Anonymous
Post 01/31/2026 20:06     Subject: 2014G

I love all the McLean coaches on here trying to stir the pot. Negative recruiting is the only way they can attract talent over there. Sleazy all the way
Anonymous
Post 01/31/2026 18:39     Subject: 2014G

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Anonymous wrote:Its not like the club announces that the team your kid is getting an offer for has a parent coach and BFF situation. You don't know until its too late.


That team has mostly been the same group for like 4 years and it's not the first time he's coached them. So try again lol


We all know he doesn’t care and will remain the TD at NVA. Parents stay only if their kids are favorites, friends, or starters; those who can’t accept it leave. He brings in outside players to play up just to collect payments. Last year, the roster was announced as 20 players only after everyone had paid. Others are benched or sent down repeatedly. It’s a vicious cycle. My kid isn’t even on his team, but as long as he has a role as TD, I will take my kid elsewhere next season.


The team is literally the same besides a few additions and a couple that went Loudoun, nobody left. I can't speak for next season but seemingly the only ones with the issue are outside the bubble. You're trying to stir but you're not cooking.
Anonymous
Post 01/31/2026 18:21     Subject: 2014G

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Anonymous wrote:Its not like the club announces that the team your kid is getting an offer for has a parent coach and BFF situation. You don't know until its too late.


That team has mostly been the same group for like 4 years and it's not the first time he's coached them. So try again lol


We all know he doesn’t care and will remain the TD at NVA. Parents stay only if their kids are favorites, friends, or starters; those who can’t accept it leave. He brings in outside players to play up just to collect payments. Last year, the roster was announced as 20 players only after everyone had paid. Others are benched or sent down repeatedly. It’s a vicious cycle. My kid isn’t even on his team, but as long as he has a role as TD, I will take my kid elsewhere next season.
Anonymous
Post 01/31/2026 11:41     Subject: 2014G

Anonymous wrote:Its not like the club announces that the team your kid is getting an offer for has a parent coach and BFF situation. You don't know until its too late.


That team has mostly been the same group for like 4 years and it's not the first time he's coached them. So try again lol
Anonymous
Post 01/31/2026 11:41     Subject: 2014G

Anonymous wrote:Its not like the club announces that the team your kid is getting an offer for has a parent coach and BFF situation. You don't know until it’s too late.
Everyone knows it’s his kid. This is no surprise. Yet, people still sign up for it. Also you are seeing it the wrong way, he is proposing the development of his kid over the teammates.
Anonymous
Post 01/31/2026 11:41     Subject: 2014G

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Anonymous wrote:I would never pay for a travel team with a parent coach. Hell no. And a best friend too? Pass.


Yes, definitely ask this question because clubs that do have parent volunteer coaches don't like to advertise it.
They are talking about Coach Daddy. Girls have no problem playing for him because what are you going to do, go elsewhere?


I think the bigger issue is if NVA will allow all those girls to continue to play up. I'm sure some parents are already starting some drama if the daughter is allowed to, but not anyone else.


The girls already playing up a year already will not be moved down, one of which technically should be moved 2 years down. It has already been discussed so those 3 spots are not getting replaced for u14 NVA
No special treatment from Coach Daddy other than playing his kid up two years.


You can't even stir the pot right, you're probably the same one that said he's also coaching his niece 🤣🤣🤣


You know he was right. That girl is Q4 2014, and with the new age group rule she’ll have to be in U12 next season. But of course, coach daddy will keep her on his U14 team and instead cut a couple of Q4 2013–2014 kids, just not his own. I’m sure you know this too, so don’t try to change the subject. That’s the fact!


Actually no I don't clock little girls birthdays, I guess I might be the only one that thinks that's weird and disturbing.


The family member can’t defend it so they turn it around on everyone else for bringing it up.


Would the kid playing 2 years up for coach Daddy be afforded the same opportunity at literally any other GA/ECNL club? I think we all know the answer.


GA, for sure. I can think of several.

Probably not ECNL.


