Anonymous
Post 05/22/2020 09:28     Subject: Bethesda Soccer Plans

Yes, Alex and KL coached that MRM Rush team and KL was more of the lead the last few years but anyone who played that Rush team and watched it practice knows KL is a good coach and one of the best youth coaches in the area. The 05 MRM team was one of the top teams in the country. Just be happy that he is there and agreed to deal with the parents in that insane asylum. The talk is that KL will not last because the parents are more interested in being in charge than in developing players for the next level. Folks, wake up! All but one Bethesda team qualified for 2018-19 ECNL Champions league. You needed help and as someone with no affiliation to BSC, you should count your lucky stars that you have KL.
Anonymous
Post 05/22/2020 09:13     Subject: Re:Bethesda Soccer Plans

Anonymous wrote:I’ve seen DG and KL run many practices and coach together. They Knew each other before and seem to be friends. Their style of play is similar at the younger levels. Think DG wanted KL to raise the bar of the program. The messages going out - including from DG - are often driven by KL

DG is now coaching U12 and U13 rather than U13 and U14 lead coach.



Where have you seen alpha dogs coexist for any extended period of time? How did AG and KL end up?

Push come to shove, KL will be gone before DG.
Anonymous
Post 05/22/2020 08:56     Subject: Re:Bethesda Soccer Plans

I’ve seen DG and KL run many practices and coach together. They Knew each other before and seem to be friends. Their style of play is similar at the younger levels. Think DG wanted KL to raise the bar of the program. The messages going out - including from DG - are often driven by KL

DG is now coaching U12 and U13 rather than U13 and U14 lead coach.

Anonymous
Post 05/22/2020 08:51     Subject: Bethesda Soccer Plans

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:Assuming KL is a great coach, he’s still only a coach. He’s not the Technical or Executive Director. Hence, why do people think he will have such a big influence on BSC? This reminds me of the Washington Redskins. Every time they draft or trade for a good player or hire a good coach.......people think that they are Super Bowl bound.


He is the director for ECNL. This past year he started being the coach for 2 teams, ended up being the coach on 4 teams. Went to other games. Next year 4 Teams officially. A bit of a crazy workaholic. That has its plus and minus points.



He is director of the older group (U15 and above), and not the entire girls program. Why is everyone so stuck on one coach to be the savior when he is not a TD, ED or DOC? There is only so much he has control of, while the usual suspects are still calling the shots like before.


Hes the ECNL Director across all girl age groups. Catch up bro.

Trust me, hes calling a lot of the shots right now.


So you're implying KL is calling the shots over DG who is not only on the BOD, but also the U14 and younger Director.

And by the way, JC is the person over the entire girls program. These are all alpha males.


Alpha male is the perfect word to describe them. KL is a major screamer just like the other BSC coaches including the previous female coaches.
Anonymous
Post 05/22/2020 08:47     Subject: Bethesda Soccer Plans

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Assuming KL is a great coach, he’s still only a coach. He’s not the Technical or Executive Director. Hence, why do people think he will have such a big influence on BSC? This reminds me of the Washington Redskins. Every time they draft or trade for a good player or hire a good coach.......people think that they are Super Bowl bound.


He is the director for ECNL. This past year he started being the coach for 2 teams, ended up being the coach on 4 teams. Went to other games. Next year 4 Teams officially. A bit of a crazy workaholic. That has its plus and minus points.



He is director of the older group (U15 and above), and not the entire girls program. Why is everyone so stuck on one coach to be the savior when he is not a TD, ED or DOC? There is only so much he has control of, while the usual suspects are still calling the shots like before.


Hes the ECNL Director across all girl age groups. Catch up bro.

Trust me, hes calling a lot of the shots right now.


So you're implying KL is calling the shots over DG who is not only on the BOD, but also the U14 and younger Director.

