Anonymous wrote:Jennifer garner visiting Ben at his rental. Alone. JLO is going to explode.

Garner was at the school play so she probably is equally stunned about the PR stunt J Lo pulled and probably embarrassed paps were called outside of her kids school so now everyone knows the address . Paps can invade Finns privacy

Anonymous wrote:He made sure he was seen ringless for the paparazzi. Payback for her school stunt

School stunt?

Jennifer garner visiting Ben at his rental. Alone. JLO is going to explode.

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Anonymous wrote:He made sure he was seen ringless for the paparazzi. Payback for her school stunt

Makes sense. Pulling yet another PR stunt, especially involving his kids, must have enraged him.

Photographed again without his ring. Arm hanging out of his car when he knows photogs are there. Definitely deliberate. https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-13434385/Ben-Affleck-without-wedding-ring-meet-Jennifer-Garner-daughter-Violet.html

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Anonymous wrote:My take on Jlo is that being loved by a man like Ben affleck is validating to her. It was validating to her in her thirties, when she was up and coming, to be loved by a handsome a list movie star. He broke her heart and shattered her ego. He ended up being a lot more damaged that people realized at the time, but has come to obvious light since. When he came back, twenty years later, she made a foolish mistake going back to him and it blew up in her face, because he still has the same issues and so does she.

Ben was her peak in terms of partners and she knows it. She seems like she has a listening problem .

Everyone in her family apparently told her marrying a freaking waiter as a burgeoning movie star , marrying a backup dancer at the peak of her career as a movie star, dating and going to parties with a rap producer when he’s associated with two fatal gun incidents with famous rappers in the 90s would be a bad idea . She went ahead anyway. Surprised that the results were 2 quickie divorces and a nightclub shooting ..

She believes in astrology more than what her own family or team have to say. Very nutty woman.

At least she owns up to the messes in her life. In that part she’s endearing.

I think this might break her though because this time she isn’t the one walking away. It’s the man . Also, most of the fault for the breakdown of the relationship was based on her behavior not the man’s

Yeah. Despite his issues, he is in a different league compared to her other partners. No wonder she was obsessed with getting him back, and she succeeded, but needed everyone to partake in her success. Their story looked so much better without all the info she put out there.

Perhaps it all comes back to saying F U to everyone who doubted her, laughed at her, told her she was over. She couldn't just come back with Ben after Bennifer imploded, and her career hasn't been taken seriously, and her parenting has been questioned. She had to say, "See, I win! F U Alex Rodriguez, F U Mom, F U haters, F U tabloids, fashion houses and Hollywood. I made it and the A-list man I wanted came back and I HAVE IT ALL"

Problem was she couldn't just be satisfied (and smug) on her own. She had to literally make a major production out of her conquest. And her husband and children (and fans) all said, No thank you.

She didn't even have to be smug on her own. We already knew she was back with him. The haters all saw that he was in love with her (again). It really looked like he kind of didn't get over her all those years - obviously, not completely. The 20mil cringefest was not needed to drive this point. In fact, it took away from it. Honestly, I am not sure I have even seen such a self-own, publicly or privately.

Anonymous wrote:He made sure he was seen ringless for the paparazzi. Payback for her school stunt

Makes sense. Pulling yet another PR stunt, especially involving his kids, must have enraged him.

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Anonymous wrote:My take on Jlo is that being loved by a man like Ben affleck is validating to her. It was validating to her in her thirties, when she was up and coming, to be loved by a handsome a list movie star. He broke her heart and shattered her ego. He ended up being a lot more damaged that people realized at the time, but has come to obvious light since. When he came back, twenty years later, she made a foolish mistake going back to him and it blew up in her face, because he still has the same issues and so does she.

Ben was her peak in terms of partners and she knows it. She seems like she has a listening problem .

Everyone in her family apparently told her marrying a freaking waiter as a burgeoning movie star , marrying a backup dancer at the peak of her career as a movie star, dating and going to parties with a rap producer when he’s associated with two fatal gun incidents with famous rappers in the 90s would be a bad idea . She went ahead anyway. Surprised that the results were 2 quickie divorces and a nightclub shooting ..

She believes in astrology more than what her own family or team have to say. Very nutty woman.

At least she owns up to the messes in her life. In that part she’s endearing.

I think this might break her though because this time she isn’t the one walking away. It’s the man . Also, most of the fault for the breakdown of the relationship was based on her behavior not the man’s

Yeah. Despite his issues, he is in a different league compared to her other partners. No wonder she was obsessed with getting him back, and she succeeded, but needed everyone to partake in her success. Their story looked so much better without all the info she put out there.

Perhaps it all comes back to saying F U to everyone who doubted her, laughed at her, told her she was over. She couldn't just come back with Ben after Bennifer imploded, and her career hasn't been taken seriously, and her parenting has been questioned. She had to say, "See, I win! F U Alex Rodriguez, F U Mom, F U haters, F U tabloids, fashion houses and Hollywood. I made it and the A-list man I wanted came back and I HAVE IT ALL"

Problem was she couldn't just be satisfied (and smug) on her own. She had to literally make a major production out of her conquest. And her husband and children (and fans) all said, No thank you.

