJ has tryouts. Instead of deceiving girls and their families, they could have waited until next week. It’s simple. They chose to move forward with the lie.


Correct GA doesn’t decide; however in Dec they did give all the clubs the opportunity to vote on delaying tryouts for the spring of “all” clubs in the division agreed. The only club that voted against delaying tryouts was SYC. That forced STJ to move forward while waiting for GA to determine the club’s future status as a member and while waiting on a determination of their Aspire application. Lot of moving parts for a bad situation all around but in the end, the club put themselves in that spot, not GA. How the club decided to move forward and communicate this to families is where they truly failed. But then why would it be successful when the same people responsible for the decisions that got them there are the same people determining how to move forward while trying to save their jobs. It’s never one decision, it’s the series of decisions over time that have proven to bring the club to where it is now.

IMO, Aspire has always been a part of the plan to ‘expand’ but GA made it their solution to allow STJ to maintain their membership with GA as a whole. In short, show us you can be successful in Aspire over the next 2-3 years and we will bring you back.



Why would SYC vote against that?

Because SYC starts their ID sessions in Dec to try and get ahead of the crowd.


Don’t blame SYC for anything related to STJ.
SYC has been running ID sessions at the same time for years. This is the first time there has been a delay, and it’s solely due to Snowcrete—not mismanagement.
Also, whoever claimed that the conference wanted to delay tryouts is simply wrong. GA does not have mandated ID timelines like ECNL does. That information is being misrepresented.
Please stop spreading false narratives.
If there’s blame to be placed, it belongs with Adam. Poor leadership decisions—letting strong people go and hiring unqualified replacements—have been ongoing for the past six years. This situation didn’t happen overnight. The move to Aspire is the result of years of bad decisions finally catching up.
this one knows…
Anonymous
Post 02/28/2026 11:59     Subject: TSJ Director Movement

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am not at STJ, but I have experienced this. It is not the STJ fault, except the poor results. The league tells the clubs when they can announce when they are accepted to GA or relegated to Aspire. The club can’t make that announcement until they are given the go ahead. The same thing happened at NVA and Charlotte last year. If you are mad, be mad at the league for allowing IDs and acceptances before they let the club make the announcement they are in a different league/level.


The league doesn’t decide when STJ has tryouts. Instead of deceiving girls and their families, they could have waited until next week. It’s simple. They chose to move forward with the lie.


Correct GA doesn’t decide; however in Dec they did give all the clubs the opportunity to vote on delaying tryouts for the spring of “all” clubs in the division agreed. The only club that voted against delaying tryouts was SYC. That forced STJ to move forward while waiting for GA to determine the club’s future status as a member and while waiting on a determination of their Aspire application. Lot of moving parts for a bad situation all around but in the end, the club put themselves in that spot, not GA. How the club decided to move forward and communicate this to families is where they truly failed. But then why would it be successful when the same people responsible for the decisions that got them there are the same people determining how to move forward while trying to save their jobs. It’s never one decision, it’s the series of decisions over time that have proven to bring the club to where it is now.

IMO, Aspire has always been a part of the plan to ‘expand’ but GA made it their solution to allow STJ to maintain their membership with GA as a whole. In short, show us you can be successful in Aspire over the next 2-3 years and we will bring you back.



Why would SYC vote against that?

Because SYC starts their ID sessions in Dec to try and get ahead of the crowd.


Don’t blame SYC for anything related to STJ.
SYC has been running ID sessions at the same time for years. This is the first time there has been a delay, and it’s solely due to Snowcrete—not mismanagement.
Also, whoever claimed that the conference wanted to delay tryouts is simply wrong. GA does not have mandated ID timelines like ECNL does. That information is being misrepresented.
Please stop spreading false narratives.
If there’s blame to be placed, it belongs with Adam. Poor leadership decisions—letting strong people go and hiring unqualified replacements—have been ongoing for the past six years. This situation didn’t happen overnight. The move to Aspire is the result of years of bad decisions finally catching up.



Nailed it!


Yes, Adam needs to go. His public social media activity—particularly his strong political MAGA commentary—has been divisive and inappropriate for someone in his role.
More importantly, STJ leadership needs to be made aware of how poorly things have deteriorated under his tenure. From the outside, it appears leadership is either unaware of or disconnected from how much damage has been done since he took over. The organization has been steadily declining, and the warning signs have been visible for quite some time.
Anonymous
Post 02/28/2026 11:51     Subject: TSJ Director Movement

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am not at STJ, but I have experienced this. It is not the STJ fault, except the poor results. The league tells the clubs when they can announce when they are accepted to GA or relegated to Aspire. The club can’t make that announcement until they are given the go ahead. The same thing happened at NVA and Charlotte last year. If you are mad, be mad at the league for allowing IDs and acceptances before they let the club make the announcement they are in a different league/level.


