Anonymous wrote:Here's what I don't get. Women don't want to be approached in public -- let me live my life in peace!!!! -- but then complain that they aren't meeting anyone and the apps suck. Make it make sense.

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Anonymous wrote:Men have had it with American women who just take take take and don’t give. Too many gold diggers with the 6/6/6 rule. Passport bros are a real thing. Most men would not want to marry American women especially the ones who post on DCUM.

Men who go to poorer countries to get laid are pathetic and not a catch. Win/win.

These men are a really small group to be fair. The vast majority of men who are left out simple drop out of the dating market, dont bother anyone and get their sexual urges met through pixels.

The men who go overseas often have serious mental health issues.

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Anonymous wrote:Men have had it with American women who just take take take and don’t give. Too many gold diggers with the 6/6/6 rule. Passport bros are a real thing. Most men would not want to marry American women especially the ones who post on DCUM.

Men who go to poorer countries to get laid are pathetic and not a catch. Win/win.

These men are a really small group to be fair. The vast majority of men who are left out simple drop out of the dating market, dont bother anyone and get their sexual urges met through pixels.

The men who go overseas often have serious mental health issues.

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Anonymous wrote:Men have had it with American women who just take take take and don’t give. Too many gold diggers with the 6/6/6 rule. Passport bros are a real thing. Most men would not want to marry American women especially the ones who post on DCUM.

Men who go to poorer countries to get laid are pathetic and not a catch. Win/win.

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Anonymous wrote:Men have had it with American women who just take take take and don’t give. Too many gold diggers with the 6/6/6 rule. Passport bros are a real thing. Most men would not want to marry American women especially the ones who post on DCUM.

Men who go to poorer countries to get laid are pathetic and not a catch. Win/win.

Anonymous wrote:Men have had it with American women who just take take take and don’t give. Too many gold diggers with the 6/6/6 rule. Passport bros are a real thing. Most men would not want to marry American women especially the ones who post on DCUM.

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Anonymous wrote:Cooking, cleaning, and laundry just isn't all that hard. The dudes caterwauling like their dicks will fall off if they have to put forth that level of effort are pretty weak.

I think it's that they have self inflated egos, and think "that's women's work". Very unattractive quality. Only desperate women go for these types.

I don't know. I work in tech, and am married to a wife who graduated from Harvard. I neither cook nor clean because my wife takes care of those things. I do, however, bring home 2M/yr in salary + bonus. All of my colleagues do the same.

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Anonymous wrote:The majority of young men these days are unmarriable.

Came for the misandry. Was not disappointed.

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Anonymous wrote:Cooking, cleaning, and laundry just isn't all that hard. The dudes caterwauling like their dicks will fall off if they have to put forth that level of effort are pretty weak.

I think it's that they have self inflated egos, and think "that's women's work". Very unattractive quality. Only desperate women go for these types.

I don't know. I work in tech, and am married to a wife who graduated from Harvard. I neither cook nor clean because my wife takes care of those things. I do, however, bring home 2M/yr in salary + bonus. All of my colleagues do the same.

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Anonymous wrote:I call this BS. If he cooks, clean, and does his laundry, he is basically a simp.

I’m 42 and I’ve been married 15 years and together for 20.

I guess I’ve reached the age of fatherly wisdom so here goes…

Son, if you think a man who cooks, cleans, and does his own laundry is a “simp” you have no business being a part of society. Where did your parents fail you? If you can’t be self sufficient you have nothing and you are nothing. I was raised by men who could basically do any task they needed to from sewing on a button to field dressing a deer. Clean up your act. You’re a f’ing joke.

Basically you're a "simp".

My father is Chinese, and my mother is Vietnamese, and they have been married for over 50 years. My father never had to cook, clean, or do his own laundry because my mother did everything around the house. My mother taught me how to cook, clean, and do my own laundry so that I know how to do it, but that does not mean I have to do it. I know how to change car tires, oil change, and fix cars, but that does not mean I have to do them. My mother taught me that I should learn the necessary skills (i.e. sports, music, working out), and make a lot of money if I wanted to attract women. My mother also told me that when I get married, my wife should do the cooking, cleaning, and laundry because I am making a lot more $$$ than she does. If she doesn't like it, do not let the door hit her on the way out. A woman will put up with a lot of things with a guy if that guy is way out of her league. That was advices from my mother to me when I was 22 years old. I am now married with a wife and two kids, and I neither cook, clean, nor do laundry because my wife does that.

