Anonymous wrote:Agree. There’s a f-Ing guess ton of “I didn’t send my kid there and I want to continue to justify that choice 10 years later.”
I suspect - have fun with this one ladies - 1/3 of users of this site are parents who live WOTP “for the schools,” 1/3 who send their kids WOTP “for the schools” but live EOTP, and 1/4 charter parents who chose “based on their child’s need to be with an academically-minded cohort.”
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Here's the problem with "I’ve just generally heard not great things." Confirmation bias is real/natural. You hear a lot of not great things from people who day 1 choose not to go there. You hear a lot of not great things from people who left in a relatively early grade for a combination of reasons and likely have some valid experiences/complainants but also want to justify that decision. There will be a year (or two) where your child has a less than all-around fabulous teacher at just about any school public or private. In many circles, who you know can maybe almost be more harmful than helpful when it comes to school choice.
Thank you. Especially when you consider the demo of this forum, people are basically just self - fulfilling prophecies. I personally think it’s to help them justify their own reasons for not continuing with their DCPS feeders. They then tell others no to. You could argue that this site has been incredibly harmful for DCPS schools and keeping them segregated.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Here's the problem with "I’ve just generally heard not great things." Confirmation bias is real/natural. You hear a lot of not great things from people who day 1 choose not to go there. You hear a lot of not great things from people who left in a relatively early grade for a combination of reasons and likely have some valid experiences/complainants but also want to justify that decision. There will be a year (or two) where your child has a less than all-around fabulous teacher at just about any school public or private. In many circles, who you know can maybe almost be more harmful than helpful when it comes to school choice.
Thank you. Especially when you consider the demo of this forum, people are basically just self - fulfilling prophecies. I personally think it’s to help them justify their own reasons for not continuing with their DCPS feeders. They then tell others no to. You could argue that this site has been incredibly harmful for DCPS schools and keeping them segregated.
Anonymous wrote:Here's the problem with "I’ve just generally heard not great things." Confirmation bias is real/natural. You hear a lot of not great things from people who day 1 choose not to go there. You hear a lot of not great things from people who left in a relatively early grade for a combination of reasons and likely have some valid experiences/complainants but also want to justify that decision. There will be a year (or two) where your child has a less than all-around fabulous teacher at just about any school public or private. In many circles, who you know can maybe almost be more harmful than helpful when it comes to school choice.
Anonymous wrote:My family has experienced 4 DCPS schools first-hand. All are considered “highly regarded” here. Only one has been uniformly very good to excellent in every respect, in my opinion. One thing they all have in common is a parent community that props it up and is hesitant to admit the school is less than perfect. So actually, my experience is the opposite. If parents are warning you against a school, it is probably for a good reason. Most parents are hesitant to admit their school choices were not good ones.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’ve lived in CH for 12 years. Now have my third kid in Tubman. It’s been really good to all of them and the school did a great job staying open all last year. We love that it’s a 5 minute walk there and back each day rather than a long commute (no au pair or nanny to help with that). But sure, if you can afford to move to Mount Pleasant why not 🤷♂️. Schooling is such a personal decision as to what’s right for your family and kids and there’s a lot of choice out there..
OP: glad to hear you’ve had a good experience with Tubman. We’re not entirely opposed, I’ve just generally heard not great things. What do you think you’ll do for middle and high school?
Anonymous wrote:I’ve lived in CH for 12 years. Now have my third kid in Tubman. It’s been really good to all of them and the school did a great job staying open all last year. We love that it’s a 5 minute walk there and back each day rather than a long commute (no au pair or nanny to help with that). But sure, if you can afford to move to Mount Pleasant why not 🤷♂️. Schooling is such a personal decision as to what’s right for your family and kids and there’s a lot of choice out there..