The league doesn’t decide when STJ has tryouts. Instead of deceiving girls and their families, they could have waited until next week. It’s simple. They chose to move forward with the lie.


Correct GA doesn’t decide; however in Dec they did give all the clubs the opportunity to vote on delaying tryouts for the spring of “all” clubs in the division agreed. The only club that voted against delaying tryouts was SYC. That forced STJ to move forward while waiting for GA to determine the club’s future status as a member and while waiting on a determination of their Aspire application. Lot of moving parts for a bad situation all around but in the end, the club put themselves in that spot, not GA. How the club decided to move forward and communicate this to families is where they truly failed. But then why would it be successful when the same people responsible for the decisions that got them there are the same people determining how to move forward while trying to save their jobs. It’s never one decision, it’s the series of decisions over time that have proven to bring the club to where it is now.

IMO, Aspire has always been a part of the plan to ‘expand’ but GA made it their solution to allow STJ to maintain their membership with GA as a whole. In short, show us you can be successful in Aspire over the next 2-3 years and we will bring you back.



Why would SYC vote against that?

Because SYC starts their ID sessions in Dec to try and get ahead of the crowd.


Don’t blame SYC for anything related to STJ.
SYC has been running ID sessions at the same time for years. This is the first time there has been a delay, and it’s solely due to Snowcrete—not mismanagement.
Also, whoever claimed that the conference wanted to delay tryouts is simply wrong. GA does not have mandated ID timelines like ECNL does. That information is being misrepresented.
Please stop spreading false narratives.
If there’s blame to be placed, it belongs with Adam. Poor leadership decisions—letting strong people go and hiring unqualified replacements—have been ongoing for the past six years. This situation didn’t happen overnight. The move to Aspire is the result of years of bad decisions finally catching up.
Anonymous
Post 02/28/2026 09:47     Subject: TSJ Director Movement

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am not at STJ, but I have experienced this. It is not the STJ fault, except the poor results. The league tells the clubs when they can announce when they are accepted to GA or relegated to Aspire. The club can’t make that announcement until they are given the go ahead. The same thing happened at NVA and Charlotte last year. If you are mad, be mad at the league for allowing IDs and acceptances before they let the club make the announcement they are in a different league/level.


The league doesn’t decide when STJ has tryouts. Instead of deceiving girls and their families, they could have waited until next week. It’s simple. They chose to move forward with the lie.


Correct GA doesn’t decide; however in Dec they did give all the clubs the opportunity to vote on delaying tryouts for the spring of “all” clubs in the division agreed. The only club that voted against delaying tryouts was SYC. That forced STJ to move forward while waiting for GA to determine the club’s future status as a member and while waiting on a determination of their Aspire application. Lot of moving parts for a bad situation all around but in the end, the club put themselves in that spot, not GA. How the club decided to move forward and communicate this to families is where they truly failed. But then why would it be successful when the same people responsible for the decisions that got them there are the same people determining how to move forward while trying to save their jobs. It’s never one decision, it’s the series of decisions over time that have proven to bring the club to where it is now.

IMO, Aspire has always been a part of the plan to ‘expand’ but GA made it their solution to allow STJ to maintain their membership with GA as a whole. In short, show us you can be successful in Aspire over the next 2-3 years and we will bring you back.



Why would SYC vote against that?

Because SYC starts their ID sessions in Dec to try and get ahead of the crowd.
Anonymous
Post 02/28/2026 08:35     Subject: TSJ Director Movement

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am not at STJ, but I have experienced this. It is not the STJ fault, except the poor results. The league tells the clubs when they can announce when they are accepted to GA or relegated to Aspire. The club can’t make that announcement until they are given the go ahead. The same thing happened at NVA and Charlotte last year. If you are mad, be mad at the league for allowing IDs and acceptances before they let the club make the announcement they are in a different league/level.


The league doesn’t decide when STJ has tryouts. Instead of deceiving girls and their families, they could have waited until next week. It’s simple. They chose to move forward with the lie.


