Anonymous wrote:Labeling public concern over this situation as “defamation” is not only inaccurate, it’s deeply troubling. We’re talking about allegations against Michelle Alioto of sexual harassment and abuse of power. The law is very clear: such allegations must be reported to SafeSport and the appropriate authorities, not buried or downplayed.
If a club Executive Director, Greg Andrulis, failed to report these issues, failed to inform families, and attempted to manage this internally (brushing under the rug) that’s not just unethical, it may be a violation of federal SafeSport regulations and the club’s own duty of care.
Let’s stop mischaracterizing efforts to seek transparency and accountability as “defamation.” This is about the protection of minors and institutional responsibility and that should never be up for debate.
Anonymous wrote:Labeling public concern over this situation as “defamation” is not only inaccurate, it’s deeply troubling. We’re talking about allegations against Michelle Alioto of sexual harassment and abuse of power. The law is very clear: such allegations must be reported to SafeSport and the appropriate authorities, not buried or downplayed.
If a club Executive Director, Greg Andrulis, failed to report these issues, failed to inform families, and attempted to manage this internally (brushing under the rug) that’s not just unethical, it may be a violation of federal SafeSport regulations and the club’s own duty of care.
Let’s stop mischaracterizing efforts to seek transparency and accountability as “defamation.” This is about the protection of minors and institutional responsibility and that should never be up for debate.
Anonymous wrote:Regardless of what may have happened between them, Tom’s email to the families negatively impacted Michelle’s reputation.
Anonymous wrote:TThis entire situation stems from Greg A.'s lack of proper management, attempting to conceal it due to his personal relationship with the CXO. This information has been publicly known for years, dating back to his time at the Herndon soccer club. The CXO's resume lacks any credibility as a chief executive or assistant to the ED. The incident should have been reported to safesport by TW since the ED failed to do so. Had this been done, there would have been investigations and individuals would have been interviewed. The president of the club lacks the courage to take any action to address this issue. It is certain that if it were TomW involved, the ED would have been on channel 4 news boasting about his commitment to women and equality. There are numerous respectable families in DCSC who deserve better than this. Perhaps when DW (the club president), son, graduates, he will take action. However, I highly doubt it!
Anonymous wrote:I don’t even see a VP listed on the DCSC website. Who intervened to put their kid on the team?
Anonymous wrote:As a parent, I wanted to share our recent experience. My son currently plays for the 2010 Boys BSC team but also tried out for the DCSC team, which we understand is considered a stronger group. The coach was very encouraging and expressed interest in my son, but also mentioned he was planning to leave the club. He shared concerns about the actions of the current Vice President.
According to the coach, one board member whose child was on the team ended up removing their child from both the team and the club after the VP reportedly intervened to place his own child on the top team. We also heard that several other families made similar decisions or voiced concerns over that situation.
The coach also mentioned that this particular team is now on its fifth coach in less than two years, which raised some red flags for us in terms of stability and continuity.
For now, we’ve decided to stay with BSC and will reevaluate our options for next year.
Anonymous wrote:As a parent, I wanted to share our recent experience. My son currently plays for the 2010 Boys BSC team but also tried out for the DCSC team, which we understand is considered a stronger group. The coach was very encouraging and expressed interest in my son, but also mentioned he was planning to leave the club. He shared concerns about the actions of the current Vice President.
According to the coach, one board member whose child was on the team ended up removing their child from both the team and the club after the VP reportedly intervened to place his own child on the top team. We also heard that several other families made similar decisions or voiced concerns over that situation.
The coach also mentioned that this particular team is now on its fifth coach in less than two years, which raised some red flags for us in terms of stability and continuity.
For now, we’ve decided to stay with BSC and will reevaluate our options for next year.