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Also, my kid was not very prepared for college, and couldn’t understand a bit of Spanish after 5 years of the language. The first semester of college was a rude awakening.

Anonymous wrote:Look, teens know that they can still earn A’s when they skip classes. There’s zero school consequence as long as their work gets turned in (can be late- no problem). I can punish at home, but it would be so much easier to have a partnership with the school where our priorities are aligned. Natural consequences would be about grades and/or loss of credit. Not losing a phone. I want to get my child ready for college away from me, and MCPS’s policies actually make that more challenging.

P.s. Are you going to follow your child to college and give consequences there, too?

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t think enough criticism or scrutiny is being aimed at MSDE. Some of these idiotic policies are being driven by equally idiotic demands, audits, arbitrary metrics, etc. from the bureaucrats in Annapolis.

yup, just check out the latest House Bill which further gets rid of part of the MD Education Code regarding class behavior. Those students who hang in the hallways missing class, can now hang in the classroom instead doing whatever it is they do all day besides learn. https://mgaleg.maryland.gov/2024RS/bills/hb/hb0615f.pdf?fbclid=IwAR1iaM76rX0dI-kcjsgZBpjKIMGlDa_kXp5ExGWQG43gR9mtwm8IZgHUyqM

Success in public school, much like success in most of life, depends mostly on parenting. Kids who hang in hallways missing class have parents who likely were also hanging in hallways missing class. Failures breed failures.

Please stop blaming parents. If my kid isn’t in class- should I quit my job and walk them to and from? Of course not. Im going to address it at home of course, but there’s very little I can do while they are in school. I don’t control the environment in the schools. We need to give schools the ability to give detentions/suspensions/etc over things like this. The kids know they can get away with it at school- which just undermines my ability to parent my child. So stop blaming us.

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Anonymous wrote:I missed this thread when it was originally posted and the Reddit post sounds about right. It is shocking how irresponsible mcps leadership is and how unconcerned they are about actual student learning.

I have to disagree. MCPS today seems as good as it ever was in terms of opportunity. I feel my kids today are getting a better education at our DCC school than I did at a W 30 years ago. The main difference is the county's demographics are different which largely impacts standardized test averages. My kids had a chance to go to CES, Eastern and RMIB. They're doing great because they are focused on getting the best possible education available. Today, fewer students value traditional education, and that's fine.

Better how? All I see is the school replacing enlightenment values with leftist ideology.

My experience suggests you're uninformed. Yes, the curriculum does take a broader view of the world than when I was a kid and is less Euro-centric, but that's hardly leftist. In fact, it seems better informed. Anyway, their overall grasp of mathematics, reading comprehension and foreign language skills are several years ahead of where I was at. I graduated from a W and went on to an Ivy back in the 90s. My children are far better prepared for college than I was.

You're either not aware or perhaps you just agree with what they're teaching. But the MCPS curriculum is steeped in the oppression narrative.

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t think enough criticism or scrutiny is being aimed at MSDE. Some of these idiotic policies are being driven by equally idiotic demands, audits, arbitrary metrics, etc. from the bureaucrats in Annapolis.

yup, just check out the latest House Bill which further gets rid of part of the MD Education Code regarding class behavior. Those students who hang in the hallways missing class, can now hang in the classroom instead doing whatever it is they do all day besides learn. https://mgaleg.maryland.gov/2024RS/bills/hb/hb0615f.pdf?fbclid=IwAR1iaM76rX0dI-kcjsgZBpjKIMGlDa_kXp5ExGWQG43gR9mtwm8IZgHUyqM

Success in public school, much like success in most of life, depends mostly on parenting. Kids who hang in hallways missing class have parents who likely were also hanging in hallways missing class. Failures breed failures.

Please stop blaming parents. If my kid isn’t in class- should I quit my job and walk them to and from? Of course not. Im going to address it at home of course, but there’s very little I can do while they are in school. I don’t control the environment in the schools. We need to give schools the ability to give detentions/suspensions/etc over things like this. The kids know they can get away with it at school- which just undermines my ability to parent my child. So stop blaming us.

Research shows that consistent, gentle encouragement of students' doing their school work is actually the most effective. William
Jeynes conducted a lot of research on this issue, including the linked meta analysis. https://citeseerx.ist.psu.edu/document?repid=rep1&type=pdf&doi=04fef9140113dcf9ce3f5024d05cebc7904f5e12


If my kid didn't go to class and I was informed of it, that would be the last time it happened. You are a lazy parent if you think you influence ends at the front door.