Correct GA doesn’t decide; however in Dec they did give all the clubs the opportunity to vote on delaying tryouts for the spring of “all” clubs in the division agreed. The only club that voted against delaying tryouts was SYC. That forced STJ to move forward while waiting for GA to determine the club’s future status as a member and while waiting on a determination of their Aspire application. Lot of moving parts for a bad situation all around but in the end, the club put themselves in that spot, not GA. How the club decided to move forward and communicate this to families is where they truly failed. But then why would it be successful when the same people responsible for the decisions that got them there are the same people determining how to move forward while trying to save their jobs. It’s never one decision, it’s the series of decisions over time that have proven to bring the club to where it is now.

IMO, Aspire has always been a part of the plan to ‘expand’ but GA made it their solution to allow STJ to maintain their membership with GA as a whole. In short, show us you can be successful in Aspire over the next 2-3 years and we will bring you back.



Why would SYC vote against that?
Anonymous
Post 02/27/2026 14:35     Subject: TSJ Director Movement

Anonymous wrote:It's been a day since they announced this. What are the TSJ families doing?
They’ve been practicing at other teams once JO was hired. This is a surprise to no one accept those who weren’t paying attention unfortunately.
Anonymous
Post 02/27/2026 14:10     Subject: TSJ Director Movement

It's been a day since they announced this. What are the TSJ families doing?
Anonymous
Post 02/27/2026 09:45     Subject: TSJ Director Movement

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am not at STJ, but I have experienced this. It is not the STJ fault, except the poor results. The league tells the clubs when they can announce when they are accepted to GA or relegated to Aspire. The club can’t make that announcement until they are given the go ahead. The same thing happened at NVA and Charlotte last year. If you are mad, be mad at the league for allowing IDs and acceptances before they let the club make the announcement they are in a different league/level.


The league doesn’t decide when STJ has tryouts. Instead of deceiving girls and their families, they could have waited until next week. It’s simple. They chose to move forward with the lie.


Correct GA doesn’t decide; however in Dec they did give all the clubs the opportunity to vote on delaying tryouts for the spring of “all” clubs in the division agreed. The only club that voted against delaying tryouts was SYC. That forced STJ to move forward while waiting for GA to determine the club’s future status as a member and while waiting on a determination of their Aspire application. Lot of moving parts for a bad situation all around but in the end, the club put themselves in that spot, not GA. How the club decided to move forward and communicate this to families is where they truly failed. But then why would it be successful when the same people responsible for the decisions that got them there are the same people determining how to move forward while trying to save their jobs. It’s never one decision, it’s the series of decisions over time that have proven to bring the club to where it is now.

IMO, Aspire has always been a part of the plan to ‘expand’ but GA made it their solution to allow STJ to maintain their membership with GA as a whole. In short, show us you can be successful in Aspire over the next 2-3 years and we will bring you back.
Anonymous
Post 02/27/2026 06:11     Subject: TSJ Director Movement

Anonymous wrote:I am not at STJ, but I have experienced this. It is not the STJ fault, except the poor results. The league tells the clubs when they can announce when they are accepted to GA or relegated to Aspire. The club can’t make that announcement until they are given the go ahead. The same thing happened at NVA and Charlotte last year. If you are mad, be mad at the league for allowing IDs and acceptances before they let the club make the announcement they are in a different league/level.


The league doesn’t decide when STJ has tryouts. Instead of deceiving girls and their families, they could have waited until next week. It’s simple. They chose to move forward with the lie.
Anonymous
Post 02/27/2026 05:59     Subject: TSJ Director Movement

Anonymous wrote:I am not at STJ, but I have experienced this. It is not the STJ fault, except the poor results. The league tells the clubs when they can announce when they are accepted to GA or relegated to Aspire. The club can’t make that announcement until they are given the go ahead. The same thing happened at NVA and Charlotte last year. If you are mad, be mad at the league for allowing IDs and acceptances before they let the club make the announcement they are in a different league/level.


Management knew several weeks ago about the demotion but still held ID sessions and made offers before given the go ahead as you say. This is on STJ and not the GA league. Pretty clear case of fraud IMHO.
Anonymous
Post 02/27/2026 04:21     Subject: TSJ Director Movement

Anonymous wrote:It's true. So what does that mean for families that accepted an invite thinking their DD is going to plan in GA and they have missed or stopped going to other ID sessions?


Parents need to be realistic. You can’t just wake up and suddenly decide to stick a GA or ECNL badge and start running in the field. It takes years and years of training to get to the actual level. Otherwise, get real, play aspire or RL and let your kids have fun.

When your DD shows up at a high level and can’t perform, it can be frustrating for everyone including the opponent. Those leagues are not for everyone and when you throw your kid there unprepared , everyone suffers ( coach, teammates, opponent and even the ref)