Nobody will take her. She’s good, but definitely not great for playing two years up. She’s about half the size of the other girls on the field and gets bounced around by the bigger girls. Her speed and skills don’t match the level of a typical U14 ECNL/GA player.
Anonymous
Post 01/31/2026 11:34     Subject: 2014G

Its not like the club announces that the team your kid is getting an offer for has a parent coach and BFF situation. You don't know until its too late.
Anonymous
Post 01/31/2026 11:30     Subject: 2014G

It’s sad a club would let parents dictate where a kid is placed. You know those kids aren’t asking to play up 2 years and if they are it’s to only play with friends.

They are basically prioritizing playing with friends over other kids development.
Anonymous
Post 01/31/2026 11:13     Subject: 2014G

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Anonymous wrote:I would never pay for a travel team with a parent coach. Hell no. And a best friend too? Pass.


Yes, definitely ask this question because clubs that do have parent volunteer coaches don't like to advertise it.
They are talking about Coach Daddy. Girls have no problem playing for him because what are you going to do, go elsewhere?


I think the bigger issue is if NVA will allow all those girls to continue to play up. I'm sure some parents are already starting some drama if the daughter is allowed to, but not anyone else.


The girls already playing up a year already will not be moved down, one of which technically should be moved 2 years down. It has already been discussed so those 3 spots are not getting replaced for u14 NVA
No special treatment from Coach Daddy other than playing his kid up two years.


You can't even stir the pot right, you're probably the same one that said he's also coaching his niece 🤣🤣🤣


You know he was right. That girl is Q4 2014, and with the new age group rule she’ll have to be in U12 next season. But of course, coach daddy will keep her on his U14 team and instead cut a couple of Q4 2013–2014 kids, just not his own. I’m sure you know this too, so don’t try to change the subject. That’s the fact!


Actually no I don't clock little girls birthdays, I guess I might be the only one that thinks that's weird and disturbing.


The family member can’t defend it so they turn it around on everyone else for bringing it up.


If you're so passionate about it bring it up at practice today. Otherwise you need to channel your energy elsewhere because you really are presenting yourself in a weird way looking up birthdays and supposed family members of 12 year olds.


Lol yeah right, none of the fools have balls in real life. Just virtually 🤣


“Oh, you have a problem with your coach? Why don’t you just file a report with the TD?”

Whoops


If you got enough parents involved something could potentially happen but once again that takes real balls to talk about someone else's kid and air your personal grievances in person and not whining anonymously online 🤣. Got nothing to do with this situation but after a couple pages I'm tired of reading about it unless someone actually does something.
Anonymous
Post 01/31/2026 11:13     Subject: 2014G

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Anonymous wrote:I don't know these people but only a fool would sign up for a Daddy Coach team. Therr are dozens of other teams with professional coaches nearby.


Which is why the whining falls on deaf ears.
Does Coach Daddy also have her practicing with the boys? I just don’t get why people put up with this.
Anonymous
Post 01/31/2026 11:08     Subject: 2014G

Anonymous wrote:I don't know these people but only a fool would sign up for a Daddy Coach team. Therr are dozens of other teams with professional coaches nearby.


Which is why the whining falls on deaf ears.
Anonymous
Post 01/31/2026 10:53     Subject: 2014G

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Anonymous wrote:I would never pay for a travel team with a parent coach. Hell no. And a best friend too? Pass.


Yes, definitely ask this question because clubs that do have parent volunteer coaches don't like to advertise it.
They are talking about Coach Daddy. Girls have no problem playing for him because what are you going to do, go elsewhere?


I think the bigger issue is if NVA will allow all those girls to continue to play up. I'm sure some parents are already starting some drama if the daughter is allowed to, but not anyone else.


The girls already playing up a year already will not be moved down, one of which technically should be moved 2 years down. It has already been discussed so those 3 spots are not getting replaced for u14 NVA
No special treatment from Coach Daddy other than playing his kid up two years.


