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Less about the career, more about the woman’s mind and character. Making conversation with a bimbo every day for the rest of your life is going to get old.

LOL no. “Muh stimulating conversation” is just a gigantic cope by not-hot women and men who could not pull hot women.

Ask some guy “would you rather have a Deep and Meaningful Conversation with Plain Jane or smash a hot airhead” and he’ll say smash every time.

Though I guess most DCUM men better marry someone who’s good at conversation because after a few years she’ll stop having sex with him and muh stimulating conversation is all he has left.

You do realize women can be both attractive and intelligent, right? Right??

Physical attributes fade with time.

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Less about the career, more about the woman’s mind and character. Making conversation with a bimbo every day for the rest of your life is going to get old.

LOL no. “Muh stimulating conversation” is just a gigantic cope by not-hot women and men who could not pull hot women.

Ask some guy “would you rather have a Deep and Meaningful Conversation with Plain Jane or smash a hot airhead” and he’ll say smash every time.

Though I guess most DCUM men better marry someone who’s good at conversation because after a few years she’ll stop having sex with him and muh stimulating conversation is all he has left.

You do realize women can be both attractive and intelligent, right? Right??

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Anonymous wrote:Combined HHI is around $700k. My husband isn’t going to live a $450K lifestyle just for the privilege of “not caring” about my career. Adequate HHI means outsourcing a lot of the points of tension in a dual-income relationship.

Sure..but your husband isn't high income..enough. Most couples fall in the middle and need dual incoms to live a "$700 K lifestyle". In that case, a woman's career matters. If your DH made 700K by himself this wouldn't matter.

Unless he or the family wanted to live a $950K lifestyle. It’s all about how people want to live. Even in DC there are people who make it work on $450k if that’s how they want to live.

Sure there’s lifestyle creep, but at a certain point if a family is comfortable priorities switch to other things rather than money. Private school is going to be a stretch still at $450k for two kids unless you want to cut back on other umc luxuries like travel.

Which still concludes that at the top 2% by income for the country, men care about women's careers.

Sorry you didn't marry rich enough.

There isn’t rich enough for me to give up my career, I love what I do. I would quickly give up a husband who didn’t support it, though.

What you don’t understand is at that high income level your husband supports whatever you want. You want to work, great. You want to do a hobby, great. You want to spend time with your children, great. But does he care what you do as long as you guys get along, no.

Funny because both the founder of Facebook and George Clooney both speak publically about how important their wives careers are. They’d be surprised to find out some random internet man considers that a mark of low-income.

Clooney in particular had a fairly wide selection of attractive partners before marrying a human rights lawyer…

DP oh okay. Clooney could careless about his wife’s career. He is just being nice. You really think George Clooney is checking his wife’s calendar when he wants to go to Cannes film festival or take off to the Seychelles for a month? No. She is now the “cofounder” of Clooney Foundation for Justice. How often do you think she shows up at the foundation?

In 2017 he sold his tequila company for 1 billion dollars. If Amal brought in 800k a year it would be a rounding error and she would have to work 80 hour weeks because she is a lawyer. No she does nit have a meaningful career other then George Clooney wife.

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Anonymous wrote:Combined HHI is around $700k. My husband isn’t going to live a $450K lifestyle just for the privilege of “not caring” about my career. Adequate HHI means outsourcing a lot of the points of tension in a dual-income relationship.

Sure..but your husband isn't high income..enough. Most couples fall in the middle and need dual incoms to live a "$700 K lifestyle". In that case, a woman's career matters. If your DH made 700K by himself this wouldn't matter.

Unless he or the family wanted to live a $950K lifestyle. It’s all about how people want to live. Even in DC there are people who make it work on $450k if that’s how they want to live.

Sure there’s lifestyle creep, but at a certain point if a family is comfortable priorities switch to other things rather than money. Private school is going to be a stretch still at $450k for two kids unless you want to cut back on other umc luxuries like travel.

