thespiritreader wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

thespiritreader wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hi Spirit Reader,

My eldest is really struggling. I don’t know whether to push her and give her consequences or to support her and let this play out with continued therapy and treatment. She is still in her room “getting dressed” (it is a bit after noon) and is so far behind on her schoolwork. I don’t know how to rebuild my relationship with her or help her out of this rut. I end up feeling angry. Everything that seems reasonable to me feels really harsh to her.

How can I best help her?

You need to focus her attention outward as she is ruminating too much in her own mind. She needs to do good work in the world and her schoolwork will follow. Find a way to get her out to help others; she will bloom. Go with her if you must, at first.

You aren’t the real spirit reader. You smell of beef and cheese.




Good advice though.

Yep - because I am the real spirit reader. Still dealing with a very busy toddler. But I hope to get back to reading again this summer. If I did this thread now, I would not be able to give everyone the attention they deserve.

I know it is obvious to most that have read my responses (and/or can feel my energy) that it was not me who answered this poster. I find it unusual that someone would elect to say they are me. I imagine this is why others who choose a sign off on this site eventually opt to create a user name. So I have done just that. I care greatly for what I do and those of you who reach out and now it can be clear who is responding, if a request was directed to me. xo with love

- the spirit reader

Hi - that was me and I hope you can also feel my energy. This original thread was started back in June of 2020 in response to a reading I had done about a year or so before (there was a very long thread and I answered a lot of posters). I disappeared for a long time and then popped up at some point in this thread to respond that I had had a baby and just didn't have time to read and see another long thread to the end. It looks like since that time other readers, including you, have began reading for posters, which is fine. I just want people to know that I was the original one from way back then but I am *not* the person who is reading in this thread. Now that you have an account, there should be no confusion. Peace.

I opt not to, it is dark to me. I am the only one to call themselves spirit reader here, and began doing readings here in 2018. I just feel people should know who they are interacting with , sometimes when caught up in difficulty and separated from our own intuitive knowing it's not so clear. So I wish to address this with clarity. You are not the original 'spirit reader'. Stop claiming to be me, or that you were me in the past.

- the spirit reader

Anonymous wrote:Hmmm...
Well, congratulations to anyone with a baby or toddler.

I know, over the years, we’ve had the DCUM Psychic, the spirit reader, and someone who was, I think, a psychic medium.

I wish you all well. My post about my eldest keeps getting quoted... maybe I’ll just try to talk to her therapist while you guys duke it out!

Anonymous wrote:

thespiritreader wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hi Spirit Reader,

My eldest is really struggling. I don’t know whether to push her and give her consequences or to support her and let this play out with continued therapy and treatment. She is still in her room “getting dressed” (it is a bit after noon) and is so far behind on her schoolwork. I don’t know how to rebuild my relationship with her or help her out of this rut. I end up feeling angry. Everything that seems reasonable to me feels really harsh to her.

How can I best help her?

You need to focus her attention outward as she is ruminating too much in her own mind. She needs to do good work in the world and her schoolwork will follow. Find a way to get her out to help others; she will bloom. Go with her if you must, at first.

You aren’t the real spirit reader. You smell of beef and cheese.




Good advice though.

Yep - because I am the real spirit reader. Still dealing with a very busy toddler. But I hope to get back to reading again this summer. If I did this thread now, I would not be able to give everyone the attention they deserve.

I know it is obvious to most that have read my responses (and/or can feel my energy) that it was not me who answered this poster. I find it unusual that someone would elect to say they are me. I imagine this is why others who choose a sign off on this site eventually opt to create a user name. So I have done just that. I care greatly for what I do and those of you who reach out and now it can be clear who is responding, if a request was directed to me. xo with love

- the spirit reader

Hi - that was me and I hope you can also feel my energy. This original thread was started back in June of 2020 in response to a reading I had done about a year or so before (there was a very long thread and I answered a lot of posters). I disappeared for a long time and then popped up at some point in this thread to respond that I had had a baby and just didn't have time to read and see another long thread to the end. It looks like since that time other readers, including you, have began reading for posters, which is fine. I just want people to know that I was the original one from way back then but I am *not* the person who is reading in this thread. Now that you have an account, there should be no confusion. Peace.

thespiritreader wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hi Spirit Reader,

My eldest is really struggling. I don’t know whether to push her and give her consequences or to support her and let this play out with continued therapy and treatment. She is still in her room “getting dressed” (it is a bit after noon) and is so far behind on her schoolwork. I don’t know how to rebuild my relationship with her or help her out of this rut. I end up feeling angry. Everything that seems reasonable to me feels really harsh to her.

