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Post 04/15/2023 17:51     Subject: Love is Blind Season 4!
Anonymous wrote:Hard for me to understand why Bliss couldn't do better than Zach. Make it make sense.


I would say it’s because she’s beautiful And smart. I bet that most guys that approach her, are probably more interested in her looks.
Mist guys with the personality that she would be interested in, are probably intimidated by her.
Looks like Zach is a good match for her brains, and they probably have really deep intellectual conversations and share nerdy sense of humor.
That’s going to make the marriage last. Those that think she could do better than Zach are prob judging his looks and weird quirks and awkwardness. I think that’s mean. Nerdy quirky people need live too. He seems to really love her and will likely be forever faithful because he came so close to losing her already.
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2023 17:40     Subject: Love is Blind Season 4!
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Anonymous wrote:Bliss' dad is such a jerk. About to walk down the aisle and says "he can't keep up with you". "we'll see". So much doubt. Get over it.


I mean...maybe he's a fan of the show, and has data on the percentage of successful couples to come out of it?

I'll tell you what, my husband would NEVER accept a guy who didn't choose our daughter first. I think he's right to cast doubt to try to spare his daughter the inevitable divorce.


Unless your Daughter gets hitched at 10yo, she likely won’t be his first choice. Any a person make a mistake? I feel lucky that my husband has a terrible ex girlfriend from college. it makes him appreciate me more and know he can’t afford to lose me.
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2023 17:28     Subject: Re:Love is Blind Season 4!
Just watched the wedding episode.

Paul and Micah - she may have substance, but it was hard to find under all her hair extensions, fake eyelashes, and injections in her face. I agree she didn't seem like mother material, but wonder if that may be a maturity issue. She seems like she's still in the college party girl stage and was trying to force herself into the next stage. Doesn't seem like she's ready. Paul felt terrible because he's a good guy and hurt someone he loved. But I think he made the right decision in every way. He deserves better. A nice smarty who's naturally pretty and likes hiking and shit.

Brett and Tiffany - I want to buy them a gift off their registry! Totally rooting for them, and think they have what it takes. I might cry if you tell me they broke up. Love that Marshall showed up for them, but wish he wasn't sitting in the back row - he deserved to be with the groomsmen - he's a good friend.

Zack and Bliss - Zack will spend the rest of his life trying to be a good husband. If Bliss drops being second choice, he will make her very happy.

Chelsea and Kwame - oh dear. Chelsea's laugh sounds like she's a villain in a movie. I think they would REALLY benefit from marriage counseling. Chelsea needs to not be a steamroller and not be dismissive. Kwame needs to find a way to get to a good place with his mom, and then get over his guilt of getting married without her blessing. I'm not sure this one will last.
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2023 17:21     Subject: Love is Blind Season 4!
I cannot wait for the reunion special…. Hopefully it being live means more of the tea is able to come out
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2023 17:20     Subject: Re:Love is Blind Season 4!
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Anonymous wrote:This just confirms that being mean and condescending in life, gets you nowhere. Notice how all the mean girls ended up, alone with a bad reputation. Irina, Micah and Jackie. You are the company you keep.
Let this be a lesson

Sadly I don’t think Jackie is alone. I think she is with Josh.


But Josh is shit. He'll wind up hurting her too. They'll be toxic together.
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2023 14:34     Subject: Love is Blind Season 4!
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Anonymous wrote:It’s the day!! Spoilers here!

I am happy kwame said yes and rooting for them. Not surprised that Paul said no. Would Micah have said yes? Also happy for bliss and Zach. A great season.



Thank god for Paul. Her friend's are such @ssholes, laughing as she runs away crying. She needs to ditch them. And the vocal fry and incessant "likes"--she sounds like a moron. Anyway, she was just embarrassed, obviously isn't in love with him.




He was very wise and analytical. Didn't see her as nurturing, couldn't envision her as a mother. Smart.



That was cold. Accurate but cold to say on national tv.


I think it’s a really weird and misogynistic comments. And I don’t even like Micah but what a weird spin. She just seems immature to me honestly



He said she wasn't nurturing. I took that to mean she doesn't act in a caring way toward other people. I think that's true. Did you see the weird faces she was making when the other women were trying on their wedding dresses? She's horrible, just knows enough to make an effort in front of the camera from time to time.
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Post 04/15/2023 14:11     Subject: Love is Blind Season 4!
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Anonymous wrote:Kwame and Chelsea, I mean, good luck! Of course Zach chose the ugliest tux. And that’s about the only thing I felt about that wedding. lol

Micah, you can’t get married with your bra showing anyway. You don’t want that giant picture hanging on your wall. It was meant to be! I feel like Paul is going to question this moment forever because he’ll never get a definitive, quantifiable answer. I got some tea from TikTok about what’s happened since then, but I’ll save it for after the reunion.

I’m laughing so hard at the drama for Brett and Tiffany being his suit. This is what happens when you let Netflix do the last-minute wedding planning! But I love that he took this so seriously. He really does plan on doing this just once and he wants it done right. Good for you, Brett. I hope they have the first LIB baby.


How would it be the first? Don't Cameron and Lauren have one?

And good grief, it is obnoxious to be like "I know more but I won't say it!!!1"
No, as far as I know, no married LIB couples have kids. And generally we don’t post spoilers here. That’s not new.


No married AMERICAN LIB couples have children, but one of the Japanese couples had a baby this year.


Was it the hairdresser guy and his wife? I really liked him. Them. I loved their whole show. I feel like I learned SO MUCH about japanese culture.