Which still concludes that at the top 2% by income for the country, men care about women's careers.

Sorry you didn't marry rich enough.

There isn’t rich enough for me to give up my career, I love what I do. I would quickly give up a husband who didn’t support it, though.

What you don’t understand is at that high income level your husband supports whatever you want. You want to work, great. You want to do a hobby, great. You want to spend time with your children, great. But does he care what you do as long as you guys get along, no.

Funny because both the founder of Facebook and George Clooney both speak publically about how important their wives careers are. They’d be surprised to find out some random internet man considers that a mark of low-income.

Clooney in particular had a fairly wide selection of attractive partners before marrying a human rights lawyer…

Which man has the balls to say he doesn't? They'll be cancelled in before their video goes viral.

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Anonymous wrote:Combined HHI is around $700k. My husband isn’t going to live a $450K lifestyle just for the privilege of “not caring” about my career. Adequate HHI means outsourcing a lot of the points of tension in a dual-income relationship.

Sure..but your husband isn't high income..enough. Most couples fall in the middle and need dual incoms to live a "$700 K lifestyle". In that case, a woman's career matters. If your DH made 700K by himself this wouldn't matter.

Unless he or the family wanted to live a $950K lifestyle. It’s all about how people want to live. Even in DC there are people who make it work on $450k if that’s how they want to live.

Sure there’s lifestyle creep, but at a certain point if a family is comfortable priorities switch to other things rather than money. Private school is going to be a stretch still at $450k for two kids unless you want to cut back on other umc luxuries like travel.

Which still concludes that at the top 2% by income for the country, men care about women's careers.

Sorry you didn't marry rich enough.

There isn’t rich enough for me to give up my career, I love what I do. I would quickly give up a husband who didn’t support it, though.

What you don’t understand is at that high income level your husband supports whatever you want. You want to work, great. You want to do a hobby, great. You want to spend time with your children, great. But does he care what you do as long as you guys get along, no.

Funny because both the founder of Facebook and George Clooney both speak publically about how important their wives careers are. They’d be surprised to find out some random internet man considers that a mark of low-income.

Clooney in particular had a fairly wide selection of attractive partners before marrying a human rights lawyer…

Clooney got beauty and brains. If she was ugly as sin and not as exotic he won't look twice at her. Priscilla Chan got to Zuckerberg and an iron clad prenup before he hit it rich. There's history there. If Amal Clooney and Priscilla Chan decide to take a sabbatical for the next five years their husbands won't blink twice. Oh wait, note that Priscilla Chan is now a philanthropist and a "former pediatrician".

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Anonymous wrote:Combined HHI is around $700k. My husband isn’t going to live a $450K lifestyle just for the privilege of “not caring” about my career. Adequate HHI means outsourcing a lot of the points of tension in a dual-income relationship.

Sure..but your husband isn't high income..enough. Most couples fall in the middle and need dual incoms to live a "$700 K lifestyle". In that case, a woman's career matters. If your DH made 700K by himself this wouldn't matter.

Unless he or the family wanted to live a $950K lifestyle. It’s all about how people want to live. Even in DC there are people who make it work on $450k if that’s how they want to live.

Sure there’s lifestyle creep, but at a certain point if a family is comfortable priorities switch to other things rather than money. Private school is going to be a stretch still at $450k for two kids unless you want to cut back on other umc luxuries like travel.

Which still concludes that at the top 2% by income for the country, men care about women's careers.

Sorry you didn't marry rich enough.

There isn’t rich enough for me to give up my career, I love what I do. I would quickly give up a husband who didn’t support it, though.

What you don’t understand is at that high income level your husband supports whatever you want. You want to work, great. You want to do a hobby, great. You want to spend time with your children, great. But does he care what you do as long as you guys get along, no.

Funny because both the founder of Facebook and George Clooney both speak publically about how important their wives careers are. They’d be surprised to find out some random internet man considers that a mark of low-income.

