Anonymous
Post 08/27/2024 13:56     Subject: Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce
Anonymous wrote:Who the hell is Finn??


Seraphina, the second daughter, introduced herself as Finn a few months ago when eulogizing Garner’s dad. Ben and Jennifer Garner traveled to West Virginia for the funeral back in April together with the kids.

Perhaps this was another bone to pick for J Lo. I truly think her insecurity over Garner and Ben is what unraveled their relationship. She isn’t as close with her co parenting so she doesn’t understand their bonds are closer
Anonymous
Post 08/27/2024 12:47     Subject: Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce
Who the hell is Finn??
Anonymous
Post 08/27/2024 12:30     Subject: Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce
They’re both a mess and this situation is a mess, but when the dust settles, I think JLo will be fine. I don’t think Ben will ever be fine.
Anonymous
Post 08/27/2024 06:45     Subject: Re:Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce
I was pretty hard on JLO at the beginning of all this, in addition to Ben. But at this point ben absolutely baffles me and I feel really bad for JLO. She has her flaws, but I don’t think she was ready to give up on this marriage just yet. Ben is such a loser.

I was reading that someone close to him called him a dry drunk, which is so true. He may not have a relapsed but it sounds like he hasn’t addressed any of the issues that lead him to drink etc.
Anonymous
Post 08/27/2024 06:43     Subject: Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce
Anonymous wrote:I think Finn is perfectly fine but the oldest may be a bit hypochondriac.

She is hyper persistent about masks which is a good thing but she seems very risk averse which is the total opposite of her father.


Violet has said she had a post viral syndrome from a virus that she caught before Covid, in 2019. I understand that would make her nervous about catching COVID.

I try to be sympathetic to people, but I don’t understand why I see her so often masking outside. There’s just not good evidence for that. I recently got back on Twitter, which has been a huge mistake, but COVID Twitter is absolutely insane. There’s a whole community of people acting like it is 2020. And absolutely baffled and angry that people are gathering etc. I was very Covid conscious for a long time and I definitely am still nervous about long Covid, but I do realize we have tools now plus a lot more immunity. But I do sympathize with people who have had chronic conditions because of a virus. It probably does mess with your head a little. I am betting moving into a dorm is going to be great for her.
Anonymous
Post 08/27/2024 06:26     Subject: Re:Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce
...smoking in front of his kids


Was he smoking crack?!
Anonymous
Post 08/26/2024 14:22     Subject: Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Ben is far worse. He used to sleep with his daughters nanny or teacher and lie about it. This is while he was married to Garner. Garner hired her because she trusted her and she started banging Ben and Ben initiated it all even texting the nanny with his sons Ipad and asking when she’ll be back to the house.



Yikes. Is that why his middle daughter seems off?


I think she isn’t off, but maybe it’s middle chick syndrome and she wants her dads approval as dad seems to be more into his son perhaps because he’s the only boy and the youngest child of divorce. He always says he enjoys bonding with his son because his son appreciates Batman, basketball, and Tom Brady. From what he said in the past, he wasn’t happy about his daughters teaching his son Frozen and into his daughters Taylor Swift love and his daughters had zero interest in his movies. Based on this, I assume Seraphina becoming Finn is less troublesome to him than his son transitioning.

Ben is very much a dyed in the wool Boston bro and does bro things like letting his 10 year old son test drive then accidentally crash new cars at a Bentley car dealership. Yes, this happened a few years ago.

He’s teaching his son it’s ok to not follow the rules. Ben thinks like a gambler and is very rash. Everything about Ben’s poor decision making causes super dramatic scenes for him.


Just curious...what is thinking like a gambler? Risk-taking?


Yes. Ben thinks like that. His decision to elope with J Lo in Vegas without pre nup, his back tattoo, cheating with nanny who exposed him to the press, letting his pre teen smash vehicles at car dealerships, smoking in front of his kids, purchasing every home or car cash because he fears homelessness from gambling and drinking like his dad.

