Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:A surveillance video was released from inside the restaurant where the victim went after she was stabbed. She's blurred out but you can see people running away from her.
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-6189359/Police-arrest-suspect-fatal-stabbing-newly-engaged-DC-jogger.html
that was posted above. I know it's natural to want to get away but DAMN that one guy is a coward. The store owner tried to help and others apparently ran in as well (not in video).
I hope the man and woman seen scrambling away in the video have told everyone they know that they were there when she came into the restaurant, and that their friends, family and coworkers all see the video. Cowards. Not to mention stupid to run out into the street where the attack had just happened.
Too bad you weren't there to be the hero.
Monday morning quarterbacking at its finest.
It's hard to pass judgement on how the restaurant patrons reacted if you've never been in a similar situation. It must have been very scary for a bleeding woman to run in like that.
Well, it’s a good thing that there are courageous people in the world to fill in for all the cowards then, isn’t it?
I think that's a bit harsh. In the moment you have no idea how you'd react. Of course you want to believe you would do the right thing but you really don't know.
Bs.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:For those saying she died alone - she didn’t. Two bystanders, including a nurse, and the store manager were with her. She even managed to speak them. Maybe do some research before blabbing your mouths.
We also don’t know that the two that fled didn’t actually run outside to get help from others. I could see how you might run out and yell “help!” I thought in the original news story, they said two people ran to get help.
Anonymous wrote:For those saying she died alone - she didn’t. Two bystanders, including a nurse, and the store manager were with her. She even managed to speak them. Maybe do some research before blabbing your mouths.
Anonymous wrote:I drove through about an hour ago, and there is such a heavy police presence. I know they had a press conference earlier, but is it really necessarily to have 17 different squad cars on the circle right *now* during the evening rush?
Anonymous wrote:I drove through about an hour ago, and there is such a heavy police presence. I know they had a press conference earlier, but is it really necessarily to have 17 different squad cars on the circle right *now* during the evening rush?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Please stop with bashing the people who fled the restaurant. People do strange things when startled like that. They had no time to think. Some people are just bad in emergency situations. Some people faint at the sight of blood. I know for a fact that I would have been the one performing the CPR on her, because I've been in emergency situations before. But I am able to recognize that people are not all built the same way.
I was just listening to an audiobook about an hour ago that said that people who respond well in emergency situations like this are highly empathetic people. They are courageous, of course, but having empathy for others in distress is what causes them to act.
i think it's hard to predict how you would react in the moment, whether you are an empathetic person or not. i'm sure for many a very instinctive fight or flight response kicks in when you see all that blood. i would think getting hands-on first aid training to desensitize you a bit to blood and to have some muscle memory kick in to counter that instinctive panicked response would help. hope i never have to find out how i would react in such a terrible situation.
+1 I was shocked by the video of people fleeing too, but it is absolutely true none of us knows how we'd respond. I'm heartbroken at the thought of her dying with no-one comforting her though, and truly hope that was not the case.
Anonymous wrote:I drove through about an hour ago, and there is such a heavy police presence. I know they had a press conference earlier, but is it really necessarily to have 17 different squad cars on the circle right *now* during the evening rush?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Please stop with bashing the people who fled the restaurant. People do strange things when startled like that. They had no time to think. Some people are just bad in emergency situations. Some people faint at the sight of blood. I know for a fact that I would have been the one performing the CPR on her, because I've been in emergency situations before. But I am able to recognize that people are not all built the same way.
I was just listening to an audiobook about an hour ago that said that people who respond well in emergency situations like this are highly empathetic people. They are courageous, of course, but having empathy for others in distress is what causes them to act.
i think it's hard to predict how you would react in the moment, whether you are an empathetic person or not. i'm sure for many a very instinctive fight or flight response kicks in when you see all that blood. i would think getting hands-on first aid training to desensitize you a bit to blood and to have some muscle memory kick in to counter that instinctive panicked response would help. hope i never have to find out how i would react in such a terrible situation.
+1 I was shocked by the video of people fleeing too, but it is absolutely true none of us knows how we'd respond. I'm heartbroken at the thought of her dying with no-one comforting her though, and truly hope that was not the case.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Please stop with bashing the people who fled the restaurant. People do strange things when startled like that. They had no time to think. Some people are just bad in emergency situations. Some people faint at the sight of blood. I know for a fact that I would have been the one performing the CPR on her, because I've been in emergency situations before. But I am able to recognize that people are not all built the same way.
I was just listening to an audiobook about an hour ago that said that people who respond well in emergency situations like this are highly empathetic people. They are courageous, of course, but having empathy for others in distress is what causes them to act.
i think it's hard to predict how you would react in the moment, whether you are an empathetic person or not. i'm sure for many a very instinctive fight or flight response kicks in when you see all that blood. i would think getting hands-on first aid training to desensitize you a bit to blood and to have some muscle memory kick in to counter that instinctive panicked response would help. hope i never have to find out how i would react in such a terrible situation.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Please stop with bashing the people who fled the restaurant. People do strange things when startled like that. They had no time to think. Some people are just bad in emergency situations. Some people faint at the sight of blood. I know for a fact that I would have been the one performing the CPR on her, because I've been in emergency situations before. But I am able to recognize that people are not all built the same way.
I was just listening to an audiobook about an hour ago that said that people who respond well in emergency situations like this are highly empathetic people. They are courageous, of course, but having empathy for others in distress is what causes them to act.
Anonymous wrote:There’s also a video of when she first ran in to the restaurant where she’s not blurred out and it looks like that girl ran up to help her, but maybe not...
I can’t figure out how to put it here.
Anonymous wrote:Please stop with bashing the people who fled the restaurant. People do strange things when startled like that. They had no time to think. Some people are just bad in emergency situations. Some people faint at the sight of blood. I know for a fact that I would have been the one performing the CPR on her, because I've been in emergency situations before. But I am able to recognize that people are not all built the same way.