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Anonymous wrote:When my kid was little, there was no tutor. It was me and a book at night, or a phone app/game.

Yes, there are special opportunities if you have all the money in the world. Yes, life isn't fair. But either play the lottery or go work 10x harder finding your kid resources. And it's not like it's difficult. MCPS is advertising weekend tutoring, afterschool tutoring, free programs all the time. If you're kid isn't doing them, don't blame the school, don't blame the teachers, or the other parents.

Point the finger at yourself, because expending all your energy whining on this website ain't gonna do much.

I work two low-wage jobs just to provide and can't arrange for these things on my own. People with privilege just don't get it.

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Anonymous wrote:When my kid was little, there was no tutor. It was me and a book at night, or a phone app/game.

Yes, there are special opportunities if you have all the money in the world. Yes, life isn't fair. But either play the lottery or go work 10x harder finding your kid resources. And it's not like it's difficult. MCPS is advertising weekend tutoring, afterschool tutoring, free programs all the time. If you're kid isn't doing them, don't blame the school, don't blame the teachers, or the other parents.

Point the finger at yourself, because expending all your energy whining on this website ain't gonna do much.

I work two low-wage jobs just to provide and can't arrange for these things on my own. People with privilege just don't get it.

You had access to birth control and you could have decided not to have children. You have to own your choices, dear! People with privilege are very clear-eyed about the big picture so don't blame them.

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Not at all. Parents get the PTA they deserve. They are not entitled to anything. Want something for your school? Move your butt!

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Anonymous wrote:When my kid was little, there was no tutor. It was me and a book at night, or a phone app/game.

Yes, there are special opportunities if you have all the money in the world. Yes, life isn't fair. But either play the lottery or go work 10x harder finding your kid resources. And it's not like it's difficult. MCPS is advertising weekend tutoring, afterschool tutoring, free programs all the time. If you're kid isn't doing them, don't blame the school, don't blame the teachers, or the other parents.

Point the finger at yourself, because expending all your energy whining on this website ain't gonna do much.

I work two low-wage jobs just to provide and can't arrange for these things on my own. People with privilege just don't get it.

Anonymous wrote:When my kid was little, there was no tutor. It was me and a book at night, or a phone app/game.

Yes, there are special opportunities if you have all the money in the world. Yes, life isn't fair. But either play the lottery or go work 10x harder finding your kid resources. And it's not like it's difficult. MCPS is advertising weekend tutoring, afterschool tutoring, free programs all the time. If you're kid isn't doing them, don't blame the school, don't blame the teachers, or the other parents.

Point the finger at yourself, because expending all your energy whining on this website ain't gonna do much.

Anonymous wrote:

MCPS should mandate reporting of PTA and other external funding for schools, and use that info for budget planning. Parents are welcome to spend their money on their kids private education, but public schooling is not fee-for-service. Allocate the funds district wide or don't use the funds in the district.

So if a parent donates money to their school, you want the county to stop funding to that school and an equal amount? Wouldn’t that be like forcing a tuition payment?

MCPS should mandate reporting of PTA and other external funding for schools, and use that info for budget planning. Parents are welcome to spend their money on their kids private education, but public schooling is not fee-for-service. Allocate the funds district wide or don't use the funds in the district.

Anonymous wrote:After school tutoring should be outlawed

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Anonymous wrote:MCPS giving teachers money is completely separate from the PTA issue. MCPS should give teachers money, and do give a small amount in ordering, but more would be nice.

However, some of it is the PTA. Our PTA president the past few years did very little nor would let anyone else do anything but a few of her friends. There was a reason why things weren't getting done.

But, the teachers getting gift cards probably didn't get from the PTA but parents. If you have 30 kids giving $20 each, that adds up.

The point is MCPS should prohibit PTA from giving funds to any teachers. If all teachers dont have this access, none should. It's really not difficult to understand that classrooms in Bethesda don't look like classrooms in Gaithersburg. Parents in Bethesda supply teachers with more than they could ever dream of while other schools don't even have basic supplies. Again, MCPS is about equity. We aren't ALLOWED to ask parents to bring supplies, meanwhile, it is encouraged at other schools.

Why don't you figure out a system where everyone gets funds instead of stomping on the teachers that do?

Per usual, a person not listening on DCUM. Some schools are PROHIBITED from asking for supplies. Meanwhile, other schools can. It's an MCPS thing. Maybe listen to the people who are telling you it's a problem before posting because you just look like a fool.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:MCPS giving teachers money is completely separate from the PTA issue. MCPS should give teachers money, and do give a small amount in ordering, but more would be nice.

However, some of it is the PTA. Our PTA president the past few years did very little nor would let anyone else do anything but a few of her friends. There was a reason why things weren't getting done.

But, the teachers getting gift cards probably didn't get from the PTA but parents. If you have 30 kids giving $20 each, that adds up.

The point is MCPS should prohibit PTA from giving funds to any teachers. If all teachers dont have this access, none should. It's really not difficult to understand that classrooms in Bethesda don't look like classrooms in Gaithersburg. Parents in Bethesda supply teachers with more than they could ever dream of while other schools don't even have basic supplies. Again, MCPS is about equity. We aren't ALLOWED to ask parents to bring supplies, meanwhile, it is encouraged at other schools.

Why don't you figure out a system where everyone gets funds instead of stomping on the teachers that do?

Who is stomping on anyone? I'm more than happy for them. It isn't fair for the rest of the county which is the entire point of this post. No where in these posts did I degrade the teachers who are receiving things. It'd be nice if DCUM people could...read...with comprehension.

Life until fair. Wealthier schools will figure out other ways to get around your rule. Figure our a way to help the students at your school instead of taking away.