Anonymous
Post 07/07/2023 14:39     Subject: Kevin Costner divorce
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So why doesn’t she just stay with him? I mean, he’s probably having affairs and she could too and they can just keep the charade going….I wouldn’t want to divorce if I were her.

Why do people keep repeating this? She can’t stay with him if he doesn’t want her there. He was planning to file for divorce, she just raced ahead of him.


Where did you get that? He said he didn’t want the divorce.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-12232911/amp/Kevin-Costner-blindsided-wife-handed-divorce-papers-wanted-serve-first.html
Anonymous
Post 07/07/2023 14:26     Subject: Kevin Costner divorce
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So why doesn’t she just stay with him? I mean, he’s probably having affairs and she could too and they can just keep the charade going….I wouldn’t want to divorce if I were her.

Why do people keep repeating this? She can’t stay with him if he doesn’t want her there. He was planning to file for divorce, she just raced ahead of him.


Not true. Zero evidence of this.
Anonymous
Post 07/07/2023 12:46     Subject: Kevin Costner divorce
I'm really curious about the breakdown of the marriage. If it really does come down to his working too much, well then she can eff right off. Where does she suppose the millions pouring in come from? She does sound incredibly lazy and entitled. If he cheated, I guess I'd feel somewhat differently. But even then, it was pretty clear who he was along and my sympathy would still be limited. After a 19 year marriage and three kids, she should get a nice-enough place to live and adequate support but should not expect to continue living like a queen with virtually no responsibilities. That was only offered in the context of marriage, and she chose to exit.
Anonymous
Post 07/07/2023 12:42     Subject: Re:Kevin Costner divorce
Anonymous wrote:Her lifestyle is going to change radically and she needs to start coming to terms with that. Even if he gives her a better settlement than the prenup sets forth she’s just never going to be able to maintain the staff and the conspicuously consumptive lifestyle she’s been enjoying.

I’ve posted a few times saying Kevin is being gross in this and I still maintain that position but I’m also grossed out by both of them. They are a perfect example of how disgustingly broken our society is at the parent time. It’s stomach turning that some people enjoy that kind of wealth while other kids are sitting in school as we speak with growling tummies and no real ability to focus on lessons and conform their behavior. Shame on us all.



I completely agree with this. He should have forked over ~$10 mil for a smaller property nearby for her and the kids, but is not obligated to supply the kind of staff she's become accustomed to. I think she can afford a housecleaning service and ample meals delivered like norms on the alimony/child support she'll be getting. She doesn't work, can damn well manage her own kids' schedules. Both should have kept their dumb entitled mouths shut.
Anonymous
Post 07/07/2023 12:31     Subject: Kevin Costner divorce
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So why doesn’t she just stay with him? I mean, he’s probably having affairs and she could too and they can just keep the charade going….I wouldn’t want to divorce if I were her.

Why do people keep repeating this? She can’t stay with him if he doesn’t want her there. He was planning to file for divorce, she just raced ahead of him.


Where did you get that? He said he didn’t want the divorce.
Anonymous
Post 07/07/2023 12:14     Subject: Kevin Costner divorce
Anonymous wrote:So why doesn’t she just stay with him? I mean, he’s probably having affairs and she could too and they can just keep the charade going….I wouldn’t want to divorce if I were her.

Why do people keep repeating this? She can’t stay with him if he doesn’t want her there. He was planning to file for divorce, she just raced ahead of him.
Anonymous
Post 07/07/2023 11:56     Subject: Kevin Costner divorce
So why doesn’t she just stay with him? I mean, he’s probably having affairs and she could too and they can just keep the charade going….I wouldn’t want to divorce if I were her.
Anonymous
Post 07/07/2023 07:41     Subject: Kevin Costner divorce
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think he was controlling and she was sick of it. I am still wrapping my head around they were married almost 20 years and there were no homes bought during that time. That sounds like a guy who wants to make sure she is totally subservient to him. I am not loaded by would not be living on someone else’s house if I married someone married before. Maybe a year or two but then you create a life together with homes you pick out. You sell the old home and buy or build your own.He is so mad she dumped him that he is going to make her pay.


It sounds like he lived their entire married life in preparation for this inevitable moment when she approached 50 .… This is why I have a career and if I do my job right as a mother, my daughters will as well.


+3. I don’t think she ever had a chance in this marriage.

He knew he had the upper hand all along and kept things that way. And he is acting this way because he is vindictive!
Anonymous
Post 07/07/2023 07:32     Subject: Re:Kevin Costner divorce
Anonymous wrote:Her lifestyle is going to change radically and she needs to start coming to terms with that. Even if he gives her a better settlement than the prenup sets forth she’s just never going to be able to maintain the staff and the conspicuously consumptive lifestyle she’s been enjoying.

I’ve posted a few times saying Kevin is being gross in this and I still maintain that position but I’m also grossed out by both of them. They are a perfect example of how disgustingly broken our society is at the parent time. It’s stomach turning that some people enjoy that kind of wealth while other kids are sitting in school as we speak with growling tummies and no real ability to focus on lessons and conform their behavior. Shame on us all.


Now KC is the reason kids are hungry. FFS.
Anonymous
Post 07/07/2023 07:30     Subject: Re:Kevin Costner divorce
Her lifestyle is going to change radically and she needs to start coming to terms with that. Even if he gives her a better settlement than the prenup sets forth she’s just never going to be able to maintain the staff and the conspicuously consumptive lifestyle she’s been enjoying.

I’ve posted a few times saying Kevin is being gross in this and I still maintain that position but I’m also grossed out by both of them. They are a perfect example of how disgustingly broken our society is at the parent time. It’s stomach turning that some people enjoy that kind of wealth while other kids are sitting in school as we speak with growling tummies and no real ability to focus on lessons and conform their behavior. Shame on us all.
Anonymous
Post 07/07/2023 06:23     Subject: Kevin Costner divorce
Anonymous wrote:Here is what is for sale for under 1.6 in the town they live in.
https://www.realtor.com/realestateandhomes-search/Carpinteria_CA/price-na-1600000


She can afford $2.5 with here settlement
Anonymous
Post 07/07/2023 06:21     Subject: Re:Kevin Costner divorce
Anonymous wrote:Or she can rent this with the child support money:

https://www.realtor.com/realestateandhomes-detail/7373-Shepard-Mesa-Rd_Carpinteria_CA_93013_M10692-24903


She could also buy it since she was given a down payment, 1 years mortgage and enough to pay the mortgage on her own.
Anonymous
Post 07/07/2023 05:28     Subject: Re:Kevin Costner divorce
^ with half of the child support money actually
Anonymous
Post 07/07/2023 05:26     Subject: Re:Kevin Costner divorce
Or she can rent this with the child support money:

https://www.realtor.com/realestateandhomes-detail/7373-Shepard-Mesa-Rd_Carpinteria_CA_93013_M10692-24903
Anonymous
Post 07/06/2023 19:50     Subject: Kevin Costner divorce
This is so typical for a second marriage to a wealthy guy. She would have been better off with a UMC guy her own age who was around to raise their kids from birth.