And by the way, JC is the person over the entire girls program. These are all alpha males.
Anonymous
Post 05/22/2020 06:32     Subject: Bethesda Soccer Plans

Anonymous wrote:My DD played on the MRM Coyotes when they formed the younger team back around 2013. Kevin was never the main coach. He was the #2 to Alex Gould who ran that show. Maybe that changed in the last few years after we left, but when we were there, Alex called all the shots. They also coached the older Coyote team who won the National Championship around that time, and Alex was main coach then too. They were both great coaches (in the technical sense) and my DD has amazing skills thanks to them. They were definitely not for everyone, though and my DD has been much happier at another club - she plays other sports and needed more of a balance. KL is probably going to have a lot of success at BSC. I just wanted to add some context since I feel like KL is getting all the credit for the MRM Coyote success and this is not really the case.


it flip flopped a bit 2-3 years ago and then back and then kevin made his decision to move and was pushed out early at that point
Anonymous
Post 05/22/2020 06:30     Subject: Bethesda Soccer Plans

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Assuming KL is a great coach, he’s still only a coach. He’s not the Technical or Executive Director. Hence, why do people think he will have such a big influence on BSC? This reminds me of the Washington Redskins. Every time they draft or trade for a good player or hire a good coach.......people think that they are Super Bowl bound.


He is the director for ECNL. This past year he started being the coach for 2 teams, ended up being the coach on 4 teams. Went to other games. Next year 4 Teams officially. A bit of a crazy workaholic. That has its plus and minus points.



He is director of the older group (U15 and above), and not the entire girls program. Why is everyone so stuck on one coach to be the savior when he is not a TD, ED or DOC? There is only so much he has control of, while the usual suspects are still calling the shots like before.


Hes the ECNL Director across all girl age groups. Catch up bro.

Trust me, hes calling a lot of the shots right now.
Anonymous
Post 05/22/2020 00:30     Subject: Re:Bethesda Soccer Plans

^+1

My DD also played on the Coyotes (older team) and Alex was definitely the head coach and Kevin was the assistant. PP is right that Alex deserves at a minimum equal credit for the Coyotes. Early on, Alex was harder charging than KL, but there was a gradual role reversal after Alex had kids. PP who said the older team did not fare as well in the ECNL despite a loaded roster is correct.
Anonymous
Post 05/21/2020 23:45     Subject: Bethesda Soccer Plans

My DD played on the MRM Coyotes when they formed the younger team back around 2013. Kevin was never the main coach. He was the #2 to Alex Gould who ran that show. Maybe that changed in the last few years after we left, but when we were there, Alex called all the shots. They also coached the older Coyote team who won the National Championship around that time, and Alex was main coach then too. They were both great coaches (in the technical sense) and my DD has amazing skills thanks to them. They were definitely not for everyone, though and my DD has been much happier at another club - she plays other sports and needed more of a balance. KL is probably going to have a lot of success at BSC. I just wanted to add some context since I feel like KL is getting all the credit for the MRM Coyote success and this is not really the case.
Anonymous
Post 05/21/2020 23:00     Subject: Bethesda Soccer Plans

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:PP here. KL already has a National title from a time when a national title meant something, He also has former players who have played at the highest level. MRM Rush teams were not the first pick for players in this area but he managed to develop those players in to the type that can come start and an exiting ECNL team and make that team better. I seriously don't know what else a coach can do.

His national title came when all the best teams played in the ECNL so nope you are wrong. That same team with the addition of many top players didn’t even make the ECNL Playoffs!!


Shows you know next to nothing but since you are a Bethesda parents you likely you believe you know more than the coaches. Hence, the #1 problem with Bethesda is the parents. That team had several girls who were considered the best in the region with more than a half dozen going on to major DI programs including GUm BC, Col, Cor, LH and Cin. Consider that several of those players were all conference selections and one has been called up to national team camp. Now how many BSC seniors are playing for major schools in the Fall? Again, I am not knocking Bethesda's players but it just seems ludicrous that anyone coming from Bethesda has the nerves to try to question KL's track-record. Also, ECNL was not the today's ECNL when KL's team won a national title. Back then, there were many strong women's teams that were not in ECNL including Pipeline and SAC.


