Anonymous
Post 05/01/2025 12:58     Subject: Re:Valor

Is ‘coach’ Dyl still receiving $ as a ‘director’???
Anonymous
Post 05/01/2025 12:57     Subject: Valor

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So is Valor's strategy to just...never post their coaching slate? Ever? Do the offer emails list the assigned coach at least? Nuts.


Wouldn't say it's their strategy. Go w/the simplest answer, when they don't say who the coach is assume they don't have one. Offer emails just say the team. Not ideal but is what it is and each year parents get upset and bow down to the pressure of travel soccer's dreaded 48 hours to commit and do it out of fear.

Where else other than travel sports, are you pressured to invest your money and time for not only your child, but you and the rest of your immediate family for a year without knowing who is even running the show? It's truly amazing how practicing in bright uniforms shape the perception of parent's to pay thousands while lowering their standards and expectations when it comes to spending this kind of money and more importantly, their time.


If you accept an offer, can you still leave? Will you just lose the first payment or are you on the hook to pay everything?


No. Not on the hook for everything just the initial amount to register. They want parents to think so but it's not true. If you decide to go elsewhere while saving the spot, it's your cost of protecting your options. All you need to do is provide written notice within 30 days. The 1 page agreement saying you're responsible for dues etc. is not enforceable if you do not receive services.
Anonymous
Post 05/01/2025 12:57     Subject: Valor

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Trolls and haters on here demonstrate every false arguments in the book. Gaslighting, straw man, partial truths, or outright lying and making up s**t.
a parent made claims her son made hs team and the crowd tries to refute and even ridicule her. After she proves it with photos she is attacked for identifying her son
This is why there are over 250 pages of crap. Just look at this one example alone. How many pages did trolls take up by trying to deny what she ultimately proved?


+1 These haters are probably parents disgruntled because their kids didn’t elevate to their own delusional expectation and also parents who have zero affiliation with Valor just stirring up imaginary controversies. They hate when their bs is called out.

To that mom who son made varsity- kudos to your son! Funny that several of those haters even admitted their kids didn’t make varsity so that’s why your story was not credible.


Both these posts have the exact same syntax as South Lakes mom.


Hilarious that you can validate the “straw man”.

She proved you wrong. So you turn the argument to I am her.


I'm honestly concerned for your mental health. Did you ask for your TMI posts to he removed?


I’m not her, so removing her post wouldn’t bother me whatsoever.
But also funny that you seem desperate to want any evidence of you being proven wrong to be removed.


NP-Why do you think there is just one person you are arguing with? Hundreds of people post here. I personally know nothing about boys HS soccer but don't think a parent should be posting here outing their kid. Its weird and creepy.

The problem here is someone posted something. Then the internet bullies came out in full force trying to discredit what was posted. The only way for that to be refuted was to pay too much identifiable information. And now that original poster is still being bullied this time for posting too much info. This should all stop. Trolls were wrong now leave this woman alone. I'm here to see more responses to offers having been sent out or not. With actual this year information not generalizations.


+1
I agree that she should not have posted anything identifying a minor. But let's be for real. She was bullied into it.

Now these same cowards continuously and anonymously going after her with other crap. Stories of getting a trip canceled (which someone else proved was a false accusation) or accusing her of posing as someone else. You cowards are just angry that you were proven wrong and were also exposed for being nothing but instigators for nonexistent controversies.
Anonymous
Post 05/01/2025 12:36     Subject: Valor

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Trolls and haters on here demonstrate every false arguments in the book. Gaslighting, straw man, partial truths, or outright lying and making up s**t.
a parent made claims her son made hs team and the crowd tries to refute and even ridicule her. After she proves it with photos she is attacked for identifying her son
This is why there are over 250 pages of crap. Just look at this one example alone. How many pages did trolls take up by trying to deny what she ultimately proved?


+1 These haters are probably parents disgruntled because their kids didn’t elevate to their own delusional expectation and also parents who have zero affiliation with Valor just stirring up imaginary controversies. They hate when their bs is called out.

To that mom who son made varsity- kudos to your son! Funny that several of those haters even admitted their kids didn’t make varsity so that’s why your story was not credible.


Both these posts have the exact same syntax as South Lakes mom.


Hilarious that you can validate the “straw man”.

She proved you wrong. So you turn the argument to I am her.


I'm honestly concerned for your mental health. Did you ask for your TMI posts to he removed?


I’m not her, so removing her post wouldn’t bother me whatsoever.
But also funny that you seem desperate to want any evidence of you being proven wrong to be removed.


NP-Why do you think there is just one person you are arguing with? Hundreds of people post here. I personally know nothing about boys HS soccer but don't think a parent should be posting here outing their kid. Its weird and creepy.

