Ben still staying a step ahead of taking responsibility for personal messes. JLo and her kids are way in the rearview. Jen G. did all the legwork for this trip (happily/codependently so, I'm sure) and Ben just had to show up when and where he was told like a fourth kid. His women making sure to take much off his plate.

Anonymous wrote:he is in Japan with his own kids.. and their mother

This trip was likely planned months ago…and perhaps this family trip is what set JLo over the edge and prompted the feud that led to the end of their relationship?

It makes sense for grown-ups to prioritize their children and the family they built before divorcing. But JLo doesn’t seem mature enough to understand such things.

Anonymous wrote:he is in Japan with his own kids.. and their mother

Special family trip before Violet leaves for college, how nice.

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Anonymous wrote:Ben and Emme

This was when he and JL were still together. You don’t see him making a play for M & E now like JL is gushing over V and S.

He celebrated his b-day with his 3 kids.
https://www.hindustantimes.com/entertainment/hollywood/ben-affleck-enjoys-small-birthday-party-with-his-kids-its-exactly-what-101723861448222.html

Anonymous wrote:He went to Japan with JG.
https://www.thenews.com.pk/amp/1221250-ben-affleck-takes-family-trip-to-japan-with-ex-wife-jennifer-garner-report

This is in JL’s face. This is ‘me now’!

he is in Japan with his own kids.. and their mother

Anonymous wrote:Ben and Emme

This was when he and JL were still together. You don’t see him making a play for M & E now like JL is gushing over V and S.

He went to Japan with JG.
https://www.thenews.com.pk/amp/1221250-ben-affleck-takes-family-trip-to-japan-with-ex-wife-jennifer-garner-report

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Anonymous wrote:You don’t see BA spending time with JL’s kids.

He did - it’s easy to find online

https://pagesix.com/2023/04/03/ben-affleck-smiles-shopping-with-jennifer-lopezs-child-emme-photos/

He did then but he's not now I think is what PP meant.

What’s there to analyze? 2 damaged people wanted to rekindle a romance during the pandemic because they were bored and now that it’s over they want to divorce and just damage their own kids more. It’s a Hollywood love story.

Ben and Max

Ben and Emme

Anonymous wrote:You don’t see BA spending time with JL’s kids.

He did - it’s easy to find online

https://pagesix.com/2023/04/03/ben-affleck-smiles-shopping-with-jennifer-lopezs-child-emme-photos/

You don’t see BA spending time with JL’s kids.

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Anonymous wrote:Why aren't there pictures of her spending summer with her own kids? Isn't that good PR to look like an involved mother to kids whoes fatger she divorced and who have to put up with chain of her love interests.

She was just pap’d with her kids last weekend. She’s actually photographed with her kids a lot, it just doesn’t make headlines.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-13731845/amp/Jennifer-Lopez-wedding-ring-twins-Ben-Affleck-divorce-drama.html

Yes, lots of pics of Max bike riding with her in the Hamptons.