Any guys that cook, clean, and do laundry are simply simp.

Your mother was raised in a misogynistic culture, old world, and probably grew up post the war, which means she was poor or a refugee. She didn't have that many choices.

My mother also grew up in a poor Asian country, decimated by war, and she too had some misogynistic notions. They can't help it. That's the way they grew up.

I fought that culture tooth and nail. And I'm happy that my DD has more choices, and my DS will have his pick of women because not only is he good looking and very fit, but he earns good money, knows how to cook and keeps his place clean. He's a catch. My DH was like this, and he had no shortage of women.

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Anonymous wrote:I think our society is slowly realizing that serial dating (and sleeping around) to the edge of the fertility window is not working and it was better when started pairing off in the early to mid 20s and having babies in their late 20s.

Uh no not really. What alternate reality are you living in

+1 haha. Look at the fertility and marriage rate over the years. People are waiting longer to get married and have kids, if at all.

That's some Project 2025 Gilead wishful thinking there.

I didn’t say behavior was currently changing drastically. I said people are slowly realizing it’s a bad idea and it’s part of the reason the dating scene is such a mess right now.

People like me are outproducing and outperforming people like you so things will shift eventually, it really is just a matter of timing. If hearts and minds change, changes will be quick. If they don’t, we will get there eventually through trial and error and process of elimination.

? well, I'm 54 with two kids. So, sure, you will outperform me in having kids because I'm done. Thank god. I would not want more than two kids. I come from a family of 4 siblings. No way in h3ll would I have ever done that nor advocate for my DD to do that.

People who had a lot of kids back in the day did so because they were too poor to get birth control, like my parents, or due to religion (another form of being somewhat uneducated). Educated women don't want to just be baby making machines.

Perhaps if there was a paradigm shift in our culture where men were expected to be equal partners, women would be more willing to have more children at an earlier age. Alas, until that happens, the trend of not having kids or having a few later in life will continue.

That’s great but recognize you are increasingly part of a dwindling subculture, like a more moderate version of the Shakers.

There are plenty of people still having 3+ kids and most importantly, they and their kids think nothing like you.

I agree it can be difficult for women to have a kid of children if they are only capable of attracting a low quality mate. But women who attract high quality mates don’t have problems to the your family did.

Anonymous wrote:American women don't care about men's struggles, they wait at the finish line and pick the winners.

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Anonymous wrote:Cooking, cleaning, and laundry just isn't all that hard. The dudes caterwauling like their dicks will fall off if they have to put forth that level of effort are pretty weak.

I think it's that they have self inflated egos, and think "that's women's work". Very unattractive quality. Only desperate women go for these types.

I don't know. I work in tech, and am married to a wife who graduated from Harvard. I neither cook nor clean because my wife takes care of those things. I do, however, bring home 2M/yr in salary + bonus. All of my colleagues do the same.

Safe to say that anyone of means outsources domestic work. We also hire Nannies.

Sure, for some. Others enjoy raising their kids and prefer being self sufficient.

Nobody with money. BTW, nobody enjoys changing shit diapers or dealing with throw up etc.

You can still raise your kids and outsource the shit work (literally).

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Anonymous wrote:Cooking, cleaning, and laundry just isn't all that hard. The dudes caterwauling like their dicks will fall off if they have to put forth that level of effort are pretty weak.

I think it's that they have self inflated egos, and think "that's women's work". Very unattractive quality. Only desperate women go for these types.

I don't know. I work in tech, and am married to a wife who graduated from Harvard. I neither cook nor clean because my wife takes care of those things. I do, however, bring home 2M/yr in salary + bonus. All of my colleagues do the same.