Anonymous
11/06/2020 14:21
Subject: Re:How To Find A SAHM?
Pp here. It shouldn’t be so hard to find what you are looking for. I have met many women who never liked to work. I miss working but want to be with my kids more.
Anonymous
11/06/2020 14:17
Subject: Re:How To Find A SAHM?
I have a friend who wanted this and is twice divorced. No kids. She is an amazing cook, keeps an immaculate house and would have been an amazing mother. She is now 42, almost 43 so not sure if biological kids are in the cards for her.
I was an ambitious career woman, have two masters and never in a million years thought I would be a SAHM. I am now a SAHM of 3 kids. I suck af cooking and cleaning but I love our kids. We outsource a lot of the housework and DH chips in with everything.
I was an ambitious career woman, have two masters and never in a million years thought I would be a SAHM. I am now a SAHM of 3 kids. I suck af cooking and cleaning but I love our kids. We outsource a lot of the housework and DH chips in with everything.
Anonymous
11/06/2020 13:50
Subject: Re:How To Find A SAHM?
Anonymous wrote:OP, I am a SAHM like you describe. Super educated, had a great career, saved a nice chunk of change too. Married to an amazing person for 30 years, two kids, I handle everything including the finances. I have time for my pet causes, charities and projects and I feel fulfilled. My DH just makes the money and spends time with us. I outsource all domestic chores and routine work that I can and spend my time and energy with the kids primarily. Everything is jointly held. My DH loves, respects and honors me. No abuse, addiction, adultery. No pre-nup. Lots of insurance. Everything - retirement, home, college, kids' weddings, kids first homes, trust fund for kids, our favorite charities...everything is paid for.
I am sure there are many women who will be takers for a situation like mine. Are you capable of giving everything to your wife?
You are not a SAHM like OP described. OP already said he wants to keep control of the money and have a prenup.
Anonymous
11/06/2020 13:37
Subject: How To Find A SAHM?
You need to find a women who is not from America with traditional beliefs. I know how this may come across to other women but this is the truth. Western mindsets are far different from South American or Eastern view when it comes to house and family roles.
Anonymous
11/06/2020 13:18
Subject: Re:How To Find A SAHM?
You could get an account on Ashley Madison. There are ton of them there looking for new husbands.
Anonymous
11/06/2020 12:55
Subject: Re:How To Find A SAHM?
OP, I am a SAHM like you describe. Super educated, had a great career, saved a nice chunk of change too. Married to an amazing person for 30 years, two kids, I handle everything including the finances. I have time for my pet causes, charities and projects and I feel fulfilled. My DH just makes the money and spends time with us. I outsource all domestic chores and routine work that I can and spend my time and energy with the kids primarily. Everything is jointly held. My DH loves, respects and honors me. No abuse, addiction, adultery. No pre-nup. Lots of insurance. Everything - retirement, home, college, kids' weddings, kids first homes, trust fund for kids, our favorite charities...everything is paid for.
I am sure there are many women who will be takers for a situation like mine. Are you capable of giving everything to your wife?
I am sure there are many women who will be takers for a situation like mine. Are you capable of giving everything to your wife?
Anonymous
10/24/2020 11:44
Subject: How To Find A SAHM?
OP-this is just sad. Marriage to someone who has similar interests & values as you, to someone you love and want to build a life with, is one of the most rewarding and beautiful things you’ll ever experience in life. But you’re so closed off to that.
I don’t think it’s crazy that you gave goals and hopes for your future life, and that you know what life you’d like abstractly. But you should also be flexible and open to what she wants too. The fact that you had someone you loved & let her go over the prenup thing is very telling. Marriage is a partnership. You’re going into this with the worst attitude.
I don’t think it’s crazy that you gave goals and hopes for your future life, and that you know what life you’d like abstractly. But you should also be flexible and open to what she wants too. The fact that you had someone you loved & let her go over the prenup thing is very telling. Marriage is a partnership. You’re going into this with the worst attitude.
Anonymous
10/23/2020 22:52
Subject: How To Find A SAHM?
Don't feed the troll. This is a troll post.