Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Well, since Shane didn’t want a committed relationship until 10 years in either, it worked out great for both of them.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We're severely deprived of dopamine apparently. And starved for unproblematic men who aren't afraid to be vulnerable. That’s my explanation for the stratospheric success of this show.
Ilya would be very problematic if a woman posted on here about him…!!
She would be told to dump him immediately!
Not me. Ilya is the most eligible of men: gorgeous, talented, successful, rich, great in bed. A little tortured so needs a little fixing, but hey, life would never be boring with that boy.
You just have to be okay with 5 years of booty calls, no commitment, no exclusivity, poor communication, being ghosted, being ignored, being told you are boring, him being an a-hole, and walking in the door to 'get on your knees' visits before you get to the tortured soul part!
Of course, because it is a Harlequin romance novel! It just isn't real life. If a woman posted about Ilya, she wouldn't be told to stick it out for years and maybe some day she will get more than a high STI risk booty call every few months!
Anonymous wrote:Well, since Shane didn’t want a committed relationship until 10 years in either, it worked out great for both of them.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We're severely deprived of dopamine apparently. And starved for unproblematic men who aren't afraid to be vulnerable. That’s my explanation for the stratospheric success of this show.
Ilya would be very problematic if a woman posted on here about him…!!
She would be told to dump him immediately!
Not me. Ilya is the most eligible of men: gorgeous, talented, successful, rich, great in bed. A little tortured so needs a little fixing, but hey, life would never be boring with that boy.
You just have to be okay with 5 years of booty calls, no commitment, no exclusivity, poor communication, being ghosted, being ignored, being told you are boring, him being an a-hole, and walking in the door to 'get on your knees' visits before you get to the tortured soul part!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We're severely deprived of dopamine apparently. And starved for unproblematic men who aren't afraid to be vulnerable. That’s my explanation for the stratospheric success of this show.
Ilya would be very problematic if a woman posted on here about him…!!
She would be told to dump him immediately!
Not me. Ilya is the most eligible of men: gorgeous, talented, successful, rich, great in bed. A little tortured so needs a little fixing, but hey, life would never be boring with that boy.
You just have to be okay with 5 years of booty calls, no commitment, no exclusivity, poor communication, being ghosted, being ignored, being told you are boring, him being an a-hole, and walking in the door to 'get on your knees' visits before you get to the tortured soul part!
Well, since Shane didn’t want a committed relationship until 10 years in either, it worked out great for both of them.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We're severely deprived of dopamine apparently. And starved for unproblematic men who aren't afraid to be vulnerable. That’s my explanation for the stratospheric success of this show.
Ilya would be very problematic if a woman posted on here about him…!!
She would be told to dump him immediately!
Not me. Ilya is the most eligible of men: gorgeous, talented, successful, rich, great in bed. A little tortured so needs a little fixing, but hey, life would never be boring with that boy.
You just have to be okay with 5 years of booty calls, no commitment, no exclusivity, poor communication, being ghosted, being ignored, being told you are boring, him being an a-hole, and walking in the door to 'get on your knees' visits before you get to the tortured soul part!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We're severely deprived of dopamine apparently. And starved for unproblematic men who aren't afraid to be vulnerable. That’s my explanation for the stratospheric success of this show.
Ilya would be very problematic if a woman posted on here about him…!!
She would be told to dump him immediately!
Not me. Ilya is the most eligible of men: gorgeous, talented, successful, rich, great in bed. A little tortured so needs a little fixing, but hey, life would never be boring with that boy.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We're severely deprived of dopamine apparently. And starved for unproblematic men who aren't afraid to be vulnerable. That’s my explanation for the stratospheric success of this show.
Ilya would be very problematic if a woman posted on here about him…!!
She would be told to dump him immediately!
Anonymous wrote:We're severely deprived of dopamine apparently. And starved for unproblematic men who aren't afraid to be vulnerable. That’s my explanation for the stratospheric success of this show.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think women have gone crazy about this show because unlike in a traditional straight relationship, here neither partner is considered lesser than, or is solely responsible for the emotional baggage of the relationship 🤷♀️
Consider...
Both partners are financial equals with equivalent careers and are fully financially independent
Both partners initiate and host the other
Both partners are fully into exploring sexually and being directed on how to please the other (and doing it)
Both partners accept being ghosted for 6 months and still carrying on
Both partners are fine with no exclusivity and having other sexual partners until the I Love You Stage
Both partners are fine with only minimal communication and occasional contact for years
Both partners want a sex focused relationship for years before building anything emotional
Both partners are physical equals so they can throw each other around without risk of injury or fear
Both partners are allowed to be equally emotionally vulnerable and emotionally supportive - no gender roles that harm both sides.
There are a lot of factors in same sex relationships that are different from heterosexual relationships.
Anonymous wrote:I think women have gone crazy about this show because unlike in a traditional straight relationship, here neither partner is considered lesser than, or is solely responsible for the emotional baggage of the relationship 🤷♀️
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:SNL Feb 28. 👀
My brother works for SNL and said the demand for 2/28 tickets is going to be astronomical. Taylor Swift level.