Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Provided that the girls sent their photos voluntarily...I am saddened to hear such a strident boy vs. girl argument here.
Both are equally at fault and both are equally stupid. Anyone with half a brain in their head in this day and age of technology knows how quickly and viciously information can be disseminated.
What the boys did was most definitely wrong, and what the girls did equally so. Both are to blame, both need to equally bear the consequences of their actions. Both will hopefully learn from their stupidity and we can only hope that the rest of the boys/girls out there will finally learn to think twice - we all know this is not the first of these occurrances - so no more excuses!
Why is that so difficult? I knew 15 years ago not to allow nude photos to be taken of me with an archaic 35mm.
If the girls were drugged/drunk/spy cammed, etc. - well, that is an entirely separate issue and in that situation they would most certainly not be to blame in any way and I doubt anyone would argue the contrary.
Ah, the voice of sanity. Very nicely written, thanks.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:http://www.washingtonpost.com/local/crime/mclean-high-sophomore-behind-underage-porn-photos-police-say/2014/05/16/decaf752-dd2b-11e3-b745-87d39690c5c0_story.html?wprss=rss_local
Things like this are becoming more and more common. Our schools and parents need to work harder to educate kids on things that can land you on the sex offender registry for life.
No, our parents need to work harder to teach boys what it means to have respect for women and to teach girls what it means to have respect for themselves and their bodies (If any of these girls knowingly allowed nude or explicit pictures to be taken of them. It's a big if and I hope they did not). OP, if the only problem you see is some of these kids being on a sex registry shame on you. The boys' names, especially the 18 year old, will come out and that does not bother me in the least.
The pics were "posed" according to police report. I don't know how you unintentionally pose. Or accidentally post your nude pose. But believe what you will.
Few kids have a parent at home. What do you expect?
What on earth? Why are you obsessed with a "parent at home?" You've raised it several times. You are clearly trolling for a SAHM/WOHM debate. Thank God no one is taking your obvious bait.
Anonymous wrote:Provided that the girls sent their photos voluntarily...I am saddened to hear such a strident boy vs. girl argument here.
Both are equally at fault and both are equally stupid. Anyone with half a brain in their head in this day and age of technology knows how quickly and viciously information can be disseminated.
What the boys did was most definitely wrong, and what the girls did equally so. Both are to blame, both need to equally bear the consequences of their actions. Both will hopefully learn from their stupidity and we can only hope that the rest of the boys/girls out there will finally learn to think twice - we all know this is not the first of these occurrances - so no more excuses!
Why is that so difficult? I knew 15 years ago not to allow nude photos to be taken of me with an archaic 35mm.
If the girls were drugged/drunk/spy cammed, etc. - well, that is an entirely separate issue and in that situation they would most certainly not be to blame in any way and I doubt anyone would argue the contrary.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:There are quite a few posts that indicate that taking pictures of oneself is equivalent to collecting the pictures of other children and forming a website to allow others to view them. Other posts place the blame on the kids who possibly took their own pictures and imply that it is their fault that the other kids created a website.
While there may be a few posts like this, most of the posts that focused on the girls were as a result of people saying they placed no blame at all on the girl, which I totally disagree with. I definitely don't think the boys should get a pass at all. I'm just appalled by those posters who think it's ok for girls to send porn to other minors. I don't want my child being the recipient of any pictures like this and think the girls need to be held accountable or they and others will keep doing this. Just because the boys are more wrong doesn't mean what the girls did wasn't also unacceptable and in fact criminal.
I'm not seeing the posts that say it's okay to send porn, I just keep seeing the ones saying that the children who took their own individual pictures have the same amount of culpability as the young people who collected and labeled the pictures, put them on a website, and sent out links to others to view. I also see posts using demeaning terminology to describe the children whose pictures are in the folders on the site.
I see that you are in fact acknowledging that the site creators have more moral culpability, but other posts have not. If it is true that children took their own pictures, I suspect that the fallout from this incident will be a deterrent.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:http://www.washingtonpost.com/local/crime/mclean-high-sophomore-behind-underage-porn-photos-police-say/2014/05/16/decaf752-dd2b-11e3-b745-87d39690c5c0_story.html?wprss=rss_local
Things like this are becoming more and more common. Our schools and parents need to work harder to educate kids on things that can land you on the sex offender registry for life.
No, our parents need to work harder to teach boys what it means to have respect for women and to teach girls what it means to have respect for themselves and their bodies (If any of these girls knowingly allowed nude or explicit pictures to be taken of them. It's a big if and I hope they did not). OP, if the only problem you see is some of these kids being on a sex registry shame on you. The boys' names, especially the 18 year old, will come out and that does not bother me in the least.
The pics were "posed" according to police report. I don't know how you unintentionally pose. Or accidentally post your nude pose. But believe what you will.
Few kids have a parent at home. What do you expect?