Anonymous
Post 04/12/2024 11:20     Subject: Re:Why do some women think it's acceptable to get engaged without a ring?
30 years ago I got engaged without a ring - so did 2 of my friends. All three of our husbands were in grad school at the time. We all got rings later on - but it wasn't a big deal for any of us and we are all still happy and living pretty great lives ...I know many with big rings that cannot say the same. Maybe we just got married for the right reasons....
Anonymous
Post 04/12/2024 11:11     Subject: Re:Why do some women think it's acceptable to get engaged without a ring?

Hey, OP, my DH proposed with THREE rings all at once! You'd be delighted! -- The fact that these three rings came out of a 25-cent vending machine doesn't matter to you, right? Because, RINGS!

[True story.]
Anonymous
Post 04/11/2024 22:43     Subject: Why do some women think it's acceptable to get engaged without a ring?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think being able to afford a ring is a good indicator of whether you will be able to manage and afford other important milestones like a wedding, a house, a child, a retirement. The cost of each of these things ratchets up almost exponentially. If you can’t cross the first hurdle you both need to up your game and plan better until you can.


I think anyone not blowing thousands on a ring or wedding is an indicator of good judgement necessary to build generational wealth.


Lol, no.
Anonymous
Post 04/11/2024 22:19     Subject: Why do some women think it's acceptable to get engaged without a ring?
I think OP should ask these women and report back
Anonymous
Post 04/11/2024 22:11     Subject: Why do some women think it's acceptable to get engaged without a ring?
Anonymous wrote:My sister and another friend got "engaged" recently. None of them had rings and in the case of my sister, there was not even a proposal, just her and the guy agreeing on a date to get married later this year. I feel like it sets the bar very low for their partners and it's not something women should be ok with. My husband too popped the question without one and it felt incredibly informal, as if he wasn't serious about getting married. I told him that a ring was important to me and he popped the question again a week later with a ring.

A ring doesn't even need to be expensive, there are many cute rings for less than $500. It's the symbolism behind it that's important. It doesn't seem that my friend and sister are being taken seriously by their men, but they look like they're ok with it which is baffling. Women should stop pretending to be cool girls and set higher standards for their partners.


To piss you off. They are doing it to piss you off. No other reason.
Anonymous
Post 04/11/2024 21:47     Subject: Why do some women think it's acceptable to get engaged without a ring?
Who's worse: the engagement ring people or the God people?
Anonymous
Post 04/11/2024 20:01     Subject: Why do some women think it's acceptable to get engaged without a ring?
Anonymous wrote:My sister and another friend got "engaged" recently. None of them had rings and in the case of my sister, there was not even a proposal, just her and the guy agreeing on a date to get married later this year. I feel like it sets the bar very low for their partners and it's not something women should be ok with. My husband too popped the question without one and it felt incredibly informal, as if he wasn't serious about getting married. I told him that a ring was important to me and he popped the question again a week later with a ring.

A ring doesn't even need to be expensive, there are many cute rings for less than $500. It's the symbolism behind it that's important. It doesn't seem that my friend and sister are being taken seriously by their men, but they look like they're ok with it which is baffling. Women should stop pretending to be cool girls and set higher standards for their partners.


I’m a woman who is in a great marriage for many years now. My husband did not propose with a ring and neither of us wear them. A ring has nothing to do with high standards for a partner. Grow up.
Anonymous
Post 04/11/2024 19:58     Subject: Why do some women think it's acceptable to get engaged without a ring?
I don't like jewelry. So even though I got an engagement ring, I never wore it. We had cheap rings for the ceremony, but neither of us has worn them since.
Anonymous
Post 04/11/2024 19:49     Subject: Why do some women think it's acceptable to get engaged without a ring?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think all women want a ring deep down. They just settle for no ring.


I think you're projecting.


+1
Anonymous
Post 04/11/2024 17:58     Subject: Why do some women think it's acceptable to get engaged without a ring?
Anonymous wrote:I think all women want a ring deep down. They just settle for no ring.


I do have a ring…it’s my wedding band.