Clooney in particular had a fairly wide selection of attractive partners before marrying a human rights lawyer…

Clooney got beauty and brains. If she was ugly as sin and not as exotic he won't look twice at her. Priscilla Chan got to Zuckerberg and an iron clad prenup before he hit it rich. There's history there. If Amal Clooney and Priscilla Chan decide to take a sabbatical for the next five years their husbands won't blink twice. Oh wait, note that Priscilla Chan is now a philanthropist and a "former pediatrician".

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Anonymous wrote:Combined HHI is around $700k. My husband isn’t going to live a $450K lifestyle just for the privilege of “not caring” about my career. Adequate HHI means outsourcing a lot of the points of tension in a dual-income relationship.

Sure..but your husband isn't high income..enough. Most couples fall in the middle and need dual incoms to live a "$700 K lifestyle". In that case, a woman's career matters. If your DH made 700K by himself this wouldn't matter.

Unless he or the family wanted to live a $950K lifestyle. It’s all about how people want to live. Even in DC there are people who make it work on $450k if that’s how they want to live.

Sure there’s lifestyle creep, but at a certain point if a family is comfortable priorities switch to other things rather than money. Private school is going to be a stretch still at $450k for two kids unless you want to cut back on other umc luxuries like travel.

Which still concludes that at the top 2% by income for the country, men care about women's careers.

Sorry you didn't marry rich enough.

There isn’t rich enough for me to give up my career, I love what I do. I would quickly give up a husband who didn’t support it, though.

What you don’t understand is at that high income level your husband supports whatever you want. You want to work, great. You want to do a hobby, great. You want to spend time with your children, great. But does he care what you do as long as you guys get along, no.

Funny because both the founder of Facebook and George Clooney both speak publically about how important their wives careers are. They’d be surprised to find out some random internet man considers that a mark of low-income.

Clooney in particular had a fairly wide selection of attractive partners before marrying a human rights lawyer…

Which man has the balls to say he doesn't? They'll be cancelled in before their video goes viral.

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Even if a woman doesn't need or want a career, its not a choice anymore.

1. It make you social outcast.
2. No marriage is divorce proof so its an insurance policy you may need at minute.
3. You are made to believe that your worth is tied to a job, even if menial and unfulfilling.
4. Staying home with kids isn't everyone's cup of tea. In a job you get to dress up, socialize and get a break from kids.

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Anonymous wrote:Combined HHI is around $700k. My husband isn’t going to live a $450K lifestyle just for the privilege of “not caring” about my career. Adequate HHI means outsourcing a lot of the points of tension in a dual-income relationship.

Sure..but your husband isn't high income..enough. Most couples fall in the middle and need dual incoms to live a "$700 K lifestyle". In that case, a woman's career matters. If your DH made 700K by himself this wouldn't matter.

Unless he or the family wanted to live a $950K lifestyle. It’s all about how people want to live. Even in DC there are people who make it work on $450k if that’s how they want to live.

Sure there’s lifestyle creep, but at a certain point if a family is comfortable priorities switch to other things rather than money. Private school is going to be a stretch still at $450k for two kids unless you want to cut back on other umc luxuries like travel.

Which still concludes that at the top 2% by income for the country, men care about women's careers.

Sorry you didn't marry rich enough.

There isn’t rich enough for me to give up my career, I love what I do. I would quickly give up a husband who didn’t support it, though.

What you don’t understand is at that high income level your husband supports whatever you want. You want to work, great. You want to do a hobby, great. You want to spend time with your children, great. But does he care what you do as long as you guys get along, no.

Funny because both the founder of Facebook and George Clooney both speak publically about how important their wives careers are. They’d be surprised to find out some random internet man considers that a mark of low-income.

Clooney in particular had a fairly wide selection of attractive partners before marrying a human rights lawyer…

Which man has the balls to say he doesn't? They'll be cancelled in before their video goes viral.