These are all not very stable or wise choices


Got it. Thanks for taking the time to explain.
Anonymous
Post 08/26/2024 14:18     Subject: Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce
Anonymous wrote:I think Finn is perfectly fine but the oldest may be a bit hypochondriac.

She is hyper persistent about masks which is a good thing but she seems very risk averse which is the total opposite of her father.


I'd say these two things are connected.
Anonymous
Post 08/26/2024 14:09     Subject: Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce
I think Finn is perfectly fine but the oldest may be a bit hypochondriac.

She is hyper persistent about masks which is a good thing but she seems very risk averse which is the total opposite of her father.
Anonymous
Post 08/26/2024 14:06     Subject: Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Ben is far worse. He used to sleep with his daughters nanny or teacher and lie about it. This is while he was married to Garner. Garner hired her because she trusted her and she started banging Ben and Ben initiated it all even texting the nanny with his sons Ipad and asking when she’ll be back to the house.



Yikes. Is that why his middle daughter seems off?


I think she isn’t off, but maybe it’s middle chick syndrome and she wants her dads approval as dad seems to be more into his son perhaps because he’s the only boy and the youngest child of divorce. He always says he enjoys bonding with his son because his son appreciates Batman, basketball, and Tom Brady. From what he said in the past, he wasn’t happy about his daughters teaching his son Frozen and into his daughters Taylor Swift love and his daughters had zero interest in his movies. Based on this, I assume Seraphina becoming Finn is less troublesome to him than his son transitioning.

Ben is very much a dyed in the wool Boston bro and does bro things like letting his 10 year old son test drive then accidentally crash new cars at a Bentley car dealership. Yes, this happened a few years ago.

He’s teaching his son it’s ok to not follow the rules. Ben thinks like a gambler and is very rash. Everything about Ben’s poor decision making causes super dramatic scenes for him.


Just curious...what is thinking like a gambler? Risk-taking?


Yes. Ben thinks like that. His decision to elope with J Lo in Vegas without pre nup, his back tattoo, cheating with nanny who exposed him to the press, letting his pre teen smash vehicles at car dealerships, smoking in front of his kids, purchasing every home or car cash because he fears homelessness from gambling and drinking like his dad.

These are all not very stable or wise choices
Anonymous
Post 08/26/2024 14:01     Subject: Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce
Anonymous wrote:https://people.com/ben-affleck-very-focused-after-jennifer-lopez-divorce-filing-source-exclusive-8701179?taid=66cc9c3a5f46830001c91276&utm_campaign=peoplemagazine&utm_content=new&utm_medium=social&utm_source=twitter.com

When did he move out? Adding some quotes. His team's response is "lol it'd been over, the weight has lifted" its noble of JLo to try fixing the relationship but next time i hope she realizes it's not worth the fight.

"The source adds that Affleck felt he was "done with his marriage" when he first moved into a rental home in Los Angeles separately from where he and Lopez, 55, were living together."

"He thrives when he has work projects. He's been great when it comes to the kids too. He's doing exactly what he wants," the source says. "He seems very happy."


Oh thank goodness Ben found his way back to making himself happy. Eff him right in the ear.
Anonymous
Post 08/26/2024 13:44     Subject: Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce
https://people.com/ben-affleck-very-focused-after-jennifer-lopez-divorce-filing-source-exclusive-8701179?taid=66cc9c3a5f46830001c91276&utm_campaign=peoplemagazine&utm_content=new&utm_medium=social&utm_source=twitter.com

When did he move out? Adding some quotes. His team's response is "lol it'd been over, the weight has lifted" its noble of JLo to try fixing the relationship but next time i hope she realizes it's not worth the fight.

"The source adds that Affleck felt he was "done with his marriage" when he first moved into a rental home in Los Angeles separately from where he and Lopez, 55, were living together."