Agree. Really loved LIB Japan. The cultural differences were fascinating


Yes, Minari (woman with short hair) had a notebook and talked about how she crunched the numbers, and worked off the data when deciding to get engaged. Now they have a baby.
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2023 13:30     Subject: Re:Love is Blind Season 4!
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Anonymous wrote:They got married in May. Im calling that Tiffany is already pregnant!



Don't think so based on recent pic and reunion ep promo.


First kid you can be up to 4-5 months pregnant before showing. Especially someone like Tiffany who has a thicker physique. Not criticizing her physique by the way. Think she’s perfect thick and muscular. I know most DCUM won’t agree.


I completely agree. Her body is gorgeous.
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2023 13:14     Subject: Love is Blind Season 4!
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Anonymous wrote:Kwame and Chelsea, I mean, good luck! Of course Zach chose the ugliest tux. And that’s about the only thing I felt about that wedding. lol

Micah, you can’t get married with your bra showing anyway. You don’t want that giant picture hanging on your wall. It was meant to be! I feel like Paul is going to question this moment forever because he’ll never get a definitive, quantifiable answer. I got some tea from TikTok about what’s happened since then, but I’ll save it for after the reunion.

I’m laughing so hard at the drama for Brett and Tiffany being his suit. This is what happens when you let Netflix do the last-minute wedding planning! But I love that he took this so seriously. He really does plan on doing this just once and he wants it done right. Good for you, Brett. I hope they have the first LIB baby.


How would it be the first? Don't Cameron and Lauren have one?

And good grief, it is obnoxious to be like "I know more but I won't say it!!!1"
No, as far as I know, no married LIB couples have kids. And generally we don’t post spoilers here. That’s not new.


No married AMERICAN LIB couples have children, but one of the Japanese couples had a baby this year.


Was it the hairdresser guy and his wife? I really liked him. Them. I loved their whole show. I feel like I learned SO MUCH about japanese culture.


Agree. Really loved LIB Japan. The cultural differences were fascinating
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2023 13:08     Subject: Love is Blind Season 4!
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I am happy kwame said yes and rooting for them. Not surprised that Paul said no. Would Micah have said yes? Also happy for bliss and Zach. A great season.



Thank god for Paul. Her friend's are such @ssholes, laughing as she runs away crying. She needs to ditch them. And the vocal fry and incessant "likes"--she sounds like a moron. Anyway, she was just embarrassed, obviously isn't in love with him.




He was very wise and analytical. Didn't see her as nurturing, couldn't envision her as a mother. Smart.



That was cold. Accurate but cold to say on national tv.


I think it’s a really weird and misogynistic comments. And I don’t even like Micah but what a weird spin. She just seems immature to me honestly
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2023 13:04     Subject: Love is Blind Season 4!
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Anonymous wrote:Bliss' dad is such a jerk. About to walk down the aisle and says "he can't keep up with you". "we'll see". So much doubt. Get over it.


I mean...maybe he's a fan of the show, and has data on the percentage of successful couples to come out of it?

I'll tell you what, my husband would NEVER accept a guy who didn't choose our daughter first. I think he's right to cast doubt to try to spare his daughter the inevitable divorce.

I agree that they will probably divorce at some point. [b]We already have an example of a couple where the woman was the second choice with iyanna and Jarrett and that ended in divorce. [b]

However, I think the issue is bliss and her dad’s relationship does not appear to be at a place where his advice is welcome. And instead it comes across as him not trusting his daughter’s judgment.

I personally think there are a lot of red flags about Zach. On TikTok I saw a video with someone doing parodies about all the contestants and for him she said “I construct a series of tests for potential partners to avoid showing them who I really am”. And I thought that was pretty spot on.


Iyanna and Jarette divorced because he was a party animal and not ready for marriage.
Bliss and Zach both seem ready.
And I actually think that relationships where the man is super into his wife because she's out of his league, work better than the reverse.
I also disagree that Zach hasn't showed us the real him. He was guarded the first day or so in the pods, but after that. I feel that he shared a lot about his insecurities and vulnerability.

Is he really into her though? He looks at her with the same weird mouth half open expression he looks at everyone else.
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2023 13:02     Subject: Re:Love is Blind Season 4!
Anonymous wrote:This just confirms that being mean and condescending in life, gets you nowhere. Notice how all the mean girls ended up, alone with a bad reputation. Irina, Micah and Jackie. You are the company you keep.
Let this be a lesson

Sadly I don’t think Jackie is alone. I think she is with Josh.
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2023 12:21     Subject: Re:Love is Blind Season 4!
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Anonymous wrote:They got married in May. Im calling that Tiffany is already pregnant!



Don't think so based on recent pic and reunion ep promo.


First kid you can be up to 4-5 months pregnant before showing. Especially someone like Tiffany who has a thicker physique. Not criticizing her physique by the way. Think she’s perfect thick and muscular. I know most DCUM won’t agree.
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2023 12:19     Subject: Re:Love is Blind Season 4!
I think that was her older brother that wasn’t at either parent meeting. He looks just like her. She’s black, Mexican, Persian and white. I think mom is Black and Mexican and dad Persian and white.
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2023 11:50     Subject: Love is Blind Season 4!
Anonymous wrote:I guess this is no different than arranged marriages and matchmaking of the past. Those who signed up for this with the honest intentions of finding marriage, not to be a reality star, got what they sought. I thought this season seemed less scripted, showing real and true emotions from their friends and family. There wasn’t anything wrong with Bliss’s dad’s reaction; it is only natural to doubt the premise of the show and future SIL[/quote]

I agree. And remember Bliss' father knew that Zach did not choose his daughter first. His last words to her were "never settle. you are the prize." Words that many women should live by, but don't.

Does Bliss have an older brother? The man sitting next to her father at the wedding looked like Bliss, I don't remember if he was never introduced as her brother or relative. I might have missed that.