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Anonymous wrote:I would just help to pay for a hotel room as part of a wedding gift. That would save a lot of troubles and inconveniences

The groom is simply too cheap to pay. All the trouble and inconveniences are because of that.

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Anonymous wrote:How is this even a question? Your family gets ready in their rooms and the groomsmen use the rest of the house. It’s for a few hours and this is someone important to your DH. Your kids will also enjoy the happiness getting ready for this family event.

I’m not someone who loves people in my space, but I wouldn’t think twice about this.

The rest of the house where? Op didn't mention extra rooms.

I’m the PP who is pretty selective about who I bring into my home and am not about letting family walk all over me. The groomsmen can set up in the living and dining room. Give them one kid’s room if they need more privacy.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How is this even a question? Your family gets ready in their rooms and the groomsmen use the rest of the house. It’s for a few hours and this is someone important to your DH. Your kids will also enjoy the happiness getting ready for this family event.

I’m not someone who loves people in my space, but I wouldn’t think twice about this.

The rest of the house where? Op didn't mention extra rooms.

I’m the PP who is pretty selective about who I bring into my home and am not about letting family walk all over me. The groomsmen can set up in the living and dining room. Give them one kid’s room if they need more privacy.

Anonymous wrote:I would just help to pay for a hotel room as part of a wedding gift. That would save a lot of troubles and inconveniences

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How is this even a question? Your family gets ready in their rooms and the groomsmen use the rest of the house. It’s for a few hours and this is someone important to your DH. Your kids will also enjoy the happiness getting ready for this family event.

I’m not someone who loves people in my space, but I wouldn’t think twice about this.

The rest of the house where? Op didn't mention extra rooms.

I’m the PP who is pretty selective about who I bring into my home and am not about letting family walk all over me. The groomsmen can set up in the living and dining room. Give them one kid’s room if they need more privacy.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How is this even a question? Your family gets ready in their rooms and the groomsmen use the rest of the house. It’s for a few hours and this is someone important to your DH. Your kids will also enjoy the happiness getting ready for this family event.

I’m not someone who loves people in my space, but I wouldn’t think twice about this.

The rest of the house where? Op didn't mention extra rooms.

Anonymous wrote:How is this even a question? Your family gets ready in their rooms and the groomsmen use the rest of the house. It’s for a few hours and this is someone important to your DH. Your kids will also enjoy the happiness getting ready for this family event.

I’m not someone who loves people in my space, but I wouldn’t think twice about this.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How is this even a question? Your family gets ready in their rooms and the groomsmen use the rest of the house. It’s for a few hours and this is someone important to your DH. Your kids will also enjoy the happiness getting ready for this family event.

I’m not someone who loves people in my space, but I wouldn’t think twice about this.

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This is family. How is this a question?

Anonymous wrote:How is this even a question? Your family gets ready in their rooms and the groomsmen use the rest of the house. It’s for a few hours and this is someone important to your DH. Your kids will also enjoy the happiness getting ready for this family event.

I’m not someone who loves people in my space, but I wouldn’t think twice about this.

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Anonymous wrote:It's a low class ask.

Low class? People obsessed with class never seem to have much of their own.

Hence we know. This and the batshit 9 year old not invited to wedding are very LC. I know my cohort.

Anonymous wrote:How is this even a question? Your family gets ready in their rooms and the groomsmen use the rest of the house. It’s for a few hours and this is someone important to your DH. Your kids will also enjoy the happiness getting ready for this family event.

I’m not someone who loves people in my space, but I wouldn’t think twice about this.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's a low class ask.

Low class? People obsessed with class never seem to have much of their own.

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Anonymous wrote:Interesting the DH said "up to you". Doesn't sound like he's eager to do it.

I got the vibe he just didn't want to say yes and then have to hear it from his wife for the next 10 years or however long he lasts. I'm a woman, BTW.

Interesting. I'm also a woman and I got the vibe the husband didn't want to host since he was so unenthusiastic about it.

I guess we don't know what else the husband might have said. OP told us about "it's up to you." But we don't know what was said before that, i.e. "I'd like to do it...but it's up to you." Not a word about how the husband feels about it, etc., which leads me to believe that he wants to do it because otherwise OP would have included that her husband didn't even want to do it. And if she hemmed and hawed and he didn't want to do it then they'd both just say no. So deducing from the fact that OP posted on here about it leads me to believe that her husband wants to do it and the OP does not, hence why she came for opinions.

Lots of assumptions and jumping to conclusions about the situation and how the op's husband thinks.

Sure. Except that if OP's husband DIDN'T want to do it, he would have just told his brother that. I mean, that's not a big leap to figure out.