"Hence, the #1 problem with Bethesda is the parents." You got that right. It's a minority of them for sure, but they make the most noise and deeply entrenched with the "old" man's backing.



That is incorrect. Maryland United and McLean were there before, and cleaned house years ago to be what they are today - board and all. Parents have no say and not able to manipulate coaches because they have no friends in high places anymore. Coaches are allowed to coach - period.


When a club lacks leadership and direction, the parents fill the void. When a club (or any business/company) is focused on its purpose with clear direction with strong leadership, they produce great products. When they routinely produce great products that are D1 caliber/talented kids, everyone shuts up especially the parents. The power never shifts to the parents because they will all have the fear of missing out. Bethesda parents is no different than any other club parents. So blaming the parents is completely wrong.

(I am not a current or former BSC parent, but just an astute observer.)


Clean house. This means that they previously had bad leaders that lacked focus/direction but placed personal relationships/friendships above producing great products. Hence, you’re agreeing with my point.
Anonymous
Post 05/21/2020 22:33     Subject: Bethesda Soccer Plans

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:PP here. KL already has a National title from a time when a national title meant something, He also has former players who have played at the highest level. MRM Rush teams were not the first pick for players in this area but he managed to develop those players in to the type that can come start and an exiting ECNL team and make that team better. I seriously don't know what else a coach can do.

His national title came when all the best teams played in the ECNL so nope you are wrong. That same team with the addition of many top players didn’t even make the ECNL Playoffs!!


Shows you know next to nothing but since you are a Bethesda parents you likely you believe you know more than the coaches. Hence, the #1 problem with Bethesda is the parents. That team had several girls who were considered the best in the region with more than a half dozen going on to major DI programs including GUm BC, Col, Cor, LH and Cin. Consider that several of those players were all conference selections and one has been called up to national team camp. Now how many BSC seniors are playing for major schools in the Fall? Again, I am not knocking Bethesda's players but it just seems ludicrous that anyone coming from Bethesda has the nerves to try to question KL's track-record. Also, ECNL was not the today's ECNL when KL's team won a national title. Back then, there were many strong women's teams that were not in ECNL including Pipeline and SAC.


"Hence, the #1 problem with Bethesda is the parents." You got that right. It's a minority of them for sure, but they make the most noise and deeply entrenched with the "old" man's backing.



That is incorrect. Maryland United and McLean were there before, and cleaned house years ago to be what they are today - board and all. Parents have no say and not able to manipulate coaches because they have no friends in high places anymore. Coaches are allowed to coach - period.


When a club lacks leadership and direction, the parents fill the void. When a club (or any business/company) is focused on its purpose with clear direction with strong leadership, they produce great products. When they routinely produce great products that are D1 caliber/talented kids, everyone shuts up especially the parents. The power never shifts to the parents because they will all have the fear of missing out. Bethesda parents is no different than any other club parents. So blaming the parents is completely wrong.

(I am not a current or former BSC parent, but just an astute observer.)
Anonymous
Post 05/21/2020 22:22     Subject: Bethesda Soccer Plans

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:PP here. KL already has a National title from a time when a national title meant something, He also has former players who have played at the highest level. MRM Rush teams were not the first pick for players in this area but he managed to develop those players in to the type that can come start and an exiting ECNL team and make that team better. I seriously don't know what else a coach can do.

His national title came when all the best teams played in the ECNL so nope you are wrong. That same team with the addition of many top players didn’t even make the ECNL Playoffs!!


Shows you know next to nothing but since you are a Bethesda parents you likely you believe you know more than the coaches. Hence, the #1 problem with Bethesda is the parents. That team had several girls who were considered the best in the region with more than a half dozen going on to major DI programs including GUm BC, Col, Cor, LH and Cin. Consider that several of those players were all conference selections and one has been called up to national team camp. Now how many BSC seniors are playing for major schools in the Fall? Again, I am not knocking Bethesda's players but it just seems ludicrous that anyone coming from Bethesda has the nerves to try to question KL's track-record. Also, ECNL was not the today's ECNL when KL's team won a national title. Back then, there were many strong women's teams that were not in ECNL including Pipeline and SAC.