So big gut, I mean guy tell us exactly what you would do if they refused to go?

DP but seriously! Is this a real question as a parent?
You mean to tell us that if your kids "refused to go" to school, you will just let them?
My goodness!

By middle school, some kids are larger than their parents. What would you do if physically resisted? Call the police?

I would remove every single enjoyable thing from their life until they learn to follow the rules. No nice clothes or shoes. No door on their bedroom. No enjoyable activities. Until they can behave in the community in a manner that positively reflects my family, their life is a miserable prison. If they want a good life, they earn it.

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Anonymous wrote:I missed this thread when it was originally posted and the Reddit post sounds about right. It is shocking how irresponsible mcps leadership is and how unconcerned they are about actual student learning.

I have to disagree. MCPS today seems as good as it ever was in terms of opportunity. I feel my kids today are getting a better education at our DCC school than I did at a W 30 years ago. The main difference is the county's demographics are different which largely impacts standardized test averages. My kids had a chance to go to CES, Eastern and RMIB. They're doing great because they are focused on getting the best possible education available. Today, fewer students value traditional education, and that's fine.

Better how? All I see is the school replacing enlightenment values with leftist ideology.

My experience suggests you're uninformed. Yes, the curriculum does take a broader view of the world than when I was a kid and is less Euro-centric, but that's hardly leftist. In fact, it seems better informed. Anyway, their overall grasp of mathematics, reading comprehension and foreign language skills are several years ahead of where I was at. I graduated from a W and went on to an Ivy back in the 90s. My children are far better prepared for college than I was.

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t think enough criticism or scrutiny is being aimed at MSDE. Some of these idiotic policies are being driven by equally idiotic demands, audits, arbitrary metrics, etc. from the bureaucrats in Annapolis.

yup, just check out the latest House Bill which further gets rid of part of the MD Education Code regarding class behavior. Those students who hang in the hallways missing class, can now hang in the classroom instead doing whatever it is they do all day besides learn. https://mgaleg.maryland.gov/2024RS/bills/hb/hb0615f.pdf?fbclid=IwAR1iaM76rX0dI-kcjsgZBpjKIMGlDa_kXp5ExGWQG43gR9mtwm8IZgHUyqM

Success in public school, much like success in most of life, depends mostly on parenting. Kids who hang in hallways missing class have parents who likely were also hanging in hallways missing class. Failures breed failures.

Please stop blaming parents. If my kid isn’t in class- should I quit my job and walk them to and from? Of course not. Im going to address it at home of course, but there’s very little I can do while they are in school. I don’t control the environment in the schools. We need to give schools the ability to give detentions/suspensions/etc over things like this. The kids know they can get away with it at school- which just undermines my ability to parent my child. So stop blaming us.

If my kid didn't go to class and I was informed of it, that would be the last time it happened. You are a lazy parent if you think you influence ends at the front door.

So big gut, I mean guy tell us exactly what you would do if they refused to go?

DP but seriously! Is this a real question as a parent?
You mean to tell us that if your kids "refused to go" to school, you will just let them?
My goodness!

By middle school, some kids are larger than their parents. What would you do if physically resisted? Call the police?

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t think enough criticism or scrutiny is being aimed at MSDE. Some of these idiotic policies are being driven by equally idiotic demands, audits, arbitrary metrics, etc. from the bureaucrats in Annapolis.

yup, just check out the latest House Bill which further gets rid of part of the MD Education Code regarding class behavior. Those students who hang in the hallways missing class, can now hang in the classroom instead doing whatever it is they do all day besides learn. https://mgaleg.maryland.gov/2024RS/bills/hb/hb0615f.pdf?fbclid=IwAR1iaM76rX0dI-kcjsgZBpjKIMGlDa_kXp5ExGWQG43gR9mtwm8IZgHUyqM

Success in public school, much like success in most of life, depends mostly on parenting. Kids who hang in hallways missing class have parents who likely were also hanging in hallways missing class. Failures breed failures.

Please stop blaming parents. If my kid isn’t in class- should I quit my job and walk them to and from? Of course not. Im going to address it at home of course, but there’s very little I can do while they are in school. I don’t control the environment in the schools. We need to give schools the ability to give detentions/suspensions/etc over things like this. The kids know they can get away with it at school- which just undermines my ability to parent my child. So stop blaming us.