The problem here is someone posted something. Then the internet bullies came out in full force trying to discredit what was posted. The only way for that to be refuted was to pay too much identifiable information. And now that original poster is still being bullied this time for posting too much info. This should all stop. Trolls were wrong now leave this woman alone. I'm here to see more responses to offers having been sent out or not. With actual this year information not generalizations.
Anonymous
Post 05/01/2025 12:33     Subject: Valor

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Trolls and haters on here demonstrate every false arguments in the book. Gaslighting, straw man, partial truths, or outright lying and making up s**t.
a parent made claims her son made hs team and the crowd tries to refute and even ridicule her. After she proves it with photos she is attacked for identifying her son
This is why there are over 250 pages of crap. Just look at this one example alone. How many pages did trolls take up by trying to deny what she ultimately proved?


+1 These haters are probably parents disgruntled because their kids didn’t elevate to their own delusional expectation and also parents who have zero affiliation with Valor just stirring up imaginary controversies. They hate when their bs is called out.

To that mom who son made varsity- kudos to your son! Funny that several of those haters even admitted their kids didn’t make varsity so that’s why your story was not credible.


Both these posts have the exact same syntax as South Lakes mom.


Hilarious that you can validate the “straw man”.

She proved you wrong. So you turn the argument to I am her.


I'm honestly concerned for your mental health. Did you ask for your TMI posts to he removed?


I’m not her, so removing her post wouldn’t bother me whatsoever.
But also funny that you seem desperate to want any evidence of you being proven wrong to be removed.


NP-Why do you think there is just one person you are arguing with? Hundreds of people post here. I personally know nothing about boys HS soccer but don't think a parent should be posting here outing their kid. Its weird and creepy.
Anonymous
Post 05/01/2025 12:30     Subject: Valor

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Trolls and haters on here demonstrate every false arguments in the book. Gaslighting, straw man, partial truths, or outright lying and making up s**t.
a parent made claims her son made hs team and the crowd tries to refute and even ridicule her. After she proves it with photos she is attacked for identifying her son
This is why there are over 250 pages of crap. Just look at this one example alone. How many pages did trolls take up by trying to deny what she ultimately proved?


+1 These haters are probably parents disgruntled because their kids didn’t elevate to their own delusional expectation and also parents who have zero affiliation with Valor just stirring up imaginary controversies. They hate when their bs is called out.

To that mom who son made varsity- kudos to your son! Funny that several of those haters even admitted their kids didn’t make varsity so that’s why your story was not credible.


Both these posts have the exact same syntax as South Lakes mom.


Hilarious that you can validate the “straw man”.

She proved you wrong. So you turn the argument to I am her.


I'm honestly concerned for your mental health. Did you ask for your TMI posts to he removed?


I’m not her, so removing her post wouldn’t bother me whatsoever.
But also funny that you seem desperate to want any evidence of you being proven wrong to be removed.
Anonymous
Post 05/01/2025 12:18     Subject: Valor

I'm not sure they have made offers yet for any second teams. The first teams all have coaches.

Has anyone's kid received an offer for a second or lower team?
Anonymous
Post 05/01/2025 12:18     Subject: Valor

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Chiming in, my kid plays JV for SLHS. They have a few freshmen on Varsity but none played Valor.

What a bullsh!t story lol. Valor paid poster is SO bad at this I almost feel bad for him.


May want to check your facts or talk to your kid again (not the mom who posted)



WOW. I cannot believe you are on here claiming I am not telling the truth about my Freshman on SLHS Varsity who also plays for Valor. Please.

If YOU are telling the truth, that you do have a kid on the JV team, then I've fed your kid every week at the team dinners.
Please introduce yourself to me next game or event - no more home games (where you might have seen me during your son's JV game in concessions at just about every game), but I updated the SignUp Genius for next week's team dinner (have you signed up for Salads, Fruits, Veggies or Drinks yet??) so you can find me there.

In the meantime, there are plenty of public places you can check this out -- need a visual?

SLHS team pic. GKs -- the one on the Left is the Junior, Middle is the injured Senior, and my kid is the one on the Right, he's a Freshman.
https://southlakesathletics.net/teams/4554813/boys/soccer/varsity

Here's a picture of him at the Valor Gala that was made fun of earlier in this thread --
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=1050756207067212&set=pb.100063985277865.-2207520000&type=3

BTW - he's one of two (not a few) Freshman on the Varisty Team.








AYEEEYOOOOOOO somebody popped the cork on the BIG bottle of wine today. Posting pics and identifying info of underage kids is WILD!

Somebody come save this woman, she's had too much internet for today
Anonymous
Post 05/01/2025 12:18     Subject: Valor

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So is Valor's strategy to just...never post their coaching slate? Ever? Do the offer emails list the assigned coach at least? Nuts.


Wouldn't say it's their strategy. Go w/the simplest answer, when they don't say who the coach is assume they don't have one. Offer emails just say the team. Not ideal but is what it is and each year parents get upset and bow down to the pressure of travel soccer's dreaded 48 hours to commit and do it out of fear.

