Anonymous
Post 06/25/2021 09:01     Subject: Click here for Bad Advice
Anonymous wrote:My 5yo DD wants a 2 piece Elsa swimsuit. However, I’m afraid people will mistake the swimsuit for a bra & underwear, especially since we all know what Elsa’s songs are REALLY about. Show Yourself? Into the Unknown? LET IT GO???!!! I’m onto you, you Nordic Nympho.

How can I convince DD to wear a perfectly nice, age-appropriate, full length Scuba Suit? I know most little girls don’t like black, but I even said she could get the one with pink racing stripes down the sides. She says none of her friends have to wear one, my reply is well their mommies must not love them very much and want them to be kidnapped. Now she’s in her room crying. What do I do?


Weigh down her ankles with doughnuts. If she can't move, then she can't take off the scuba gear. Then the electroshock therapy.
Anonymous
Post 06/25/2021 08:59     Subject: Click here for Bad Advice
My 5yo DD wants a 2 piece Elsa swimsuit. However, I’m afraid people will mistake the swimsuit for a bra & underwear, especially since we all know what Elsa’s songs are REALLY about. Show Yourself? Into the Unknown? LET IT GO???!!! I’m onto you, you Nordic Nympho.

How can I convince DD to wear a perfectly nice, age-appropriate, full length Scuba Suit? I know most little girls don’t like black, but I even said she could get the one with pink racing stripes down the sides. She says none of her friends have to wear one, my reply is well their mommies must not love them very much and want them to be kidnapped. Now she’s in her room crying. What do I do?
Anonymous
Post 06/25/2021 08:58     Subject: Click here for Bad Advice
Anonymous wrote:My fwb wants to get together, but I am embarrassed because "down there" has become a tangled jungle.

What do I do?


Needs more toucans. Accessorize.
Anonymous
Post 06/25/2021 08:57     Subject: Click here for Bad Advice
Anonymous wrote:Best way to say no?


With your mouth.
Anonymous
Post 06/25/2021 08:52     Subject: Click here for Bad Advice
At the pool kids keep splashing me and my Twilight series books. How do I get them to stop doing cannonballs?
Anonymous
Post 06/25/2021 08:49     Subject: Click here for Bad Advice
My fwb wants to get together, but I am embarrassed because "down there" has become a tangled jungle.

What do I do?
Anonymous
Post 06/25/2021 08:44     Subject: Re:Click here for Bad Advice
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I want to make time for my friends but have no energy for it right now. What should I say to them?


"You matter to me, but I just can't be bothered."



Are your friends UMC? Strivers? Are their children in AAP? Did you go to a SLAC? Are you an Executive? What is your relationship like with your MIL?

Can’t help unless I know the answers!
Anonymous
Post 06/25/2021 08:34     Subject: Re:Click here for Bad Advice
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I want to make time for my friends but have no energy for it right now. What should I say to them?


"You matter to me, but I just can't be bothered."

Anonymous
Post 06/25/2021 08:33     Subject: Re:Click here for Bad Advice
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I want to make time for my friends but have no energy for it right now. What should I say to them?


"You matter to me, but I just can't be bothered."

Anonymous
Post 06/24/2021 23:55     Subject: Re:Click here for Bad Advice
Anonymous wrote:My 10 year old wants an allowance. I don’t want to spend money on that. What’s an easy way for her to get money on her own?


Well certainly don’t ask the step dad she just met 4 years ago!
Anonymous
Post 06/24/2021 23:48     Subject: Re:Click here for Bad Advice
My 10 year old wants an allowance. I don’t want to spend money on that. What’s an easy way for her to get money on her own?
Anonymous
Post 06/24/2021 23:20     Subject: Click here for Bad Advice
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My friend's DS stabbed my son in the leg with a screwdriver because he wanted the other color Switch controller and then set fire to our couch while laughing. Should I tell my friend about this behavior? What is a good way to word it? I'm not sure I want him coming over so much any more. But this is so awkward!


See this is why I also say you shouldn’t be offering so much food and encouraging snacking behavior.


The kids was probably fed popsicles as a toddler.


That age isn’t a toddler it’s a preschooler.
Anonymous
Post 06/24/2021 22:54     Subject: Click here for Bad Advice
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My friend's DS stabbed my son in the leg with a screwdriver because he wanted the other color Switch controller and then set fire to our couch while laughing. Should I tell my friend about this behavior? What is a good way to word it? I'm not sure I want him coming over so much any more. But this is so awkward!


See this is why I also say you shouldn’t be offering so much food and encouraging snacking behavior.


The kids was probably fed popsicles as a toddler.
Anonymous
Post 06/24/2021 22:34     Subject: Click here for Bad Advice
Anonymous wrote:My friend's DS stabbed my son in the leg with a screwdriver because he wanted the other color Switch controller and then set fire to our couch while laughing. Should I tell my friend about this behavior? What is a good way to word it? I'm not sure I want him coming over so much any more. But this is so awkward!


See this is why I also say you shouldn’t be offering so much food and encouraging snacking behavior.
Anonymous
Post 06/24/2021 22:22     Subject: Click here for Bad Advice
Anonymous wrote:My friend's DS stabbed my son in the leg with a screwdriver because he wanted the other color Switch controller and then set fire to our couch while laughing. Should I tell my friend about this behavior? What is a good way to word it? I'm not sure I want him coming over so much any more. But this is so awkward!


If you tell your SAHM friend, who will carpool Larlo to the camp they both attend?