If my kid didn't go to class and I was informed of it, that would be the last time it happened. You are a lazy parent if you think you influence ends at the front door.

So big gut, I mean guy tell us exactly what you would do if they refused to go?

DP but seriously! Is this a real question as a parent?
You mean to tell us that if your kids "refused to go" to school, you will just let them?
My goodness!

By middle school, some kids are larger than their parents. What would you do if physically resisted? Call the police?

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t think enough criticism or scrutiny is being aimed at MSDE. Some of these idiotic policies are being driven by equally idiotic demands, audits, arbitrary metrics, etc. from the bureaucrats in Annapolis.

yup, just check out the latest House Bill which further gets rid of part of the MD Education Code regarding class behavior. Those students who hang in the hallways missing class, can now hang in the classroom instead doing whatever it is they do all day besides learn. https://mgaleg.maryland.gov/2024RS/bills/hb/hb0615f.pdf?fbclid=IwAR1iaM76rX0dI-kcjsgZBpjKIMGlDa_kXp5ExGWQG43gR9mtwm8IZgHUyqM

Success in public school, much like success in most of life, depends mostly on parenting. Kids who hang in hallways missing class have parents who likely were also hanging in hallways missing class. Failures breed failures.

Please stop blaming parents. If my kid isn’t in class- should I quit my job and walk them to and from? Of course not. Im going to address it at home of course, but there’s very little I can do while they are in school. I don’t control the environment in the schools. We need to give schools the ability to give detentions/suspensions/etc over things like this. The kids know they can get away with it at school- which just undermines my ability to parent my child. So stop blaming us.

If my kid didn't go to class and I was informed of it, that would be the last time it happened. You are a lazy parent if you think you influence ends at the front door.

So big gut, I mean guy tell us exactly what you would do if they refused to go?

DP but seriously! Is this a real question as a parent?
You mean to tell us that if your kids "refused to go" to school, you will just let them?
My goodness!

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t think enough criticism or scrutiny is being aimed at MSDE. Some of these idiotic policies are being driven by equally idiotic demands, audits, arbitrary metrics, etc. from the bureaucrats in Annapolis.

yup, just check out the latest House Bill which further gets rid of part of the MD Education Code regarding class behavior. Those students who hang in the hallways missing class, can now hang in the classroom instead doing whatever it is they do all day besides learn. https://mgaleg.maryland.gov/2024RS/bills/hb/hb0615f.pdf?fbclid=IwAR1iaM76rX0dI-kcjsgZBpjKIMGlDa_kXp5ExGWQG43gR9mtwm8IZgHUyqM

Success in public school, much like success in most of life, depends mostly on parenting. Kids who hang in hallways missing class have parents who likely were also hanging in hallways missing class. Failures breed failures.

Please stop blaming parents. If my kid isn’t in class- should I quit my job and walk them to and from? Of course not. Im going to address it at home of course, but there’s very little I can do while they are in school. I don’t control the environment in the schools. We need to give schools the ability to give detentions/suspensions/etc over things like this. The kids know they can get away with it at school- which just undermines my ability to parent my child. So stop blaming us.

If my kid didn't go to class and I was informed of it, that would be the last time it happened. You are a lazy parent if you think you influence ends at the front door.

So big gut, I mean guy tell us exactly what you would do if they refused to go?

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t think enough criticism or scrutiny is being aimed at MSDE. Some of these idiotic policies are being driven by equally idiotic demands, audits, arbitrary metrics, etc. from the bureaucrats in Annapolis.

yup, just check out the latest House Bill which further gets rid of part of the MD Education Code regarding class behavior. Those students who hang in the hallways missing class, can now hang in the classroom instead doing whatever it is they do all day besides learn. https://mgaleg.maryland.gov/2024RS/bills/hb/hb0615f.pdf?fbclid=IwAR1iaM76rX0dI-kcjsgZBpjKIMGlDa_kXp5ExGWQG43gR9mtwm8IZgHUyqM

Success in public school, much like success in most of life, depends mostly on parenting. Kids who hang in hallways missing class have parents who likely were also hanging in hallways missing class. Failures breed failures.