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Anonymous wrote:My take on Jlo is that being loved by a man like Ben affleck is validating to her. It was validating to her in her thirties, when she was up and coming, to be loved by a handsome a list movie star. He broke her heart and shattered her ego. He ended up being a lot more damaged that people realized at the time, but has come to obvious light since. When he came back, twenty years later, she made a foolish mistake going back to him and it blew up in her face, because he still has the same issues and so does she.

Ben was her peak in terms of partners and she knows it. She seems like she has a listening problem .

Everyone in her family apparently told her marrying a freaking waiter as a burgeoning movie star , marrying a backup dancer at the peak of her career as a movie star, dating and going to parties with a rap producer when he’s associated with two fatal gun incidents with famous rappers in the 90s would be a bad idea . She went ahead anyway. Surprised that the results were 2 quickie divorces and a nightclub shooting ..

She believes in astrology more than what her own family or team have to say. Very nutty woman.

At least she owns up to the messes in her life. In that part she’s endearing.

I think this might break her though because this time she isn’t the one walking away. It’s the man . Also, most of the fault for the breakdown of the relationship was based on her behavior not the man’s

Yeah. Despite his issues, he is in a different league compared to her other partners. No wonder she was obsessed with getting him back, and she succeeded, but needed everyone to partake in her success. Their story looked so much better without all the info she put out there.

Not to mention he’s also dealing with her two teenagers, and definitely comparing notes with how his kids are with their mother .

It’s all too much to deal with.

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Anonymous wrote:My take on Jlo is that being loved by a man like Ben affleck is validating to her. It was validating to her in her thirties, when she was up and coming, to be loved by a handsome a list movie star. He broke her heart and shattered her ego. He ended up being a lot more damaged that people realized at the time, but has come to obvious light since. When he came back, twenty years later, she made a foolish mistake going back to him and it blew up in her face, because he still has the same issues and so does she.

Ben was her peak in terms of partners and she knows it. She seems like she has a listening problem .

Everyone in her family apparently told her marrying a freaking waiter as a burgeoning movie star , marrying a backup dancer at the peak of her career as a movie star, dating and going to parties with a rap producer when he’s associated with two fatal gun incidents with famous rappers in the 90s would be a bad idea . She went ahead anyway. Surprised that the results were 2 quickie divorces and a nightclub shooting ..

She believes in astrology more than what her own family or team have to say. Very nutty woman.

At least she owns up to the messes in her life. In that part she’s endearing.

I think this might break her though because this time she isn’t the one walking away. It’s the man . Also, most of the fault for the breakdown of the relationship was based on her behavior not the man’s

Yeah. Despite his issues, he is in a different league compared to her other partners. No wonder she was obsessed with getting him back, and she succeeded, but needed everyone to partake in her success. Their story looked so much better without all the info she put out there.

She's doing something that people do who have had a little bit of therapy and treatment, but haven't yet truly worked their trauma through. She feels better but she's not really better.

She also took on promoting an alcoholic line last year and would make promo videos in her kitchen mixing up cocktails herself . This is terrible for an addict like Ben.

There’s never been a paycheck J Lo didn’t love. She famously doesn’t even drink so she was criticized for promoting a cocktail line

Anonymous wrote:My take on Jlo is that being loved by a man like Ben affleck is validating to her. It was validating to her in her thirties, when she was up and coming, to be loved by a handsome a list movie star. He broke her heart and shattered her ego. He ended up being a lot more damaged that people realized at the time, but has come to obvious light since. When he came back, twenty years later, she made a foolish mistake going back to him and it blew up in her face, because he still has the same issues and so does she.

Ben was her peak in terms of partners and she knows it. She seems like she has a listening problem .

Everyone in her family apparently told her marrying a freaking waiter as a burgeoning movie star , marrying a backup dancer at the peak of her career as a movie star, dating and going to parties with a rap producer when he’s associated with two fatal gun incidents with famous rappers in the 90s would be a bad idea . She went ahead anyway. Surprised that the results were 2 quickie divorces and a nightclub shooting ..

She believes in astrology more than what her own family or team have to say. Very nutty woman.

At least she owns up to the messes in her life. In that part she’s endearing.

I think this might break her though because this time she isn’t the one walking away. It’s the man . Also, most of the fault for the breakdown of the relationship was based on her behavior not the man’s

Anonymous wrote:He made sure he was seen ringless for the paparazzi. Payback for her school stunt

Yes.

Anonymous wrote:I really wanted them to go the distance. This is so disappointing!

I never thought they would go the distance, but I also didn't think their union would be over THIS fast! It's so embarrassing.

I really wanted them to go the distance. This is so disappointing!