"Hence, the #1 problem with Bethesda is the parents." You got that right. It's a minority of them for sure, but they make the most noise and deeply entrenched with the "old" man's backing.


When a club lacks leadership and direction, the parents fill the void. When a club (or any business/company) is focused on its purpose with clear direction with strong leadership, they produce great products. When they routinely produce great products that are D1 caliber/talented kids, everyone shuts up especially the parents. The power never shifts to the parents because they will all have the fear of missing out. Bethesda parents is no different than any other club parents. So blaming the parents is completely wrong.

(I am not a current or former BSC parent, but just an astute observer.)
Anonymous
Post 05/21/2020 21:22     Subject: Bethesda Soccer Plans

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:PP here. KL already has a National title from a time when a national title meant something, He also has former players who have played at the highest level. MRM Rush teams were not the first pick for players in this area but he managed to develop those players in to the type that can come start and an exiting ECNL team and make that team better. I seriously don't know what else a coach can do.

His national title came when all the best teams played in the ECNL so nope you are wrong. That same team with the addition of many top players didn’t even make the ECNL Playoffs!!


Shows you know next to nothing but since you are a Bethesda parents you likely you believe you know more than the coaches. Hence, the #1 problem with Bethesda is the parents. That team had several girls who were considered the best in the region with more than a half dozen going on to major DI programs including GUm BC, Col, Cor, LH and Cin. Consider that several of those players were all conference selections and one has been called up to national team camp. Now how many BSC seniors are playing for major schools in the Fall? Again, I am not knocking Bethesda's players but it just seems ludicrous that anyone coming from Bethesda has the nerves to try to question KL's track-record. Also, ECNL was not the today's ECNL when KL's team won a national title. Back then, there were many strong women's teams that were not in ECNL including Pipeline and SAC.


"Hence, the #1 problem with Bethesda is the parents." You got that right. It's a minority of them for sure, but they make the most noise and deeply entrenched with the "old" man's backing.
Anonymous
Post 05/21/2020 20:23     Subject: Bethesda Soccer Plans

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:PP here. KL already has a National title from a time when a national title meant something, He also has former players who have played at the highest level. MRM Rush teams were not the first pick for players in this area but he managed to develop those players in to the type that can come start and an exiting ECNL team and make that team better. I seriously don't know what else a coach can do.

His national title came when all the best teams played in the ECNL so nope you are wrong. That same team with the addition of many top players didn’t even make the ECNL Playoffs!!


Shows you know next to nothing but since you are a Bethesda parents you likely you believe you know more than the coaches. Hence, the #1 problem with Bethesda is the parents. That team had several girls who were considered the best in the region with more than a half dozen going on to major DI programs including GUm BC, Col, Cor, LH and Cin. Consider that several of those players were all conference selections and one has been called up to national team camp. Now how many BSC seniors are playing for major schools in the Fall? Again, I am not knocking Bethesda's players but it just seems ludicrous that anyone coming from Bethesda has the nerves to try to question KL's track-record. Also, ECNL was not the today's ECNL when KL's team won a national title. Back then, there were many strong women's teams that were not in ECNL including Pipeline and SAC.
Anonymous
Post 05/21/2020 20:09     Subject: Bethesda Soccer Plans

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Assuming KL is a great coach, he’s still only a coach. He’s not the Technical or Executive Director. Hence, why do people think he will have such a big influence on BSC? This reminds me of the Washington Redskins. Every time they draft or trade for a good player or hire a good coach.......people think that they are Super Bowl bound.


He is the director for ECNL. This past year he started being the coach for 2 teams, ended up being the coach on 4 teams. Went to other games. Next year 4 Teams officially. A bit of a crazy workaholic. That has its plus and minus points.



He is director of the older group (U15 and above), and not the entire girls program. Why is everyone so stuck on one coach to be the savior when he is not a TD, ED or DOC? There is only so much he has control of, while the usual suspects are still calling the shots like before.