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Anonymous wrote:Combined HHI is around $700k. My husband isn’t going to live a $450K lifestyle just for the privilege of “not caring” about my career. Adequate HHI means outsourcing a lot of the points of tension in a dual-income relationship.

Sure..but your husband isn't high income..enough. Most couples fall in the middle and need dual incoms to live a "$700 K lifestyle". In that case, a woman's career matters. If your DH made 700K by himself this wouldn't matter.

Unless he or the family wanted to live a $950K lifestyle. It’s all about how people want to live. Even in DC there are people who make it work on $450k if that’s how they want to live.

Sure there’s lifestyle creep, but at a certain point if a family is comfortable priorities switch to other things rather than money. Private school is going to be a stretch still at $450k for two kids unless you want to cut back on other umc luxuries like travel.

Which still concludes that at the top 2% by income for the country, men care about women's careers.

Sorry you didn't marry rich enough.

There isn’t rich enough for me to give up my career, I love what I do. I would quickly give up a husband who didn’t support it, though.

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If men or women cared that much about each other's career, no one would divorce them. Its great to have money and career but in the end, that's not what makes a good marriage. That makes a business partnership. That being said, if it works well for the family life, it can be a great social and financial asset.

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Anonymous wrote:Combined HHI is around $700k. My husband isn’t going to live a $450K lifestyle just for the privilege of “not caring” about my career. Adequate HHI means outsourcing a lot of the points of tension in a dual-income relationship.

Sure..but your husband isn't high income..enough. Most couples fall in the middle and need dual incoms to live a "$700 K lifestyle". In that case, a woman's career matters. If your DH made 700K by himself this wouldn't matter.

Unless he or the family wanted to live a $950K lifestyle. It’s all about how people want to live. Even in DC there are people who make it work on $450k if that’s how they want to live.

Sure there’s lifestyle creep, but at a certain point if a family is comfortable priorities switch to other things rather than money. Private school is going to be a stretch still at $450k for two kids unless you want to cut back on other umc luxuries like travel.

Which still concludes that at the top 2% by income for the country, men care about women's careers.

Sorry you didn't marry rich enough.

There isn’t rich enough for me to give up my career, I love what I do. I would quickly give up a husband who didn’t support it, though.

What you don’t understand is at that high income level your husband supports whatever you want. You want to work, great. You want to do a hobby, great. You want to spend time with your children, great. But does he care what you do as long as you guys get along, no.

Funny because both the founder of Facebook and George Clooney both speak publically about how important their wives careers are. They’d be surprised to find out some random internet man considers that a mark of low-income.

Clooney in particular had a fairly wide selection of attractive partners before marrying a human rights lawyer…

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Less about the career, more about the woman’s mind and character. Making conversation with a bimbo every day for the rest of your life is going to get old.

LOL no. “Muh stimulating conversation” is just a gigantic cope by not-hot women and men who could not pull hot women.

Ask some guy “would you rather have a Deep and Meaningful Conversation with Plain Jane or smash a hot airhead” and he’ll say smash every time.

Though I guess most DCUM men better marry someone who’s good at conversation because after a few years she’ll stop having sex with him and muh stimulating conversation is all he has left.

"Smash" worthy aren't always lifetime material, hotness and beauty fades, good values and mental compatibility lasts a life time. Obviously, a vomplete package is even better but its way beyond average man's reach.

Less about the career, more about the woman’s mind and character. Making conversation with a bimbo every day for the rest of your life is going to get old.

LOL no. “Muh stimulating conversation” is just a gigantic cope by not-hot women and men who could not pull hot women.

Ask some guy “would you rather have a Deep and Meaningful Conversation with Plain Jane or smash a hot airhead” and he’ll say smash every time.

Though I guess most DCUM men better marry someone who’s good at conversation because after a few years she’ll stop having sex with him and muh stimulating conversation is all he has left.

It’s been important to the men I’ve had serious relationships with.