"He thrives when he has work projects. He's been great when it comes to the kids too. He's doing exactly what he wants," the source says. "He seems very happy."
Anonymous
Post 08/26/2024 13:26     Subject: Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Ben is far worse. He used to sleep with his daughters nanny or teacher and lie about it. This is while he was married to Garner. Garner hired her because she trusted her and she started banging Ben and Ben initiated it all even texting the nanny with his sons Ipad and asking when she’ll be back to the house.



Yikes. Is that why his middle daughter seems off?


I think she isn’t off, but maybe it’s middle chick syndrome and she wants her dads approval as dad seems to be more into his son perhaps because he’s the only boy and the youngest child of divorce. He always says he enjoys bonding with his son because his son appreciates Batman, basketball, and Tom Brady. From what he said in the past, he wasn’t happy about his daughters teaching his son Frozen and into his daughters Taylor Swift love and his daughters had zero interest in his movies. Based on this, I assume Seraphina becoming Finn is less troublesome to him than his son transitioning.

Ben is very much a dyed in the wool Boston bro and does bro things like letting his 10 year old son test drive then accidentally crash new cars at a Bentley car dealership. Yes, this happened a few years ago.

He’s teaching his son it’s ok to not follow the rules. Ben thinks like a gambler and is very rash. Everything about Ben’s poor decision making causes super dramatic scenes for him.


I think it's middle child syndrome plus competition between sisters. Violet looks just like her mom. Fin has been compared to Ben looks-wise. Maybe both of those things caused issues since it can be hard as an awkward teen having an attractive mom.
Anonymous
Post 08/26/2024 13:20     Subject: Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Ben is far worse. He used to sleep with his daughters nanny or teacher and lie about it. This is while he was married to Garner. Garner hired her because she trusted her and she started banging Ben and Ben initiated it all even texting the nanny with his sons Ipad and asking when she’ll be back to the house.



Yikes. Is that why his middle daughter seems off?


I think she isn’t off, but maybe it’s middle chick syndrome and she wants her dads approval as dad seems to be more into his son perhaps because he’s the only boy and the youngest child of divorce. He always says he enjoys bonding with his son because his son appreciates Batman, basketball, and Tom Brady. From what he said in the past, he wasn’t happy about his daughters teaching his son Frozen and into his daughters Taylor Swift love and his daughters had zero interest in his movies. Based on this, I assume Seraphina becoming Finn is less troublesome to him than his son transitioning.

Ben is very much a dyed in the wool Boston bro and does bro things like letting his 10 year old son test drive then accidentally crash new cars at a Bentley car dealership. Yes, this happened a few years ago.

He’s teaching his son it’s ok to not follow the rules. Ben thinks like a gambler and is very rash. Everything about Ben’s poor decision making causes super dramatic scenes for him.


Just curious...what is thinking like a gambler? Risk-taking?
Anonymous
Post 08/26/2024 13:10     Subject: Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Ben is far worse. He used to sleep with his daughters nanny or teacher and lie about it. This is while he was married to Garner. Garner hired her because she trusted her and she started banging Ben and Ben initiated it all even texting the nanny with his sons Ipad and asking when she’ll be back to the house.



Yikes. Is that why his middle daughter seems off?


I think she isn’t off, but maybe it’s middle chick syndrome and she wants her dads approval as dad seems to be more into his son perhaps because he’s the only boy and the youngest child of divorce. He always says he enjoys bonding with his son because his son appreciates Batman, basketball, and Tom Brady. From what he said in the past, he wasn’t happy about his daughters teaching his son Frozen and into his daughters Taylor Swift love and his daughters had zero interest in his movies. Based on this, I assume Seraphina becoming Finn is less troublesome to him than his son transitioning.

Ben is very much a dyed in the wool Boston bro and does bro things like letting his 10 year old son test drive then accidentally crash new cars at a Bentley car dealership. Yes, this happened a few years ago.

He’s teaching his son it’s ok to not follow the rules. Ben thinks like a gambler and is very rash. Everything about Ben’s poor decision making causes super dramatic scenes for him.