Please stop blaming parents. If my kid isn’t in class- should I quit my job and walk them to and from? Of course not. Im going to address it at home of course, but there’s very little I can do while they are in school. I don’t control the environment in the schools. We need to give schools the ability to give detentions/suspensions/etc over things like this. The kids know they can get away with it at school- which just undermines my ability to parent my child. So stop blaming us.

If my kid didn't go to class and I was informed of it, that would be the last time it happened. You are a lazy parent if you think you influence ends at the front door.

So big gut, I mean guy tell us exactly what you would do if they refused to go?

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t think enough criticism or scrutiny is being aimed at MSDE. Some of these idiotic policies are being driven by equally idiotic demands, audits, arbitrary metrics, etc. from the bureaucrats in Annapolis.

yup, just check out the latest House Bill which further gets rid of part of the MD Education Code regarding class behavior. Those students who hang in the hallways missing class, can now hang in the classroom instead doing whatever it is they do all day besides learn. https://mgaleg.maryland.gov/2024RS/bills/hb/hb0615f.pdf?fbclid=IwAR1iaM76rX0dI-kcjsgZBpjKIMGlDa_kXp5ExGWQG43gR9mtwm8IZgHUyqM

Success in public school, much like success in most of life, depends mostly on parenting. Kids who hang in hallways missing class have parents who likely were also hanging in hallways missing class. Failures breed failures.

Please stop blaming parents. If my kid isn’t in class- should I quit my job and walk them to and from? Of course not. Im going to address it at home of course, but there’s very little I can do while they are in school. I don’t control the environment in the schools. We need to give schools the ability to give detentions/suspensions/etc over things like this. The kids know they can get away with it at school- which just undermines my ability to parent my child. So stop blaming us.

The real problem in schools today is lazy parents who expect the state to raise their kids. Parents need to instill some sense of self-respect and personal responsibility.


If my kid didn't go to class and I was informed of it, that would be the last time it happened. You are a lazy parent if you think you influence ends at the front door.

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t think enough criticism or scrutiny is being aimed at MSDE. Some of these idiotic policies are being driven by equally idiotic demands, audits, arbitrary metrics, etc. from the bureaucrats in Annapolis.

yup, just check out the latest House Bill which further gets rid of part of the MD Education Code regarding class behavior. Those students who hang in the hallways missing class, can now hang in the classroom instead doing whatever it is they do all day besides learn. https://mgaleg.maryland.gov/2024RS/bills/hb/hb0615f.pdf?fbclid=IwAR1iaM76rX0dI-kcjsgZBpjKIMGlDa_kXp5ExGWQG43gR9mtwm8IZgHUyqM

Success in public school, much like success in most of life, depends mostly on parenting. Kids who hang in hallways missing class have parents who likely were also hanging in hallways missing class. Failures breed failures.

Please stop blaming parents. If my kid isn’t in class- should I quit my job and walk them to and from? Of course not. Im going to address it at home of course, but there’s very little I can do while they are in school. I don’t control the environment in the schools. We need to give schools the ability to give detentions/suspensions/etc over things like this. The kids know they can get away with it at school- which just undermines my ability to parent my child. So stop blaming us.

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t think enough criticism or scrutiny is being aimed at MSDE. Some of these idiotic policies are being driven by equally idiotic demands, audits, arbitrary metrics, etc. from the bureaucrats in Annapolis.

yup, just check out the latest House Bill which further gets rid of part of the MD Education Code regarding class behavior. Those students who hang in the hallways missing class, can now hang in the classroom instead doing whatever it is they do all day besides learn. https://mgaleg.maryland.gov/2024RS/bills/hb/hb0615f.pdf?fbclid=IwAR1iaM76rX0dI-kcjsgZBpjKIMGlDa_kXp5ExGWQG43gR9mtwm8IZgHUyqM

Success in public school, much like success in most of life, depends mostly on parenting. Kids who hang in hallways missing class have parents who likely were also hanging in hallways missing class. Failures breed failures.

Please stop blaming parents. If my kid isn’t in class- should I quit my job and walk them to and from? Of course not. Im going to address it at home of course, but there’s very little I can do while they are in school. I don’t control the environment in the schools. We need to give schools the ability to give detentions/suspensions/etc over things like this. The kids know they can get away with it at school- which just undermines my ability to parent my child. So stop blaming us.

If my kid didn't go to class and I was informed of it, that would be the last time it happened. You are a lazy parent if you think you influence ends at the front door.