Where else other than travel sports, are you pressured to invest your money and time for not only your child, but you and the rest of your immediate family for a year without knowing who is even running the show? It's truly amazing how practicing in bright uniforms shape the perception of parent's to pay thousands while lowering their standards and expectations when it comes to spending this kind of money and more importantly, their time.


If you accept an offer, can you still leave? Will you just lose the first payment or are you on the hook to pay everything?
Anonymous
Post 05/01/2025 12:13     Subject: Valor

Anonymous wrote:So is Valor's strategy to just...never post their coaching slate? Ever? Do the offer emails list the assigned coach at least? Nuts.


Wouldn't say it's their strategy. Go w/the simplest answer, when they don't say who the coach is assume they don't have one. Offer emails just say the team. Not ideal but is what it is and each year parents get upset and bow down to the pressure of travel soccer's dreaded 48 hours to commit and do it out of fear.

Where else other than travel sports, are you pressured to invest your money and time for not only your child, but you and the rest of your immediate family for a year without knowing who is even running the show? It's truly amazing how practicing in bright uniforms shape the perception of parent's to pay thousands while lowering their standards and expectations when it comes to spending this kind of money and more importantly, their time.
Anonymous
Post 05/01/2025 12:06     Subject: Valor

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Trolls and haters on here demonstrate every false arguments in the book. Gaslighting, straw man, partial truths, or outright lying and making up s**t.
a parent made claims her son made hs team and the crowd tries to refute and even ridicule her. After she proves it with photos she is attacked for identifying her son
This is why there are over 250 pages of crap. Just look at this one example alone. How many pages did trolls take up by trying to deny what she ultimately proved?


+1 These haters are probably parents disgruntled because their kids didn’t elevate to their own delusional expectation and also parents who have zero affiliation with Valor just stirring up imaginary controversies. They hate when their bs is called out.

To that mom who son made varsity- kudos to your son! Funny that several of those haters even admitted their kids didn’t make varsity so that’s why your story was not credible.


Both these posts have the exact same syntax as South Lakes mom.


Hilarious that you can validate the “straw man”.

She proved you wrong. So you turn the argument to I am her.


I'm honestly concerned for your mental health. Did you ask for your TMI posts to he removed?
Anonymous
Post 05/01/2025 11:49     Subject: Valor

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Trolls and haters on here demonstrate every false arguments in the book. Gaslighting, straw man, partial truths, or outright lying and making up s**t.
a parent made claims her son made hs team and the crowd tries to refute and even ridicule her. After she proves it with photos she is attacked for identifying her son
This is why there are over 250 pages of crap. Just look at this one example alone. How many pages did trolls take up by trying to deny what she ultimately proved?


+1 These haters are probably parents disgruntled because their kids didn’t elevate to their own delusional expectation and also parents who have zero affiliation with Valor just stirring up imaginary controversies. They hate when their bs is called out.

To that mom who son made varsity- kudos to your son! Funny that several of those haters even admitted their kids didn’t make varsity so that’s why your story was not credible.


Both these posts have the exact same syntax as South Lakes mom.


Hilarious that you can validate the “straw man”.

She proved you wrong. So you turn the argument to I am her.
Anonymous
Post 05/01/2025 11:38     Subject: Valor

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Trolls and haters on here demonstrate every false arguments in the book. Gaslighting, straw man, partial truths, or outright lying and making up s**t.
a parent made claims her son made hs team and the crowd tries to refute and even ridicule her. After she proves it with photos she is attacked for identifying her son
This is why there are over 250 pages of crap. Just look at this one example alone. How many pages did trolls take up by trying to deny what she ultimately proved?


+1 These haters are probably parents disgruntled because their kids didn’t elevate to their own delusional expectation and also parents who have zero affiliation with Valor just stirring up imaginary controversies. They hate when their bs is called out.

To that mom who son made varsity- kudos to your son! Funny that several of those haters even admitted their kids didn’t make varsity so that’s why your story was not credible.


Both these posts have the exact same syntax as South Lakes mom.
Anonymous
Post 05/01/2025 11:36     Subject: Valor

Anonymous wrote:Trolls and haters on here demonstrate every false arguments in the book. Gaslighting, straw man, partial truths, or outright lying and making up s**t.
a parent made claims her son made hs team and the crowd tries to refute and even ridicule her. After she proves it with photos she is attacked for identifying her son
This is why there are over 250 pages of crap. Just look at this one example alone. How many pages did trolls take up by trying to deny what she ultimately proved?


+1 These haters are probably parents disgruntled because their kids didn’t elevate to their own delusional expectation and also parents who have zero affiliation with Valor just stirring up imaginary controversies. They hate when their bs is called out.

To that mom who son made varsity- kudos to your son! Funny that several of those haters even admitted their kids didn’t make varsity so that’s why your story was not credible.
Anonymous
Post 05/01/2025 11:25     Subject: Valor

So is Valor's strategy to just...never post their coaching slate? Ever? Do the offer emails list the assigned coach at least? Nuts.