How can I best help her?

You need to focus her attention outward as she is ruminating too much in her own mind. She needs to do good work in the world and her schoolwork will follow. Find a way to get her out to help others; she will bloom. Go with her if you must, at first.

You aren’t the real spirit reader. You smell of beef and cheese.




Good advice though.

Yep - because I am the real spirit reader. Still dealing with a very busy toddler. But I hope to get back to reading again this summer. If I did this thread now, I would not be able to give everyone the attention they deserve.

I know it is obvious to most that have read my responses (and/or can feel my energy) that it was not me who answered this poster. I find it unusual that someone would elect to say they are me. I imagine this is why others who choose a sign off on this site eventually opt to create a user name. So I have done just that. I care greatly for what I do and those of you who reach out and now it can be clear who is responding, if a request was directed to me. xo with love

- the spirit reader

thespiritreader wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hi Spirit Reader,

My eldest is really struggling. I don’t know whether to push her and give her consequences or to support her and let this play out with continued therapy and treatment. She is still in her room “getting dressed” (it is a bit after noon) and is so far behind on her schoolwork. I don’t know how to rebuild my relationship with her or help her out of this rut. I end up feeling angry. Everything that seems reasonable to me feels really harsh to her.

How can I best help her?

You need to focus her attention outward as she is ruminating too much in her own mind. She needs to do good work in the world and her schoolwork will follow. Find a way to get her out to help others; she will bloom. Go with her if you must, at first.

You aren’t the real spirit reader. You smell of beef and cheese.




Good advice though.

Yep - because I am the real spirit reader. Still dealing with a very busy toddler. But I hope to get back to reading again this summer. If I did this thread now, I would not be able to give everyone the attention they deserve.

I know it is obvious to most that have read my responses (and/or can feel my energy) that it was not me who answered this poster. I find it unusual that someone would elect to say they are me. I imagine this is why others who choose a sign off on this site eventually opt to create a user name. So I have done just that. I care greatly for what I do and those of you who reach out and now it can be clear who is responding, if a request was directed to me. xo with love

- the spirit reader

thespiritreader wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Yep - because I am the real spirit reader. Still dealing with a very busy toddler. But I hope to get back to reading again this summer. If I did this thread now, I would not be able to give everyone the attention they deserve.

I know it is obvious to most that have read my responses (and/or can feel my energy) that it was not me who answered this poster. I find it unusual that someone would elect to say they are me. I imagine this is why others who choose a sign off on this site eventually opt to create a user name. So I have done just that. I care greatly for what I do and those of you who reach out and now it can be clear who is responding, if a request was directed to me. xo with love

- the spirit reader

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hi Spirit Reader,

My eldest is really struggling. I don’t know whether to push her and give her consequences or to support her and let this play out with continued therapy and treatment. She is still in her room “getting dressed” (it is a bit after noon) and is so far behind on her schoolwork. I don’t know how to rebuild my relationship with her or help her out of this rut. I end up feeling angry. Everything that seems reasonable to me feels really harsh to her.

How can I best help her?

You need to focus her attention outward as she is ruminating too much in her own mind. She needs to do good work in the world and her schoolwork will follow. Find a way to get her out to help others; she will bloom. Go with her if you must, at first.

You aren’t the real spirit reader. You smell of beef and cheese.




Good advice though.

Yep - because I am the real spirit reader. Still dealing with a very busy toddler. But I hope to get back to reading again this summer. If I did this thread now, I would not be able to give everyone the attention they deserve.