You can't even stir the pot right, you're probably the same one that said he's also coaching his niece 🤣🤣🤣


You know he was right. That girl is Q4 2014, and with the new age group rule she’ll have to be in U12 next season. But of course, coach daddy will keep her on his U14 team and instead cut a couple of Q4 2013–2014 kids, just not his own. I’m sure you know this too, so don’t try to change the subject. That’s the fact!


Actually no I don't clock little girls birthdays, I guess I might be the only one that thinks that's weird and disturbing.


The family member can’t defend it so they turn it around on everyone else for bringing it up.


Would the kid playing 2 years up for coach Daddy be afforded the same opportunity at literally any other GA/ECNL club? I think we all know the answer.


GA, for sure. I can think of several.

Probably not ECNL.


TSJ/ Coach 22 is calling
Anonymous
Post 01/31/2026 10:45     Subject: 2014G

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Anonymous wrote:I would never pay for a travel team with a parent coach. Hell no. And a best friend too? Pass.


Yes, definitely ask this question because clubs that do have parent volunteer coaches don't like to advertise it.
They are talking about Coach Daddy. Girls have no problem playing for him because what are you going to do, go elsewhere?


I think the bigger issue is if NVA will allow all those girls to continue to play up. I'm sure some parents are already starting some drama if the daughter is allowed to, but not anyone else.


The girls already playing up a year already will not be moved down, one of which technically should be moved 2 years down. It has already been discussed so those 3 spots are not getting replaced for u14 NVA
No special treatment from Coach Daddy other than playing his kid up two years.


You can't even stir the pot right, you're probably the same one that said he's also coaching his niece 🤣🤣🤣


You know he was right. That girl is Q4 2014, and with the new age group rule she’ll have to be in U12 next season. But of course, coach daddy will keep her on his U14 team and instead cut a couple of Q4 2013–2014 kids, just not his own. I’m sure you know this too, so don’t try to change the subject. That’s the fact!


Actually no I don't clock little girls birthdays, I guess I might be the only one that thinks that's weird and disturbing.


The family member can’t defend it so they turn it around on everyone else for bringing it up.


If you're so passionate about it bring it up at practice today. Otherwise you need to channel your energy elsewhere because you really are presenting yourself in a weird way looking up birthdays and supposed family members of 12 year olds.


Lol yeah right, none of the fools have balls in real life. Just virtually 🤣


“Oh, you have a problem with your coach? Why don’t you just file a report with the TD?”

Whoops
Anonymous
Post 01/31/2026 10:43     Subject: 2014G

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Anonymous wrote:I would never pay for a travel team with a parent coach. Hell no. And a best friend too? Pass.


Yes, definitely ask this question because clubs that do have parent volunteer coaches don't like to advertise it.
They are talking about Coach Daddy. Girls have no problem playing for him because what are you going to do, go elsewhere?


I think the bigger issue is if NVA will allow all those girls to continue to play up. I'm sure some parents are already starting some drama if the daughter is allowed to, but not anyone else.


The girls already playing up a year already will not be moved down, one of which technically should be moved 2 years down. It has already been discussed so those 3 spots are not getting replaced for u14 NVA
No special treatment from Coach Daddy other than playing his kid up two years.


You can't even stir the pot right, you're probably the same one that said he's also coaching his niece 🤣🤣🤣


You know he was right. That girl is Q4 2014, and with the new age group rule she’ll have to be in U12 next season. But of course, coach daddy will keep her on his U14 team and instead cut a couple of Q4 2013–2014 kids, just not his own. I’m sure you know this too, so don’t try to change the subject. That’s the fact!


Actually no I don't clock little girls birthdays, I guess I might be the only one that thinks that's weird and disturbing.


The family member can’t defend it so they turn it around on everyone else for bringing it up.


Would the kid playing 2 years up for coach Daddy be afforded the same opportunity at literally any other GA/ECNL club? I think we all know the answer.


GA, for sure. I can think of several.

Probably not ECNL.
Anonymous
Post 01/31/2026 10:41     Subject: 2014G

I don't know these people but only a fool would sign up for a Daddy Coach team. Therr are dozens of other teams with professional coaches nearby.