Anonymous wrote:It is funny people get so wound up about college at all. Especially when you, DP, do not even go, it is your child that is the student. It is sad to see parents who have no self worth, emotional intelligence, maturity, or identity beyond their child and the college they attend. It is trite and pathetic. Do what is right for them not your ego, or the social status cache you think it is. If it is Amherst they want, so be it. If it is UVA, so be it. No one cares where your DC goes to school and very few people care about you either.
And why does that matter so much to you? Most schools are irrelevant, so might as well go to one where you may be happyAnonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Nobody outside of these forums knows what wasp means. Actually most people thinks it means white Anglo Saxon Protestant. Maybe some wannabe elites in nyc, Boston, and Philly do. You tell the average person your considering Amherst and they’ll think you mean umass.
That’s what I thought too and I’m from the DMV.
Well known for the last 50 or 60 years at least. Your lack of knowledge isa likely because of the poor education that you received at a public.
Don’t get all huffy when people have no clue where your child went to school.
Anonymous wrote:Can’t believe people pay 95-100k to go to these obscure schools. Ivy Plus yes but these Podunk schools aren’t HYP, Duke, or Stanford.
Anonymous wrote:Those schools are safe havens for kids that are full pay from private/ boarding schools. Very little diversity at those schools.
Anonymous wrote:Only Williams and Amherst have any cache. Perhaps upward mobility of Bowdoin. The rest of the NESCAC is on a long slow decline.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:A few lucky should might pick up a bit of education as well if they can get out of their own biases.
Where did you go to school? People in glass houses…
Anonymous wrote:I don’t consider them Ivy-tier signaling because folks on the West Coast are not familiar with all of them. They don’t have national recognition.
Anonymous wrote:A few lucky should might pick up a bit of education as well if they can get out of their own biases.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Given the easily verified points above it is unfortunate that more people don't know about them, their kids would be better served if they did, especially the kids getting gutted by 'weed out' classes at larger schools.
Things will be just fine if you can stop craving validation that isn’t coming.